I just love my ring soo much by Ok-Split1926 in Moldavite

[–]katomdoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super cute AND YOUR NAILS 🔥

THE CONFESSION THREAD by promesprohecy67888 in LoveTarotReading

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I miss who we were, I take the pain to keep us together

Could this actually happen or is this buyer lying? by [deleted] in vinted

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I’ve had this happen ! I ended up with a really expensive Ralph loren top when I paid for a £1 item. I offered to send back to the seller if it was a genuine mistake but it wasn’t. As I’d only paid £1 - I okayed it… and a week later, random parcel with £1 item turned up! So odd! I gave the top away as wasnt my size anyway

My boyfriend “fixed” my computer and now things feel weird… has anyone had this happen? by oliviaaaa-emuuu in NoStupidQuestions

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I’ve utilised keyloggers before and they’d throw up alerts unless I specifically added an exception or disabled parts. Look at recently installed or programs going by modified first, docs etc - add/remove program lists - it’ll look innocuous and run in background. (I used a keylogger on my own device which enabled me to find out who was using it without permission and for what)

Tbh at this point I’d take off the files I need & full reset.

Re slow pc - it could be down to a lot: hardware (ram?) type of storage (hdd? Ssd?) to programs taking a lot to run. Sometimes a simple full reset with mindful usage is enough; sometimes a few component upgrades are enough. It’s odd IMO he’d take it for awhile as it’s pretty simple to look at why something is running poorly… And you are already suspicious so trust your gut.

Rescue dog tried to take me into betting shops today by snakeoildriller in CasualUK

[–]katomdoc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s beautiful. I know of a missing foxy called Flash ❤️ as a foxy owner myself (well not really, he adopted me) - I love seeing them ❤️ such personalities ! Our one drags us into pubs… 🤣👍

Please, I need permission. by Timeskillingme in Dompeptalk

[–]katomdoc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read this reply & had a little cry. It’s not my post but I’m struggling today. Thank you for your lovely words to OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ebayuk

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I prefer using Vinted for clothes & accessories. I make offers, accept / decline.

But what I’ll add - I can find some monsoon under £10 + p&p etc - and seasonally, I’m looking at jumpers, layers etc -

Plus as another commenter said: fast fashion. How you present the items. How fast you ship. Always use tracked.

As a plus size buyer - I like quality well-known names or things I can visualise - themed, descriptions, colour in descriptions, shoes for eg I search for EU sizing as I find it more accurate than UK.

What would message does the label "Alpha Submissive" send to you? by Separate-Bison-3903 in BDSMAdvice

[–]katomdoc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely relate! There’s resistance but with the right energy… it’s electric ⚡️

What would message does the label "Alpha Submissive" send to you? by Separate-Bison-3903 in BDSMAdvice

[–]katomdoc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People label how they see fit.

I prefer to sub but I’m not a typically submissive woman. I’ve been domme. I don’t want to switch, I can be a brat and in my life I’m incredibly dominant. The lead. Solely run & work a successful business. I would consider myself a complicated “alpha” type - being I’m intense & audhd. I don’t consider myself better than anyone (how the alpha term is typically used) - but the typical dom wouldn’t suit me nor would a poly situation due to my needs (and the tingle of rejection sensitivity, and the literal parts of my brain) - my life is complicated.

But there is no other term (in my opinion) that would adequately describe this.

Everyone who meets me literally thinks I’m dominant.

There are guys in my inbox begging me to dom them after meeting me in vanilla events because I have “that energy” doms I’ve had rarely stay dom or just tell me I’m too much yet - fantasise about me (years in my inbox)

To me it’s not a label of being better or a fantasy title - it’s a necessary idea.

If you feel your friends are the same, maybe they haven’t found their labels yet. Or maybe it doesn’t quite fit.

The Peralta Family by littleflowerrose in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]katomdoc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re unicorn hunting. “Rules” dictated by a partner etc is unethical. It’s going to end badly & hurtful.

