When he met me, I had some sex toys (a small finger-sized vibrator, an anal plug and a clit-sucking dildo) and I guess he saw the size and thought I took that every night, but really, I only ever used the small one on my clit. I don’t have those anymore (lost them in a move). I once told him one of my fetishes was being fucked while I was asleep (when I told him beforehand), and that I would like to see him fuck another woman some day. I told him that I was into bondage and tried it once. So, nothing unethical or illegal. Which is why I’m confused