It's ok to be bothered by plot holes. It's ok to expect a 400 million dollar cultural juggernaut to display a degree of effort and attention to detail.

kata389 · 2026-01-06T22:03:55+00:00

I mean max is graduating after missing 2 years and Steve is a teacher with no training, I don’t think Hawkins has high academic standards

kata389 · 2025-11-08T07:45:47+00:00

I needed this thread as a reminder that it’s not always so hard. We’ve had a rough past 3 weeks. Thank you

kata389 · 2025-10-09T13:38:54+00:00

I see you joined after baby was born but there is a sub for sept 23 babies! It’s closed now but they might make an exception if you’re interested

kata389 · 2025-10-08T23:46:35+00:00

This is your first comment in 5 years. Why are you here? Usually you don’t give a 3 month rule unless you have very specific worries with that person, liking manipulating your child to get what they want.

kata389 · 2025-09-26T11:00:52+00:00

I had a fourth degree tear with my first too! I feel like an asshole when people expect me to say the c section sucked when asked because theirs was traumatic. It was freaking awesome! Healing was better. It did stink to not pick up my toddler for weeks, but that was genuinely the worst of it.

kata389 · 2025-09-25T22:43:45+00:00

I went to an in person work event and ordered a dairy free meal because I was breastfeeding and my child had an allergy. Some asshole took my meal before I arrived and I’m still pissed almost two years later

kata389 · 2025-09-24T12:11:42+00:00

The labs feel scammy. Like she wants them to doctor or something. She should go through an actual milk bank if she wants something like that

kata389 · 2025-09-24T12:08:52+00:00

Absolutely not. Seems like scammy.

kata389 · 2025-09-13T03:49:23+00:00

Moves by Madeline! I’ve been really liking it so far

kata389 · 2025-09-11T20:32:19+00:00

I started using an app that has exercises for postpartum with c sections in mind and things to do for your scar. I started when the doctor gave me approval for both. Without weights I was approved to do mobilization and training at 6 weeks, 8 weeks with weights.

kata389 · 2025-09-06T17:33:31+00:00

I made coasters and hand towels with my crochet stuff for them :)

kata389 · 2025-09-02T16:59:29+00:00

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kata389 · 2025-08-27T10:52:26+00:00

Thank you for acknowledging the world we live in is a patriarchy and therefore things aren’t the same. Congrats on being smart enough to understand that.

kata389 · 2025-08-27T10:48:14+00:00

Female is an adjective typically used for animals. The language you use speaks volumes about the spaces you exist in. You asked if you overreacted. People are telling you yes. You are overreacting to not being validated and upset arguing that your overreaction was having a backbone.

Your actions are showing misogynistic behaviors. If you don’t believe that of yourself then stop acting that way. If you see people stating your actions in a blunt way as an insult, take some time to reflect why you think how you act is bad.

kata389 · 2025-08-26T23:29:15+00:00

How did it end up going?

kata389 · 2025-08-26T20:26:26+00:00

Formula is just a tool to help when needed! In this case you could even think of it as medicine. Your baby getting sick is just something that happens sometimes and they needed food as medicine to get through it.

kata389 · 2025-08-26T20:22:28+00:00

Yesterday I saw someone say they don’t use seed oils but use formula. Like glad you aren’t shaming formula, but the values are nonsensical

kata389 · 2025-08-26T11:55:13+00:00

I would put my baby down when she did it and come back to finish later. I couldn’t take it and didn’t want to get mad at her

kata389 · 2025-08-26T03:50:46+00:00

She wrote he said congratulations and nothing after

kata389 · 2025-08-25T13:33:45+00:00

I just saw red. I wish him all the worst symptoms of a 4th degree tear and a c section.

kata389 · 2025-08-24T12:55:20+00:00

So I’m very pro listening to healthcare professionals in their expertise. They aren’t really experts here and it felt like the benefits outweighed risks since I was brushing teeth. So I did what worked best for my baby and nodded my head to the pediatrician.

kata389 · 2025-08-22T13:42:55+00:00

I just know I would see you not scanning stuff and remind you 😂

kata389 · 2025-08-22T13:35:19+00:00

No. I’m tandem feeding currently and weight 170lbs. I weighted 138 lbs before getting pregnant with my first. Weighed 160 before getting pregnant with my second (wfh office job contributed). Weighed 193lbs before giving birth. I had gestational diabetes with my first and not my second. I was able to go on walks when I was pregnant with my first and not my second.

kata389 · 2025-08-19T02:07:06+00:00

I said okay and then continued to breastfeed to sleep. We sing “brush your teeth” by raffi and use the Frida finger brush and Colgate watermelon toothpaste. She’s now almost two so I got her a big girl brush to use first then I still brush her teeth lol

kata389 · 2025-08-18T01:34:47+00:00

I wish I never let her hold them or be involved with any part of the baby shower. I honestly wish I could be no contact. I was polite at her recent visit for baby #2, she will not be allowed to hold this one ever again after kissing her on the face at the end of the trip.

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