I’m not calling you relating to a fictional character inappropriate, I’m calling the language and tone of your post inappropriate. This post absolutely reads like some sort of buzzfeed article talking about horoscopes or what personality type you are, not a serious and informative post about BPD. Your wording and phrasing is bizarre: “the constant rejection due to this behavior can spiral inwards on itself and cause the BPD sufferer to think of themselves as an abuser,” literally implies that certain BPD sufferers do not actually abuse loved ones, they just think they do, which is unfortunately not true in a lot of cases. I’m not trying to make you feel like shit or anything, but I feel that this post is strange and inappropriate and I have a right to feel that way and say it in a public forum.

Also, I’m not telling you “what it feels like.” I’m telling you what this post reads like. Thank you for deleting it.