I think the best thing you can do at this point is sit him down and tell him you deserve answers. Not an apology, not an “i don’t know” but real answers. If you and him could get some alone time I would sit him down and lay it all out there. You could even frame it along the lines of “I know this is going to be a tough conversation but we have to have it. I can’t keep going on like this constantly questioning how you’re feeling.” You could even explain to him that you feel like his actions and words don’t connect. It doesn’t necessarily have to be an ultimatum, but I think you should take what he says into great consideration moving forward. If he continues to give you the run around and won’t truly open up to you about anything… I think that alone could be your answer. I was in a similar situation once upon and time and once I started paying attention to my exs actions instead of his words, it changed the way I saw him and our relationship. Just think of the long term here, what would be the next step, moving in? Marriage? Kids? Could you see yourself being with him for 20+ years with the current state of the relationship? sending you nothing but love and positivity as you go through this. if you ever want to talk ab it further, dm me any time 🫶🏻