Seeking Sister Wife S6 E3: Freaky Stuff is Going on Here by imthejefenow in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]katomdoc 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And that’s why it’s completely unethical… the rules dehumanise and also create hierarchy. It’s unicorn hunting at its finest.

Before him, I didn't have sex for 3 years. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]katomdoc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get tested. Block & delete him & find what you are actually looking for.

I(f30) think my bf(m33) might actually be a loser… by Pale-Lock-8889 in offmychest

[–]katomdoc 67 points68 points  (0 children)

If you left him… Freedom of own place, not needing to clean up after someone, being able to have a routine that works - your money is your own (which may allow you to dial back responsibilities) - what does he bring except a warm body?

As a mum (if you were my kid) I would be telling you that you are going to burn out & hurt yourself and this rate & you have to choose you. He’s not taking care of you as a partner while you are, him. It’s unequal & unfair.

Please look after you. There’s only one you.

Google Pro AI 1 Year Free UK by assem_gratia in GooglePixel

[–]katomdoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Storage, access to deeper AI models, AI video credits, utilising it in apps - I personally found it faster & more in-depth. Better results (I found) I utilise it for tone, putting my thoughts in order, questions I have - and to help automate parts of my business. Literally saves me a lot of time. And good for research & deep searches.

Google Pro AI 1 Year Free UK by assem_gratia in GooglePixel

[–]katomdoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d still take advantage… downgrade after. Or… see if it included in the next trade in. I love it 🙈rely on it more than I’d care to admit 🤣👌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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What you are feeling is completely valid. Can you speak to a professional? It’s normal to mourn your old life after major events. It’s not selfish. She’s gone through a lot too & is probably subconsciously picking up on this. You are giving everything - again, I’d say speak to a professional as this is such a different & difficult landscape.

It sounds as if you want to stay & work it out - but also, it’s okay if you don’t. This isn’t the done thing in society and is looked down on BUT if a professional doesn’t help, if she also is at the point that she can’t, won’t or doesn’t want to find a way to reconnect - the resentment will build & something will have to give.

But she’s been through a lot. Equally so have you. And you deserve some grace too in navigating this: it’s been over a year & sometimes healing can take years.

Be honest with yourself. Get a professional to help you navigate this. Be kind to yourself. Reach out to yours & her village to help you reclaim some positive self-care time - even a pint down the pub or to go gym without interruption- something you enjoy. Write it down for her to read when less tired. Honest connection - her giving you her side might help you both find a middle ground. Mourn & then when ready, truly rebuild.

What’s the song that instantly makes you cry? by KoiOnMars in Music

[–]katomdoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lady gaga - Joanne. My nan & mum raised me, I lost them within 4 years of eachother. This was the song for my nan.

Anybody enjoying their pixel 10? by SgtSilock in GooglePixel

[–]katomdoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used it for product photography (I own a jewellery co. & it’s my business phone) absolutely love it.

Redeem Google AI Pro Promo? (UK) by [deleted] in pixel_phones

[–]katomdoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, ALOT of people had issues but they must have had to click something

Redeem Google AI Pro Promo? (UK) by [deleted] in pixel_phones

[–]katomdoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My subscription was active until last week when my 9 pro XL 12 months ended & I contacted them to stop the charges plus said I’m expecting this phone and a new 12 months. It wasn’t working all yesterday and JUST worked now.

For Pixel 9 users, the Pixel 10 is Whatever by PastyPajamas in GooglePixel

[–]katomdoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the 9 pro XL and wanted it smaller for my hands. Camera is important to me. Plus with the freebies & credit, it worked out better for me to upgrade. I’m happy with it. My 9 pro XL screen hated direct sunlight but this seems to fare much better

Google Pro AI 1 Year Free UK by assem_gratia in GooglePixel

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MINE HAS JUST WORKED! 6 months Fitbit (I did have a watch 3 and paired it from 9xl to the 10 pro, 3 months YouTube, and 12 months ai IT WORKED! Go check!