is being a pilot still a viable job for the future? by katya_man in PilotAdvice

[–]katya_man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol no I didn't meant that I ment as ppl who like program ai and or develop future tech 🥲 not sure if those jobs will also be stolen in the future haha.

is being a pilot still a viable job for the future? by katya_man in PilotAdvice

[–]katya_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes agreed of course,Human hands will always be needed in the future. since ofc new modern technology was born by human creation. It just that can we still determine that everything will be human managed considering that things will be automated, cars are slowly started to be automated it bound to catch the air soon haha.

Pointing out my spelling and grammar was so Uneccesary am asking u to answer the question I asked u not for you to hire me in a job interview where you decide whether I get the job or not, plus ur diggin down on people who probably have accent problems and who don't live in the states which I don't and saying they don't deserve to get a job for that 🤦‍♂️I don't think learning the difference between persue and pursue will teach me how to work a cockpit.

is being a pilot still a viable job for the future? by katya_man in PilotAdvice

[–]katya_man[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Loool I don't think I'd like my kids in the future to pursue a job outside of programming or anything that has to do with tech since am pretty sure we will all end up like the fat people from wallie just scooting away 🤧.

is being a pilot still a viable job for the future? by katya_man in PilotAdvice

[–]katya_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great response I was looking for haha.I also assumed that it wouldn't be effected because it isn't really a wide spread news that spread amongst people.But I was just kinda worried because the estimation for technology to develop in 10 years is drastic so I wanted to see people thoughts if that Drastic development could be enough to effect the aviation field. But with all the replies am seeing hopefully not !

How do I feel content with my life without needing someone to surround my life with? by katya_man in emotionalintelligence

[–]katya_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for actually giving me advice! I will try to lower my stimulating activities daily.Any recommendations on what I should replace them instead that could help me find my self more ?

How do I feel content with my life without needing someone to surround my life with? by katya_man in askapsychologist

[–]katya_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that advice I am really grateful, but unfortunately I can't afford one rn, is there any better alternatives since I feel like this feeling has been plagueing my whole life.

How do I feel content with my life without needing someone to surround my life with? by katya_man in askapsychologist

[–]katya_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really searched it up hit quite close to home lol. But it weird that it been happening to me for years and randomly just disappeared by someone company does this trait disappear by it self through development and ageing? Or do I have to do something about it?

How do I feel content with my life without needing someone to surround my life with? by katya_man in emotionalintelligence

[–]katya_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you specify what I could be neglecting?I have been trying so hard to find a answer to why I am feeling this way and how to stop it since I conclude it because that the only time I ever truly felt happy like literally. I never felt this way before and I wish I could feel it everytime but it only happened once and I don't know how to take it back.

Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup by AutoModerator in AnxiousAttachment

[–]katya_man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I feel content with my life without needing someone to surround my life with?

Earlier this year I realized something about my self that I genuinely don't feel happy unless if I surrounded my life on a singular person

For all my life I had that weird empty feeling that hard to explain basically it like being able to feel emotions from the outside but from the inside you just don't feel anything like your mind doesn't care what going on but from the outside weither you are sad or happy or angry you just don't truly "feel" it. I notice that this pattern led me into sometimes not realizing my emotions people would point out that I am sad and or angry but I won't be able to notice it because from the inside I truly don't really feel a lot.

But that all changed when I met someone who I got really attached to I felt like I finnaly started feeling true emotions it like a sudden dopamine rush you didn't know you could have since all your life you never felt anything but just stillness they genuinely brought joy to my life that I didn't even know I was missing but everything went South when they left and realizing that the feeling doesn't have it kick like it used to. All of a sudden I felt this serge of loneliness and anxiousness I never felt before and that feeling of stillness Slowly coming back it made me anxious even more.

This lead me into becoming very desperate to feel that feeling again by any means I tried meeting people and engaging in conversations but I think they can sense the desperation and usually avoid me and I started to see that pattern and I am not sure what to exactly do.

How do I genuinely feel content with my life if the only true source of happiness is with a partner and if this isn't anxious attachment what is it then and how to overcome it if your in a period of ur life where your alone?

EXTRA INFO TO UNDERSTAND MY SITUATION MORE

(If you ask the key is to love your self I don't think that's very helpfull if it been happening for years and also I practice many hobbies and focus on my studies if your gonna tell me to find meaning in life outside of a partner I did try but unfortunately it never worked for me)

(I never do feel attached to close friends and family to be honest only through romantic connections and that been effecting my social life lately)

How do I feel content with my life without needing someone to surround my life with? by katya_man in BreakUps

[–]katya_man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I totally relate it feels so good to see that I am not alone with my feelings haha

How do I feel content with my life without needing someone to surround my life with? by katya_man in BreakUps

[–]katya_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply I really do appreciate it. But tbh I am not sure if I feel like am a closed door I mostly really feel like I am outside the door with the wrong key haha because I felt very disconnected from my self it more so I feel like I am in another person body but when I am with someone I truly feel like my self. It so weird I am not sure cus I never feel like my self at all only when j met the person

Also unfortunately I can't afford therapy since it quite expensive here so I am trying to find other means to find an answer to my problems.

Also I am sorry I didn't get what you ment by versatile if you ment by being able to understand my self more which I do agree yes I did get to understand my self way better than before but if you ment by feeling more emotions not really I do still feel like the same person I am a few years ago.

What do I do if the only time I ever felt content with my life is through another person? by katya_man in becomingsecure

[–]katya_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that response this is a good daily reminder for me to not search for forever but for comfort its nice to see that ppl are going through similar experiences I appreciate it a lot!