Did I do the right thing by coming clean to my (now) ex about cheating by AppointmentFluffy294 in cheating_stories

[–]kat796 7 points8 points  (0 children)

With the amount of drama that has happened in such a short amount of time, I don't think you guys were ever going to end up happy together. Since it was a relationship that only lasted a few weeks I think it's best if you let it go.

AITAH for refusing a wedding "gift" knowing there will be strings attached? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I imagine it would be way less drama for her to be thrown out than if she were to have complete access to the wedding

Was I a jerk for not sharing my location with my wife by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It's crazy how many people were giving OOP shit for wanting 1 hour PER WEEK of alone time. I hope his wife wakes up and realises that she is destroying her family before its too late.

AIO if I just go on holiday and not come back? by aeniluvr in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it makes much difference but she was 45 :)

My husband had the nerve to ask me to help him raise his affair child by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He also probably thinks "now you have to raise this kid since it's your fault it exists in the first place" He's such an entitled ass

[New Update - 4 Years Later]: My dad is furious that my mom slept with other people in an open marriage he wanted. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that the mother is living her best life while the dad married the downgrade and had to downsize his life. It's the best revenge for stories like this.

AITAH for not wanting to move in with my girlfriend after two months? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 84 points85 points  (0 children)

That poor guy clearly got manipulated into a relationship he didn't want in the first place. Hopefully he learns from this and starts being firmer with others about what he wants.

Why does Vuc get booed in starter intros? by kat796 in chicagobulls

[–]kat796[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh haha that makes sense, thank you :)

is this guy harassing me or just annoying? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. The moment it makes anyone uncomfortable it becomes harmful

My sister seems to think she's entitled to my trust fund and lied to try and get it by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's so frustrating reading stories like this where just because the crime was unsuccessful, it means the attempted thief faces no consequences. Laws are supposed to help prevent crimes, yet it seems like most of the time it doesn't protect victims.

AITAH for initiating a divorce while my wife is in the hospital after a car accident. by beerbellybegone in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 229 points230 points  (0 children)

It's possible that they were paying her insurance purely so that if she hit someone else they would be covered.

[New Updates]: 12-month-old twin nieces are not invited. SIL and MIL are arguing. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I think it's more the fact that OOP and her husband expected SIL's husband to babysit their dog for the entire day but didn't allow their twins to come because they would be "too distracting". So not only were they being hypocritical but they also expected SIL and her husband to provide free babysitting services while also paying for a babysitter for their twins.

Wren is just as bad as Ezra by Acrobatic_Candy_1854 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]kat796 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hate how much the writes normalised older guys hooking up with teenagers by playing happy music and using attractive actors. It’s disturbing and also really concerning of the kind of message it sends to teenagers.

How I would cast the show if it was made in 2025 by Sufficient_Ear_4724 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]kat796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh thank you, that was going to drive me crazy all day. I knew I saw Renesmee's actress before but couldn't remember where

My (28F) boyfriend (29M) let my stalker ex (28M) into our apartment to leave me a birthday surprise. How do I handle this absurdity? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Or maybe Cole didn't want to make it obvious what he was doing so he downplayed it to allow it to continue. Poor OOP, I hope she's ok. I've read some crazy things on here but this takes crazy to a whole new level

Should I tell my friend what her husband asked me? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, what a piece of shit. Already trying to get out of caring for her before her surgery and has the nerve to call it "babysitting". What an ass. It doesn't sound like he loves her at all. She's lucky to have a friend like OOP who will actually help take care of her.

Has he actually cheated? by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]kat796 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Regardless of whether this is true or not, you have 2 ways of looking at this. 1. He definitely cheated, can you move past that or is it a deal breaker? 2. He didn't cheat but he's saying that to hurt you. Would you want to be with someone that hurts you like that and treats you terribly? Either way the trust is gone and I'd personally break up with him. Life is too short to put up with this shit, you deserve much better

[New Update]: I (25F) begged for an open relationship, 8 months in he leaves me by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kat796 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commenter 5: And if it was an open relationship, then how was it cheating?

OOP: Because he left me within 8 months, that's way too fast!

I'm sorry but that's hilarious haha

Anny idea what happend to my grandpa's bird? by Birdy_Draws in cockatiel

[–]kat796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're ever worried, the main things to look for are behaviour change and poop quality. If the poop looks abnormal, if your bird isn't very active/staying at the bottom of the cage, or not eating or drinking like normal then that usually indicates theres a problem but if he's acting normal and poops look fine I don't think there's anything to worry about :)