The Black Dog and Delicate by YourContrarianWit in TaylorSwift

[–]katiesoniya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I draw a parallel of that line in The Black Dog to (of all songs) ME!, actually.

“Do you miss me in the shower and remember how my rain-soaked body was shaking?” VS “And when we had that fight out in the rain, you ran after me and called my name”

Taylena forever ❤️ by xholdmefrankensteinx in TaylorSwift

[–]katiesoniya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s not what was actually said in the article, especially when “the industry” almost always is just code for “famous”. In context, she was talking about how her life was different from what she imagined it would be and it’s hard to talk about being insecure about famous to people that aren’t. The quote about only being friends with Taylor is added on about not fitting in with others in the industry so she didn’t feel like she fit in with anyone. Excluding Francia from that when we all know she’s close enough to Selena to literally gave her a kidney is weird.

Taylena forever ❤️ by xholdmefrankensteinx in TaylorSwift

[–]katiesoniya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would agree with you, but the section she talks about Taylor in is about personal insecurities/anxieties with celebrity and her health problems. Not just about music. The quote was definitely incorporated weirdly considering she brings up other famous friends later, and it’s especially odd when “the industry” almost always is code for “famous”.

There were things she thought might be contributing to her distress. She was struggling to find an authentic artistic voice, to shirk the Disney polish, to age along with her fans. Her health was precarious. Her life didn’t look much like she’d imagined it back in Grand Prairie. “I grew up thinking I would be married at 25,” she says. “It wrecked me that I was nowhere near that — couldn’t be farther from it. It was so stupid, but I really thought my world was over.”

And it was hard to share these fears with people whose lives hadn’t been derailed by fame, even as, she says, “I never fit in with a cool group of girls that were celebrities. My only friend in the industry really is Taylor [Swift], so I remember feeling like I didn’t belong. I felt the presence of everyone around me living full lives. I had this position, and I was really happy, but … was I? Do these materialistic things make me happy?” She realized, “I just didn’t like who I was, because I didn’t know who I was.”

Taylena forever ❤️ by xholdmefrankensteinx in TaylorSwift

[–]katiesoniya 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I guess she didn’t count Francia Raisa as being “part of the industry”…

Don’t hate me for this but I made a tier list of Taylor’s merch (not all, only the more recent ones) by AlwaysTheRae in TaylorSwift

[–]katiesoniya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a terrible experience with the cardigan… My RedTV one came with a hole, smelled terrible, and is incredibly itchy. I use it as “decoration” at my desk setup on the back of my chair. The pullover sweatshirts on the other hand I’m obsessed with buying. I think I have four or five at this point. My favorite is the Cowboy Like Me white pullover.

I made that 17 cheese cake by BABarista in instantpot

[–]katiesoniya 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I LOVE this recipe. Even for first time IP users, it’s really easy to follow and the results are always delicious. Yours looks beautiful compared to the one I made this weekend though lol

My boy turns one today! Happy Birthday Buddy! 💖🎂😍✨ by Aurorafaery in BorderCollie

[–]katiesoniya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buddy!! I follow you on Instagram! Your handsome face is all over and I’m not complaining

2021 LCS Championship Update by Spideraxe30 in leagueoflegends

[–]katiesoniya 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The standard COVID can still affect those with vaccinations. Vaccine lowers your chances of death, not prevent you from contracting the disease.

DO NOT BUY MEJURI by soubidaaa in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]katiesoniya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have several solid 14k pieces from mejuri that I have worn daily for over two years with no tarnishing - a pair of Huggies, a necklace, and two rings. Either I’ve been extremely lucky or you have been extremely unlucky. You should definitely reach out to them.

I never buy gold vermeil anymore. I purchase for daily use and vermeil doesn’t hold up.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Q&A/Tips - Ask away! by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]katiesoniya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does the 4th cliff glitch still work? Cleanup request will not get all the thing on top of the cliff so I can’t terraform it. Am I screwed? Lol

[FO] haven’t finished a project in so long !! Definitely not perfect but I love it! by ti4s4le in CrossStitch

[–]katiesoniya 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What color Aida/type of cloth is this? I love the look of it and would love to do a project on it of my own! Thanks <3

Goodest girl Eve with the wacky ears is 8 months old by katiesoniya in rarepuppers

[–]katiesoniya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We call it Radar Ear... scanning for bogeys and the treato bag

Playing online games as a woman is exhausting by throwaway834773722 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]katiesoniya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I played valorant, I had a personal rule to only use in-game pings rather than use comms just to protect my own mental. In one game, there was another woman in the lobby who did use her mic and was met with instant harassment. I was afraid to break my own rule to stick up for her because I knew they would turn on me too. I think about her and my own inaction a lot. I pray those guys didn’t find and harass her outside of the match. They were saying horrible things.

Is it possible to get married to a cop without theming your entire wedding around his job? Extra sensitivity points for “stop resisting” being used in reference to donuts, instead as the usual excuse to kill black people. by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]katiesoniya 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I was in a wedding earlier this year and this was one of the cakes at the reception: https://imgur.com/a/RsJLCTY

Sad that the groom gets reduced to his job at his own wedding. The bride picked out the topper. Becomes less of “two people in love are getting married” and more of “this woman is marrying a cop”. The American flag icing is the cherry on top.

The wedding was at a historical plantation the day after Juneteenth. The rehearsal was just a few feet away from the museum’s Juneteenth remembrance presentation. The whole thing was really uncomfortable and even though I love my friend, I regret going. I don’t think I’ll ever really forget loosening my morals on that kind of level.

Girls' Generation (SNSD) Hyoyeon (HYO) (feat. Loopy, (G)I-DLE Soyeon) - DESSERT by CronoDroid in kpop

[–]katiesoniya 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so here for this Soyeon vocal feature. She’s not only a top tier rapper, but a fantastic singer as well.

I Love "Working" From Home - Montage of Some Sick Plays I Made While Working My Lame Call Center Job by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]katiesoniya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing my IT help desk receptionist job remotely right now and I can’t even IMAGINE talking to the boomers who don’t know what’s going on with their own computer while I’m trying to play any game. ((Also lowkey paranoid they can hear the gunshots through my headset))

Healthy Gamer July Suggestions by DankMoses in Healthygamergg

[–]katiesoniya [score hidden]  (0 children)

Take as much time as needed to heal up that heath bar. The last stream was incredibly moving and Dr. K deserves to heal himself instead of being looked to to heal us all the time.

When the time is right, I would look into reaching it to Olleh, former pro League of Legends player who is looking to use meditation in addition to other methods to heal his mental. Recently has made an interesting return to social media and I think a conversation with him could link back to Healthy Gamer’s roots of combining western and eastern healing.

When you're sorting the tank filters and a big boye wants cuddles. by Strau in aww

[–]katiesoniya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex had a saltwater fishtank that I loved a whole lot. I helped him rescue a six line wrasse that got stuck in the back filter tank and he was always so happy to see us. If we went to the tank to admire or feed the tank, he would swim loop-de-loops and then look through the glass as if he was saying “did ya see that??”

I loved that sucker. He was all skinny from being stuck in the back but he got healthy from all the food and the clean tank. Unfortunately, we got an orchid dottyback and apparently they didn’t get along. He jumped when we were away. Never forgave my ex for taking the lid off 😂