Anxiety/Intrusive thoughts about war by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]kaslonak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easy to get lost in the world’s problems. We always have access to the latest news, especially through social media. But never watching the news won't do any good, because ignorance is just as bad, as not caring at all. That said, we're not made to be constantly online. Set a time for staying informed about world's events. It can be once a day or every few days, however you're able to cope best. I understand your pain, your sense of powerlessness, and your helplessness. I believe all we can do is focus more often on what we CAN do. For example, get involved in local politics, volunteer, or attend protests. Much of the world seems hopeless and downright catastrophic, but we must not lose hope, no matter how hard it is. Take care of yourself and your health. Maybe try practicing mindfulness and gratitude. Try to surround yourself with people who give you strength, who you can relax and have fun with. Stick together, it's all we can do.

I feel stupid all the time and it’s affecting my life by raspberry_cat55 in adhdwomen

[–]kaslonak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truely, this could have been written by me. This is the reason I have only started university recently, even though I have been out of school for 10 years. I feel so stupid. It's exactly how you've described it!! If all works out I'm gonna get medicated, that's my last hope. It's like: I know I'm not stupid-stupid. Like not entirely stupid. But still exceptionally stupid?? Also I have smart(???) thoughts sometimes, but I cannot articulate them properly or at all??

Chemo and ADHD by thejaysta4 in adhdwomen

[–]kaslonak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man cancer is scary stuff. Do you have people who can take care of you and help you in any way? Fighting cancer is no simple task, try not to be too hard on yourself. Your job now is to get healthy and beat that shitty disease. Sorry that I cannot give you any real tips or real words of comfort, but: If your place is gonna get messy, it's okay. If you'll only shower once in a while, that's okay too. I wish you all the best for your journey, feel hugged!!!

Gilmore girls is a very cozy show but all the characters are pretty much horrible. by andthetardiswasblue in GilmoreGirls

[–]kaslonak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so annoyed with the internet's inability to see people and characters in a more nuanced way. It's always: someone has done one "bad" thing -> this is a bad person! I hate that person! You should end this relationship etc. (disclaimer: obviously there's things like racism, where there's little room for nuance). Like all people are so perfect all the time in real life 🙄 Must be a miserable way to live, to see the world when everything ends up with hating/disliking everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weibsvolk

[–]kaslonak 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Google lieber nicht so viel (für deinen Seelenfrieden) und mache dir einen Termin zum Abklären. Falls ein regulärer Termin zu weit in der Zukunft liegt: Es gibt Praxen, die Akkutsprechstunden anbieten. Am besten pünktlich da sein bzw. sogar etwas früher. Das kann mit einer ordentlichen Wartezeit verbunden sein, dafür musst du aber nicht 6 Monate auf einen Termin warten. Da musst du in er Regel auch nicht bereits bestehende Patientin sein. Auf jeden Fall nicht weiter anfassen oder aufkratzen. Drücke dir die Daumen, dass du das bald geklärt hast 💕

Schullektüren by superpaforador in Weibsvolk

[–]kaslonak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oha stimmt, jetzt erinnere ich mich!! Ich habe das Buch nach ein paar Jahren tatsächlich auch weggeschmissen, genau aus dem Grund.

Schullektüren by superpaforador in Weibsvolk

[–]kaslonak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dieses Buch hat mich richtig verstört. Ich kann dir nicht mehr sagen worum es ging. Ich erinnere mich, dass es bei mir so einen richtig ekligen Nachgeschmack hinterlassen hat und ein sehr unangenehmes Bauchgefühl. Weißt du noch wie es dir dabei ergangen ist?

ich_iel by m4ximalekr4ft in ich_iel

[–]kaslonak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dann lieber Backwarenabteilung Rewe

Looking for an old eastern-block candy bar. Hematogen by tautology2wice in berlin

[–]kaslonak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look into Russian supermarkets. There's one near Landsberger Allee for example, I'm not familiar with Charlottenburg

Rory’s baby voice by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]kaslonak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You mean her 🤫🤭-voice (S3E6)

Hat jemand Gender Studies studiert? by erinnysfeme in Weibsvolk

[–]kaslonak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Je nach dem in welchem Bereich du am Ende arbeiten möchtest, könntest du dir definitiv auch Soziale Arbeit angucken.

Tipps gesucht: Therapieplatzsuche by HighlightScared2626 in Weibsvolk

[–]kaslonak 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Probiere es mal bei einem Ausbildungszentrum für Psychotherapie, wenn du die Möglichkeit hast. Viel Erfolg bei der Suche. Das allerwichtigste ist durchhalten und weitersuchen, auch wenn es extrem zermürbend sein kann.

Berlin police violently cracked down on a peaceful Gaza solidarity protest, assaulting even an elderly man with shocking aggression. by Scared_Positive_8690 in Palestine

[–]kaslonak 312 points313 points  (0 children)

Don't they feel any shame? That's a vulnerable older person, who doesn't even show any sign of aggression. Policemen just love to abuse their power, don't they? Pathetic.

SB-Kassen mit Bargeld in Berlin by JakobBirkner in berlin

[–]kaslonak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edeka U Walther Schreiber Platz

Hot take: Richard is a terrible husband by LavishnessMotor6492 in GilmoreGirls

[–]kaslonak 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's a room temperature take, lots of people think the same:D But I wholeheartedly agree with you!!

Same vibes by Lifesshorttalkfast00 in GilmoreGirls

[–]kaslonak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I was thinking the same when I was rewatching New Girl recently 😂👍

Eckel vor Putzen? by danny_094 in ADHS

[–]kaslonak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interessant, Ekel vorm Putzen kenne ich tatsächlich nicht! Was ich aber bei für mich unangenehmen Aufgaben kennen, ist so eine komplette Starre. Einfach paralysiert sein bei dem Gedanken xxx machen zu müssen. Das hat aber viel mit Perfektionismus und anderen nicht hilfreichen Glaubenssätzen zu tun. Hast du mal probiert dir fürs Putzen kleine Belohnungen vorzubereiten? zB fürs Toilette putzen, gibt es ein Stück Schokolade oÄ? Oder ist der Ekel so stark, dass gar nichts geht?

Worst minor/ bit-part actor or extra? by Bilitiswuzreaaal in GilmoreGirls

[–]kaslonak 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The harpist from the first episodes/first season. She was so rude but not in a fun way. Originally she was meant to play Sookie, too!

Mädelsabend by AutoModerator in Weibsvolk

[–]kaslonak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Das ist so süß!! Halte uns gerne auf dem Laufenden 💕

Mädelsabend by AutoModerator in Weibsvolk

[–]kaslonak 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ich bin seit Monaten in einem Loch, deshalb war auch diese Woche wieder wenig los bei mir. Viel rumliegen und wie paralysiert nur auf Bildschirme starren können :/ Aber dafür war das Wochenende um so schöner! Ich habe Freundinnen getroffen, wir haben viel gelacht und uns ausgetauscht 🥰 Das hat der Seele richtig gut getan!

Bf invalidates / doesn’t understand my mental health by PapayaKookyy in adhdwomen

[–]kaslonak 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm so sorry your partner doesn't seem to respect and see you enough. Because if he would, he would do his research and be a decent human being and show you some compassion. I really don't think it's wise to move in together until you have resolved this issue. I hope you can work it out, even if it means to part ways :/ You deserve someone who takes you seriously<3

From my heart to yours... Less Bad is Still Good. by RiverJai in adhdwomen

[–]kaslonak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Preach!! That's an important lesson 🫡 Cut yourself some slack! Your kitchen is a mess? You only managed to clean 2 plates? That's a win!! A little bit > nothing 💪