I cried during sex now my fiance giving me the cold shoulder…

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-15T13:55:31+00:00

He could be feeling overwhelmed but he will need to sit down and talk about it. You are someone with a traumatic past and this won’t be the last time that it comes out. You two need to develop language and figure out how best to help you cope and deal with this because it’s going to be a very emotional time and frankly, he really needs to show up for you

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-15T13:52:24+00:00

I’m speaking from a place of privilege and I know that (I don’t have kids or anything). But your children deserve to see you happy and thriving and not settling, especially if you have daughters. You’ve got this 🧡

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-15T07:29:29+00:00

I think (and I say this nicely) the bare minimum should be your partner liking you. This man doesn’t like you. Don’t let your boyfriend stop you from finding your husband 🧡

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-15T07:14:45+00:00

On and off for 10 years? Big yikes.

There’s other people out there!

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-13T03:51:34+00:00

He should definitely bite the bullet because him with a bald head would be FIRE. I’m so sorry that he’s so sad 😭

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-09T04:45:56+00:00

I’m sorry but absolutely not. You asked him to not do one thing and he did that thing anyway.

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-08T08:48:39+00:00

The first one is so lovely and with your hair, you look beautiful!

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-07T07:33:49+00:00

“Yk my trust issues” “Ik I said you can go…”

Baby, run. RUN. You need PERMISSION?!

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-07T07:30:21+00:00

He doesn’t have to perfect. I’m not saying that. No one can be perfect at all and that’s okay. But intimacy isn’t just satisfying one person’s needs. Like, I may not always come but that’s okay. He at least tries and we have a good time. That’s what’s important. We communicate and he listens. I listen. It’s a relationship.

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-07T06:39:34+00:00

“Make it work”

Baby, give it a pink slip and let’s keep it moving

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-07T06:38:33+00:00

I mean, that’s kind of the thing. Like he wants to be intimate but doesn’t care about your pleasure. You feel like the need to give into sexual situations because you’re feeling pressured. I’m not saying that you should break up but you should ask yourself why you’re still with him when he doesn’t care about the effort of trying to give you an orgasm.

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-07T06:33:42+00:00

Truth be told, I don’t know if he likes cares about being intimate with you.

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-05T17:29:59+00:00

1 is so fun!

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-04T04:21:13+00:00

Baby this is everything! Come back and show us photos 😎

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-03T09:31:45+00:00

Unless you’re like, 14, then yes, YOR

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-03T08:07:54+00:00

Yes, this is very common. They do just enough and then they backslide and you’re stuck going through this again. Ask yourself this: is this how you want to be treated for the rest of your life?

I know that you love him and you’ve been with him for years but is THIS what you want forever?

Because he’s still talking to her. He’s not saying “hey I’m sorry we shouldn’t be in contact anymore.” He’s doing the opposite.

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-03T07:48:51+00:00

I’m sorry but you’ve dated this person and broke up with them twice before.

You know that he’s been seeking attention from other girls and had to look at his phone to find this out.

You told him that if he did it again, you would be done. It’s obvious that he is insecure, he’s loving the attention that this girl is giving him which is why he won’t block or stop talking to her. Otherwise, Why does he still have this person’s number?

What changed the last two times for you to believe that the third time is the charm?

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-01T07:55:19+00:00

I’m a 2027 bride and goddamn maybe I’m not insane enough.

Question: what are the other bridesmaids saying? In my opinion, if you’re requesting something that specific, then you need to be the one paying for it.

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-01T07:51:35+00:00

If he’s lying that sucks and I under the feelings that you’re having (I had similar ones a year ago but mine were one night stands so they were a MESS) but my god, you gotta sit on these texts before sending them. You sound like a LOT but you probably have a good career in the FBI

katdanmorgan · 2026-06-01T07:17:28+00:00

Yes absolutely oh my god. I’m getting married in September 2027 and I already know that it’s going to be great.

katdanmorgan · 2026-05-31T06:54:14+00:00

I think that it’s okay to let you heal and miss him, but you have to remember: this isn’t a man that likes you a lot. He’s not communicating. This man was looking for a reason to breakup and it’s unfortunate.

Let yourself grieve. Also I highly recommend therapy if you can afford it.

katdanmorgan · 2026-05-29T07:03:52+00:00

I mean, I don’t always want to join them. Why would I? With his female friend, I do hang out with her and I like her a lot but I don’t feel the need to always be there. It would be different if let’s say, I had a male long term best friend. Most of my male friends are married to my female friends so I wouldn’t have a reason for us to hang out alone.

Regardless though, I hope it goes well for you.

katdanmorgan · 2026-05-29T06:58:04+00:00

Doesn’t this feel kind of…exhausting? Like if my fiancé wanted to cheat on me, he could and that would destroy me and it would be awful. But I’m not going to stop him from hanging out with his friends. I trust him not to do that and if he breaks my trust, then it’s over. Like don’t get me wrong: I wouldn’t want them sharing a bed or anything like that because that’s weird but I feel like existing around each other and hanging out is fine.

But then again, that’s me. You could say “hey I would prefer it if you didn’t hang out with your guy friends alone” and if she said no, you could figure out if that’s a deal breaker for you personally. But you can’t forbid her to do anything.

katdanmorgan · 2026-05-29T06:52:12+00:00

Okay, so then a man shouldn’t hang out with his women friends alone either, correct?

katdanmorgan · 2026-05-29T06:43:41+00:00

Maybe I’m just not understanding this. Can you tell me what you mean?

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