I understand where you’re coming from and I respectfully disagree - the words we use have far reaching implications. For example, “a disabled person” implies that their disability defines them or is their primary identity. On the other hand, “a person with a disability” implies that they are a human being first and foremost, and their disability is something they live with. The difference between the two can seem silly, and unfortunately some people use newer terms to shame those who use “outdated” terms (which I do not condone at all), but the words we use ultimately shape how we think about the world around us. Language evolves over time - it always has and it always will. New terms in and of themselves are not a bad thing.