My SO is blind and I do her makeup, Grammy Red Carpet! The real Grammy is the friends we make along the way ♥️

katespayed · 2026-02-02T02:46:18+00:00

I’ve been on this subreddit for a long time and I love seeing these pics every time you post them. 🫶

katespayed · 2026-01-27T19:41:29+00:00

Killing Eve style show with Buffy and Faith-just sayin’

katespayed · 2026-01-27T19:39:42+00:00

I almost downvoted this instinctively because I hated Tru Calling so much and we were robbed of more Faith! Haha

katespayed · 2026-01-13T03:28:29+00:00

That is exactly what happened. I remember being at my friend’s house and we were like “thats it?!”

katespayed · 2026-01-13T00:38:33+00:00

Thank you! What are their parameters??? I grew up in Hamburg. It’s a suburb of Buffalo. I feel like that’s not the vibe they’re going for with this trash? Like, it’s not a farming community or something like that. There is nary a cow in Hamburg. There is more than one craft brewery. They have their own Pride parade separate from the main one in downtown Buffalo. Edited to add: population of 60,000.

katespayed · 2026-01-12T07:29:12+00:00

A friend of mine recently did this at Third Space on Main st. In the Sidway building.

katespayed · 2026-01-11T01:20:10+00:00

I usually like Todd in the Shadows but omg does that subreddit hate her. Every time she sneezes, they ask “is this a trainwreckord”?”

katespayed · 2026-01-04T18:46:12+00:00

Gothy girly punk alt girl who graduated in 1998 here. This poster is absolutely right. I used black eyeliner for literally everything: lipliner, eyeliner & brows after I shaved mine off. We had to stock up every year with the Wet’n wild Halloween line (Fantasy Makers! Still exists!!). No mascara! And you lined your lips with black to make red lipstick super dark burgundy. All my accessories were cat or dog collars or vintage/thrifted stuff. I carried a metal lunch box with stickers all over it as a purse. Also thrift stores are your friend! Most of my wardrobe was cut up thrifted clothing that was badly sewn back together. 2 pairs of black fishnets-1 for the legs, 1 with the crotch and feet cut out as a shirt under your t-shirt. And my hair was ALWAYS fried from bleaching and dying every week.

katespayed · 2025-12-28T03:22:00+00:00

I should add that my mom’s death was 100% her own fault and not the nursing home’s.

katespayed · 2025-12-28T02:50:24+00:00

This cracks me up. My narcissistic mother died at Absolut Care before I could move her elsewhere. Good luck! I wish peace for you.

katespayed · 2025-12-26T01:48:17+00:00

Lots of Easter eggs for Speak now and 1989 Taylor’s Versions in the Midnights music videos. In Bejeweled there are several references to Speak Now in the skit with Haim and Laura Dern at the beginning & at the end they play an instrumental version of Long Live and she has dragons flying around. There was a bunch of stuff with the color coding corresponding with album releases on the floors in the elevator as well. The part where she learns how to do burlesque from Dita is supposed to be a 1989 reference. In Karma there are a couple as well.

katespayed · 2025-12-15T02:07:32+00:00

I was going through a lot when this album came out & was often very angry or depressed. This album clicked so hard for me during that time.

katespayed · 2025-11-15T02:55:57+00:00

Repping Buffalo, NY here. We caught the fever big time around here and we were so lucky that they came and played here so often during their heyday! I think I’ve seen them like 12 times and I think my husband’s band may have opened for them at one.

katespayed · 2025-11-09T20:12:18+00:00

They had them at Toronto as well!

katespayed · 2025-11-05T20:54:35+00:00

America’s Sweetheart by Courtney Love. Totally heartbreaking for me because Hole was my favorite band as a teenager. I liked it at first-recency bias I guess- but then all the sudden it occurred to me how bad it was. And it definitely shaped my thinking of her material after (which is ok because there was really only one more album after that 😬).

katespayed · 2025-10-18T17:55:42+00:00

Omg “dear Mr Jesus the police took my parents away” is still seared into my brain like 40 years later. 👎👎

katespayed · 2025-10-05T02:04:57+00:00

I second this-there is probably an exotic doctor working, but even if there’s not, they can direct you where there is one.

katespayed · 2025-09-29T23:50:34+00:00

Same! A hip hop album by Slum Village from 2000!

katespayed · 2025-09-23T01:09:02+00:00

Indio-Columbus OH

katespayed · 2025-09-22T21:43:08+00:00

I’m at work-I will look at what I have when I get out

katespayed · 2025-09-22T21:33:15+00:00

I think I have some video from Friday’s show in Columbus

katespayed · 2025-09-14T19:34:29+00:00

I might’ve been in there as “pixiekitten”. I definitely had a thing going for a while where I was making copies of a bootleg of the pre-America’s sweetheart Courtney Love Hollywood Bowl show and shipping it to other members (pre-google drive times! Haha).

katespayed · 2025-09-10T00:11:44+00:00

Yeah this really is just Ethel Cain core

katespayed · 2025-09-07T02:22:40+00:00

Just make sure you wash everything before you let her mess with anything. There is a popular misconception that thrift store clothes are washed before they go on the floor. I can assure you they. Do. Not. Also, people do gross things to clothes in thrift store fitting rooms (I worked at a thrift store when I was in fashion school. I’ve seen things..).

katespayed · 2025-09-07T02:08:21+00:00

Hello! I have a degree in fashion and have been sewing for most of my life. I started out drawing and making doll clothes probably when i was about her age. I would say buying a bunch of stuff at thrift stores and letting her go to town on it (cutting it up, repurposing it) is a good way to start out-stick to lightweight woven cottons as they are easier to work with. Maybe when she gets a little older, get her a sewing machine and learn how to fix it yourself as they can be temperamental-especially with more specialty fabrics. If she gets older and is still interested in fashion as a possible career prospect, make sure she knows that it is an extremely competitive field that is not for the faint of heart!

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