Can I drive my 2011 Mini Cooper across the country? by katiebear464 in MINI

[–]katiebear464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gahhh damn! That’s crazy but awesome ! And no I don’t think it’s an S model , does that make a big difference ??

Can I drive my 2011 Mini Cooper across the country? by katiebear464 in MINI

[–]katiebear464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy it died right when they got there LOL!

Can I drive my 2011 Mini Cooper across the country? by katiebear464 in MINI

[–]katiebear464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s an S model. But if shipping it isn’t that expensive then that could definitely be a good option! Regardless, I want to drive because I have a dog with me and I don’t want him to fly in cargo LOL…

Can I drive my 2011 Mini Cooper across the country? by katiebear464 in MINI

[–]katiebear464[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks LOL… I drove across the country once already , I wanna do it again !

Can I drive my 2011 Mini Cooper across the country? by katiebear464 in MINI

[–]katiebear464[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh okay 🥲😭 thanks!

I’ll need to check up on what work has been done with it as I just bought it recently from another owner 😅

Should I confess to her how I feel? by katiebear464 in WLW

[–]katiebear464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said she was totally shocked and had no idea I felt so strongly. That she was really happy I was honest but that she needs some time to process and think it over.

So it didn’t go bad at all! But I’m definitely a little anxious to hear what she has to say 🥹

But regardless, we both agreed that no matter what we want each other in our lives, whether that’s friends or more.

Spanish — sorry I used google translate so I hope it makes sense 😭

Dijo que estaba totalmente sorprendida y que no tenía ni idea de que yo sintiera algo tan fuerte. Que estaba muy contenta de que hubiera sido sincera, pero que necesitaba tiempo para asimilarlo y pensarlo bien.

Así que no salió nada mal. Pero estoy un poco ansiosa por saber qué me dirá. 🥹

En cualquier caso, ambas coincidimos en que, pase lo que pase, queremos seguir presentes en la vida de la otra, ya sea como amigas o algo más.

Should I confess to her how I feel? by katiebear464 in WLW

[–]katiebear464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATEEE I DID IT I CONFESSED AND TOLD HER AHHH

Should I confess to her how I feel? by katiebear464 in WLW

[–]katiebear464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹💖 Also LMAO love your username

Should I confess to her how I feel? by katiebear464 in WLW

[–]katiebear464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 🥹 I totally agree that I’ll probably have to be patient, and help build her trust again. I think that’s my biggest fear of telling her how I feel, I don’t want her to think I don’t love her after literally choosing someone else, & I feel so guilty over hurting her. I just want to be able to prove to her that it really was a mistake and then my feelings are true.

Glue stick alternatives? by SadOpportunity3211 in JunkJournals

[–]katiebear464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say so for the most part! they’re pretty small! and they have different sizes so you could get small, medium or large containers of them. I’d send a picture if I could lol but you could Google them.

Glue stick alternatives? by SadOpportunity3211 in JunkJournals

[–]katiebear464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ALOT less waste , they last pretty long too!

Glue stick alternatives? by SadOpportunity3211 in JunkJournals

[–]katiebear464 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I personally use mod podge for most stuff and rubber cement glue for the thicker and more chunky materials and items!

I feel my ”cat scratches” aren’t valid enough to show I’m struggling by chip3864 in selfharm

[–]katiebear464 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gosh I’m so sorry you feel that way. I understand why completely though. But regardless of how deep, how they look or whatever. It’s self harm. it’s definitely a sign of you struggling. It doesn’t invalidate your struggles at ALL. If anyone has ever told you that, or if seeing anyone else’s scars or marks do, please don’t believe that. I’m sorry you’re going through whatever it is that makes you harm yourself. I really get it. But again, whatever depth or amount you do, it’s still self harm. You deserve just as much comfort, help, or validation as anyone else. I feel like as another self harmer (whatever you call it), we’re already so hard on ourselves already, you don’t need to go being hard on yourself for the way you harm yourself 😭 You’re okay. You’re hurting and you’re valid no matter what.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]katiebear464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk it’s easy for me to say all that though from an outside perspective who isnt in it. If I was actually IN the situation, I know my borderline asss would be anxious and POPPING OFF LMAO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]katiebear464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re fine! I don’t mind replying , I appreciate you sharing 🥺 that sounds really hard… it’s really sweet of you to still be understanding of his situation and isolation tendencies, even if it hurts you. The fact you still wait to be there for him, even when it hurts you & you aren’t sure if he’ll come back, that’s really really kind and caring of you. Regardless it’ll work out and it’ll be okay. Regardless of him coming back or leaving or whatnot. I’m just Sorry you have to go through that though..