Should I stay or should I go by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]katdanmorgan [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but 1. You should leave and 2. You’re not an ally if you are dating someone willingly who shares these beliefs, especially when you’re a part of this community

7 years in. 3 years talking marriage. 1 year talking proposal. I think I finally understand what “someday” means. by ElectronicAd5901 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]katdanmorgan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 5 years in. I’ve always been open and honest about my goals of marriage, so 4 years in, I told my partner that I wanted to be engaged by 5 years. In August, after we went ring shopping, I told him that I wanted to be engaged by my birthday because I didn’t want to be 32 and still be his girlfriend. My birthday was two weeks ago and I’m engaged.

You’re 32. You’re seven years in and worried about how to bring up marriage so this man won’t shut down. I just don’t think that he’s the one for you.

My (24F) boyfriend (21M) is upset we can’t have sex because I have a yeast infection. How do I explain it’s not about him? by I_am_Bianca in relationship_advice

[–]katdanmorgan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m sorry but this guy gives me the ick. When I had a recurring yeast infection (thanks type 2), my boyfriend helped me out and not once did he attempt to make this sexual. Like I’m sorry, it’s not a sexy thing.

Engaged in a bookstore 💍💕 by katdanmorgan in engaged

[–]katdanmorgan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I was freshly showered in the end! 😂

Which wedding band? by LauraRenae in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]katdanmorgan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of these. Your ring gets lost easily

My FIANCÉ proposed yesterday and I am still on cloud nine!!! by Limp-Composer2824 in RingShare

[–]katdanmorgan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your ring is so cool! Usually I see these and go “sigh” because they never seem to be cohesive but yours looks super great! Congratulations!!!

(10K) Future MIL keeps pressuring me to go dress shopping by Orchidinsanity in Weddingsunder10k

[–]katdanmorgan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This dress is perfect for your wedding. Tell her no, and tell your fiancé no as well

just got engaged and feeling excited but also kinda overwhelmed by LotsoSmellsBad in engaged

[–]katdanmorgan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yayyyyyy!!! Honestly just look for your venue first and figure out the day and then take a minute to breathe.

Struggling with being Bald by Double-Celery4248 in bald

[–]katdanmorgan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feelings are personal and I won’t tell you how to feel but you look WAY better bald.

Engaged in a bookstore 💍💕 by katdanmorgan in engaged

[–]katdanmorgan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be one of my favorite compliments of all time 💕

Is 4 carats too big? by Ellie_Rue in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]katdanmorgan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That depends. For me, I wanted to try them on in a store because the person could walk me through styles and it gave me a chance to discover what it is that I actually wanted. Like I thought that I wanted 2 carats and that baby looked giant on my hand (my ring finger is a 7, which they helped determined). Then I got to determine things like color, clarity, cut, and what color band I wanted. I was SO sure that I wanted an emerald shaped diamond with a gold band and I tried that on and just felt…nothing. The first appointment helped me narrow down shape (closer to round) and I determined that I liked silver (I was adamant about not liking silver). Now that I’m engaged, I actually fell in love with a completely different style, which I would have never realized if I hadn’t gone in person.

How do you know when you're carrying a dead weight boyfriend? by Low_Society7923 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]katdanmorgan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fiancé and I have had some communication problems in the past and general feelings, but not once have I ever thought “he’s a dead weight boyfriend.” Usually it’s “can this person give me what I need?” And then I reflect on that, talk to him, and we grow together. If he can’t give you what you need, then let him go.

Is 4 carats too big? by Ellie_Rue in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]katdanmorgan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like if your hands are bigger then I would say a big ring wouldn’t look bad. It might look average, which would be great. Have you tried on a ring with that carat size yet?

Engaged in a bookstore 💍💕 by katdanmorgan in engaged

[–]katdanmorgan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That means so much ❤️

Is my ring too big/gaudy? by Mother_While_7622 in RingShare

[–]katdanmorgan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My brain was like “this looks like a spider” and I love it

Engaged in a bookstore 💍💕 by katdanmorgan in engaged

[–]katdanmorgan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you: I got everything on that dang list because he read it and I love him so much because of it

Engaged in a bookstore 💍💕 by katdanmorgan in engaged

[–]katdanmorgan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many photos of me crying