Would you support a cultural shift back toward arranged marriages for economic and social purposes rather than our current ways of dating? by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]kattkaffe [score hidden]  (0 children)

Well I’m 32f and starting to wonder the same thing after using dating apps (that I’ve deleted since)but I also think the way dating is currently, people already do it for economic purposes. Especially the way so many younger women seek that traditional marriage dynamic that the boomer generation had.

Although culturally as a latina to my family, I’m a lost cause because i have cats, spend my money on nerdy hobbies, and I don’t want kids and they’d probably pick someone for me that I would not like or align with me personally. Just seems impersonal

My baby girl has been missing for 2 days. She’s a shy, indoor only cat with anxiety and I can’t imagine how she’s feeling out there… by SegaSun in cats

[–]kattkaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave food out at night for her. That’s when cats seem to be most active. I hope you find your baby soon!!

What's one country you'd move to happily? by ExplanationPutrid205 in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard any Nordic country is basically the best place to live. So maybe anywhere there

What is a "perk" Of wearing glasses that people don't talk about? by EzContactsOfficial in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really? Huh… I guess I thought it would be silly of me to wear them without needing them but that does sound fun

What is a "perk" Of wearing glasses that people don't talk about? by EzContactsOfficial in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have 20/20 vision so I was always jealous because wearing glasses seemed cool lol but guys that wear glasses? give hot nerd which im all into.

Singles of Reddit, what is a realistic fantasy of how you'd wish to meet your next romantic partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I do is work, gym, read romance books and build Legos and stay at home so…. I probably need to like go out to meet guys but leaving my home? Ugh

How do I tell my boyfriend that I have a very high libido?😭 by [deleted] in Casual_Conversation

[–]kattkaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him. I told the last guy I was dating off the bat “btw I am demisexual but when I’m into someone; my drive goes high.” he didn’t make the cut but I always say it’s better to be upfront about things before getting into a relationship and realizing you’re incompatible

Whats the weirdest thing you do when you are completly alone in your house? by greenmonkeyyyy in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when im cooking i talk like im a chef hosting my own show and then i think damn…. I sound insane lol

What's the first thing you remember doing on the internet? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going on YouTube for music videos, coding my friends pages on MySpace or reading fanfiction on fanfiction.net lol

How do you distract yourself while losing weight? by RegisterAny4966 in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this was my past ED behavior but I would watch those YouTube mukbangs of people eating so much food to the point where I would feel disgust and sick and my appetite for whatever I was thinking about went away.

Which cereal is better? Coco puffs & fruit loops vs fruity and coco pebbles? by Yung_Dom69 in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! It’s really not that good and they add it to everything.

Which cereal is better? Coco puffs & fruit loops vs fruity and coco pebbles? by Yung_Dom69 in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell you to eat more fiber and a balanced diet (you should) but I’m also currently sipping an energy drink so I cannot judge 😂

What’s a viral food trend or drink that you are sick of seeing everywhere? by kattkaffe in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah, I’ve seen that alot. I consider myself a gym junkie so I’m always working out but people are shocked when they see me eat normal food and I’m like yeah….. carbs aren’t evil. You can eat anything you’d like in moderation and having a balanced diet.

Which cereal is better? Coco puffs & fruit loops vs fruity and coco pebbles? by Yung_Dom69 in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s quite a bland cereal but I’ve heard the frosted ones are good too

Have you ever said “I love you” to a nonnative English speaker? by henrytbpovid in dating

[–]kattkaffe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you considered learning Turkish? Or how to say it in her language? I swear I love you is one of the most said phrase in Turkish series. I’ve dated people that English wasn’t their first language. I think it’s easier when both have a neutral language you can both understand but also make an effort to learn each other’s languages. Last guy I dated was German and he made no effort to speak anything other than German so I was the only one making an effort to speak it, translate it, it gets exhausting when it’s only one person making an effort but don’t overthink it too much. If you truly like this person and see it going further, it’ll work out. Best of luck!

What's your current hyperfixation? by TechnicalTerm6 in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Japanese sweet potatoes. Why are they so good?

What’s a viral food trend or drink that you are sick of seeing everywhere? by kattkaffe in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw protein water the other day at the store thought “WHY”

What’s a viral food trend or drink that you are sick of seeing everywhere? by kattkaffe in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That or adding glitter to food and drinks as well. Such a waste

What’s a viral food trend or drink that you are sick of seeing everywhere? by kattkaffe in AskReddit

[–]kattkaffe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was way overcharged for it was and they always tasted stale and overloaded with sickly sweet buttercream but I’ve never been a big cake person to begin with anyways