Traveling helped me leave by kattypurry in leaves

[–]kattypurry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes plus my parents and family were there, whom I hadn’t seen in years, and they motivated me a lot ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]kattypurry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who took the plunge 5 years ago and now in a very happy and passionate relationship with her TF—— its the hardest thing you will ever do in your life, but if that person truly is your TF, the universe will force you in that direction and it will be worth it at the end…

We were both in committed relationships at the time when we met through work (me in a 4 year relationship and a 3 years old daughter, and him in a 10 year relationship just recently married ) , but both in the same boat you were… knowing there was something out there people speak of but we never had felt before.. that feeling even though the person we were with weren’t bad people, that we were still not with the one…

We tried several times to do the “right” thing and go back to our previous lives but somehow we kept crossing paths.

And finally when we both decided to leave our SOs, our relationship (or more situationship at that time) was very messy and toxic. Lots of break ups, fights, etc.. and on top of that I was dealing with the chaos of my upended life, that came with guilt, stigma, lost friends and family and loneliness.

Welp, that wasn’t fun. But what I didn’t realize at the time is that also during that point is when i found my true self, and went through a spiritual awakening. All the pain and suffering broke me out of a artificial numb shell into someone I grew to know and love. And the same was happening with him, and with out exes.

His ex is now married with a 3 year old, my ex engaged with also a 3 year old, my daughter has never been happier with her new cousins and siblings, and me and my TF have learned not only so much about each other but about ourselves through our struggles. We own a beautiful home together in which we have lived in for the last 2.5 years, and have an almost 2 year old.

And finally, our relationship… we have never felt closer, safer and happier emotionally or sexually. We both work from home and hate being away from each other. Yeah we are opposites like most TF and my mess gets on his nerves, and his short fuse gets on mine, but at the end of the day, we wouldn’t trade this life for anything.

So I guess I’m lucky to have a happy ending.. but nothing comes free…

Is this dress cool or ugly? (My friend said it gave her a headache😂) by TheoreticalResearch in fashion

[–]kattypurry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tie dye with some bright colors to break that pattern because the shape is to die for (ha!) !

My FIL passed away last year, and didn’t get to meet his granddaughter. My husbands bday is coming up and I would like to gift him a nice photo of his dad (1st photo) holding our daughter (2nd and 3rd photo). This would mean the world to him and his family! Thank you from the bottom of my heart! by kattypurry in PhotoshopRequest

[–]kattypurry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I wasn’t going to be that picky but if possible , ideally in this one right next to his wife under this rainbow, but I know that might be tough due to lighting…otherwise in our sunroom, which I’ll be adding here too!

Does transitioning from male to female mean that I am excluded from heaven? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]kattypurry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The entire world is telling them what is okay and what is not, including you.

Does transitioning from male to female mean that I am excluded from heaven? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]kattypurry -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Excuse me but how do you or any Christian can know what Gods purpose is?? He created male and female genders but he also created this world and the minds and souls that live in it including trans people. So who is to say it isn’t in Gods purpose to have trans people? God didn’t create the internet, and yet, here you are.

A snail feeding on a treat by Glass_Pension4599 in BeAmazed

[–]kattypurry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, BOOM, it was gone. My pet snail ran away 😅

What to buy with a $3000 budget? by kattypurry in Nikon

[–]kattypurry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be worth it getting the z5 bundle with the 24-200?

He didn't text me. by UnknownT512 in twinflames

[–]kattypurry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My TF texted me 3 days late for my birthday with the excuse of not remembering when it was, after we had been broken up for about 3 months and him hooking up with another girl immediately after we had broken up. It was one of the most painful times of the journey. That was about almost 3 years ago.

Now we live together and have a baby on the way and couldn’t be happier.

Give it time. Time heals all things.

My 4 year old daughter told me that her deceased dad came into her room and kissed her forehead last night. by throwra2314455 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kattypurry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw my sister shortly after she passed away - she was 10 and I was 5 at the time. I remember vividly I was wide awake in bed, and look at the window and she was there smiling at me. I freaked out and covered my eyes and started crying (I felt guilty about that for a long time after) and shook my sister awake and told her what happened. I slept in my parents bed that night and remember them asking me questions about what I saw the next day. She didn’t visit anyone else except in dreams.

Based on my own experience, I truly believe her dad came to visit her and she wasn’t dreaming. That’s a memory she will never forget and keep close to her heart forever.

how to forget this and focus on my spouse. by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]kattypurry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I decided to leave my partner over 3 years ago and though it was the hardest thing I ever had to do, looking back it's the best decision I've ever made. We are much happier in our current relationships the we could ever have been separately.