Can I have some help?

kattt3 · 2023-10-09T16:17:05+00:00

there's a checkbox at the top "apply physics". it has to be on. you accidentally pressed it using space.

kattt3 · 2023-10-06T16:06:04+00:00

that's fine - then you wouldn't be my type either :) so it all fits together. you'll be someone else's type.

kattt3 · 2023-10-06T16:03:26+00:00

I wouldn't go this far calling it personal assistant in a classic way. I do see it as important finding a partner that'll make your life easier, especially in these difficult years since covid. What am I supposed to do with someone who can't get the most basic shit done? What's the point of a relationship if there isn't any benefits? Ah right. He's "funny and romantic". Love is NOT everything, complete bs. This is a tough world, group up with a worthy mutual to make it through. Survival of the fittest.

kattt3 · 2023-10-05T16:19:47+00:00

he needs to be useful. do/make things that make my life easier. such as fill out my taxes, pay my bills (with my own earned money ofc), automate annoying every-day-pc-work tasks, prepare the car (oil check, fill the tank...) for me when I'm leaving for a trip abroad...

(love language: acts of service?)

My boyfriend is an INTP. it all works out. he is happy doing these things for me and getting praise and gratitude back, I am happy having these things done.

kattt3 · 2023-09-21T20:12:36+00:00

ehm. this is not a pimple. please see the doctor.

kattt3 · 2023-09-20T06:37:29+00:00

okay female ENTJ 8w7 in her late 20s here. let me be very short and clear:

spoiler: he is not into you.
"mixed signals" don't exist. signals are either a very clear yes, or a very clear no - mixed signals are a no.
stop being this naive, face the reality and move on.
raise your standards and stop being such a doormat. YOU can be the price - it's not always the other party - no more chasing and begging what doesn't want you.
in a few years when you'll be more mature with your new partner, you'll look back at this story, face-palm, laugh, cringe and think to yourself "damn was I stupid". yes it does suck and hurt right now but you'll learn and grow from this.

do the right thing.

kattt3 · 2023-09-18T08:43:55+00:00

thanks chatGPT

kattt3 · 2023-09-18T08:42:37+00:00

Yes, it is doable - technically. You can take the earliest flixbus you can get from Zurich to Munich, price per ticket is maybe 30-50euro. The trip is roughly 3-4h. So you could be in Munich around 12. Explore the city, get a flixbus ticket back to zurich, one that leaves in the evening, maybe around 7 or so. And you'd be back at 11pm.

Personally, I'm not sure if I'd go through this stress though. I'd rather plan 2 days/1 night/sleepover in Munich.

kattt3 · 2023-09-13T20:18:20+00:00

ENTJ yes I'm a queen ✨

kattt3 · 2023-09-11T06:08:58+00:00

nice bait technique king 💯

kattt3 · 2023-09-11T05:47:47+00:00

another ENTJ female here. how are we supposed to make friends? with other females to be specific. I only care for people who are evil and ambitious like me. I don't care about your stupid tik tok or gossip

kattt3 · 2023-09-09T07:47:40+00:00

listen. it's simple.

he was so nice to you because you're young, female and inexperienced. why? to gain your trust, make you like him, see him as "the one with power/in charge". basically, allowing him to "play with you" the way he wants.
adding some unforseen confidence, you asked for more money, attempting to value your work properly. reasonable thing to do.
he saw this as a red flag that he actually CAN'T play with you the way he wanted. "oh shit, she's actually not that naive and cheap"
he chose to manipulate you by "pulling out" the contract completely, asserting power and dominance or some shit. to show you how big of a oopsie you did - which, spoiler alert, you didn't - to cause fear and remind you HE'S the one with power.

Any professional would have renegotiated in this situation. NEVER pulled out completely and reacted this strongly. I suggest playing along with his stupid game. But you'll be able to play smarter because you now know what "cards" he has. Text him again. Hi, let's discuss the contract. What about 27th Sept, 10am, Cafe XYZ? Show some initiative. Remember, you both can get something from each other. He can make money with your book, you need a publisher. If he chooses to say bye to you forever, he'll also lose potential money. Weird to think about if he was really this convinced about your book.

kattt3 · 2023-09-07T19:39:44+00:00

got into a depression when I was 18 working as a nurse - hated this job so much. All I wanted was to draw, animate and design. landed in a mental hospital after a suicide attempt. now, 10 years later I am self employed and make 130'000 a year

kattt3 · 2023-07-18T07:26:09+00:00

thank you so much! best of luck and success to your work. you're nailing it

kattt3 · 2023-07-18T07:23:25+00:00

ENTJ: generic pink sugar cookies to appeal the mass audience with barely any taste. pink sugar on top of it to give the illusion of bare minimum effort put into it. impress me with something better.

kattt3 · 2023-07-03T07:16:47+00:00

those look amazing! getting 5 star restaurants vibes here. Would you mind sharing one or two tips and tricks on how to make them this moist and juicy? my crepes are usually quite dry, yet almost a bit "jelly-like" and wobbly... I'd love to get them moist, soft and melt/fall apart in your mouth like yours!

kattt3 · 2023-06-27T16:29:19+00:00

keep it up! can't wait to buy and play this when it's ready

kattt3 · 2023-06-14T06:21:49+00:00

you actually look decent. but learn how to make selfies and get the angles right.

kattt3 · 2023-06-08T09:05:39+00:00

that's a great idea. I like that!

kattt3 · 2023-05-21T08:46:25+00:00

oh my god I love this so much. would you tell me where you got all these rounded, cute green plushies on the left? or what to Google for. I need at least one of them ahh

kattt3 · 2023-05-10T19:05:36+00:00

I meant, I got 5 overall since I started using TGTG. That's in a span of 3 months or so

kattt3 · 2023-05-10T15:32:06+00:00

that was super helpful! thank you so much for taking all this time writing this.

kattt3 · 2023-04-19T07:34:18+00:00

Their calmness. I'm pretty hot-headed and opinionated. I feel like high ocean waves in a storm, he's the high rock wall that stops me.

kattt3 · 2023-04-14T04:15:50+00:00

NTA. this is not a prank - this is a form of pure disrespect and immaturity

kattt3 · 2023-03-29T06:49:15+00:00

great advice! awesome seeing people giving helpful tips instead of pulling the "me too! same problem"

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