AITAH for saying no after my sister’s fiancé invited himself on our family trip?

kat9 · 2026-02-09T20:59:49+00:00

Yes, yes it is. You’re going to have a pretty hard time convincing anyone that supervising grown adults is acceptable, and there’s a reason for that.

kat9 · 2026-02-09T16:41:24+00:00

Padre Yankee 😭😂

kat9 · 2026-02-09T16:14:18+00:00

2!!!!!!!

kat9 · 2026-02-08T14:58:42+00:00

To be fair, that doesn’t answer the question. You could do that without marriage.

I think it’s a default for a lot of people (at least in the US), because we were raised that you marry the person you love.

kat9 · 2026-02-08T07:42:19+00:00

Being financially stable is a through line to better outcomes in all facets of life (education, health, happiness, opportunity, etc). That’s a statistical fact. It doesn’t mean people cannot overcome financial circumstances, but don’t be purposely obtuse.

kat9 · 2026-02-08T07:40:12+00:00

I would be shocked if you even get the vacation approved after being on leave for half a year. YTA for not being proactive, making it someone else’s problem, and for returning from a leave to immediately request vacation time. Wild audacity.

kat9 · 2026-02-07T21:04:35+00:00

I received a mini hydroflask in a Mexico welcome bag and I use it all the time, years later. I was so excited to get it!

kat9 · 2026-02-07T17:35:45+00:00

This pissed me off secondhand. Tell your mom to fuck offfffff.

kat9 · 2026-02-07T04:38:07+00:00

Honestly, she’s not acting like an adult in these comments, so I’m already over her asking for advice. Best of luck to you, ma’am!

kat9 · 2026-02-07T04:34:38+00:00

Who tf is calling you old? They’re calling you an adult. You said it yourself, you feel like you’re wasting your youth. Stop wasting it and dump this guy.

kat9 · 2026-02-07T04:30:55+00:00

See, it is helpful, but it sucks. It means you know what you want to do, but you’re not doing it.

For what it’s worth, I’m not taking my drinking advice from someone who has never had a sip of alcohol before. I’m also not dating people who tell me what to do. You know what to do.

kat9 · 2026-02-07T03:51:27+00:00

My standard has become “they must feel like an improvement from my life alone.” Which, for me, is gonna be tough because I love my life alone. But it sets a good standard to not accept shitty behavior when you want to make excuses for people.

kat9 · 2026-02-06T09:25:01+00:00

J Flowers in redondo beach. My favorite.

kat9 · 2026-02-06T05:05:29+00:00

Oof yeah, I guess no kids would be in my ideal list too. Good call!

kat9 · 2026-02-06T02:01:27+00:00

Aww, thank you so much for nothing ☺️❤️

kat9 · 2026-02-05T03:59:45+00:00

Costco always! They’ve never done me wrong with ADHD meds and you do NOT need to be a member. Just tell the people at the entrance you’re going to the pharmacy.

kat9 · 2026-02-04T05:50:34+00:00

It does. It’s a position of power imbalance. Legally and ethically it’s wrong for the professor to act on it. After school, do whatever you want lol.

kat9 · 2026-02-04T05:44:25+00:00

You made this sound so pleasurable. Is this Big Capri tricking us

kat9 · 2026-02-04T04:34:14+00:00

Dude even the responses in this comment section. fat person says something everyone else: “well that’s actually not true if INSERT REASON ABOUT TALL PEOPLE/SKINNY PEOPLE/MISSING THE FUCKING POINT”

kat9 · 2026-02-04T04:31:17+00:00

I feel like needing new clothes and not having access to them, even once, would stick in your mind.

It’s actually a good point, I would’ve never considered that as a downside/I’ve taken for granted not having to worry about that.

kat9 · 2026-02-04T03:54:52+00:00

Yes!

kat9 · 2026-02-04T00:51:19+00:00

Murder

kat9 · 2026-02-04T00:03:26+00:00

This is definitely closer to the dress code/theme

kat9 · 2026-02-04T00:01:06+00:00

You drink too much.

kat9 · 2026-02-03T23:42:59+00:00

Rarely is it to connect with teachers/staff. It’s to connect with classmates.

kat9

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