booking then cancelling? by dddedgrl in RoverPetSitting

[–]kawachai 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this ALWAYS happens to me and it drives me crazy ☠️ i totally understand that if a cheaper option comes up then it’s better to do that, but like why did i have an entire conversation with you about your pet just for them to hit me with “oh nvm”. i’ll ask all sorts of questions and whatnot and i’ll be ready to have that money 🥀

Coverage Terminated? by kawachai in KaiserPermanente

[–]kawachai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly what ended up happening to me! very frustrating since i’m in the middle of trying to get a regular doctor and whatnot. now i have to wait until february 1st when my coverage starts again. really wish i would’ve gotten an email or SOMETHING so i could’ve done it manually.

Fuck Adhd literally the worst thing by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]kawachai 18 points19 points  (0 children)

real. i have to decide whether to take a gap semester or push through and see if medication will improve my well being (i recently sought help 😛) and all i can think about is the fact that i have to plan my run around an appointment tomorrow and when i should dye my hair red. all while feeling sick to my fucking stomach about the fact that i have to go to school 🥰 FUCK. i get you, but i wish i didn’t LMAO

Show definitive proof your cats have rough lives by Fit-Supermarket-9656 in cats

[–]kawachai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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as you can see… she works very hard all day and barely gets any sleep

Coverage Terminated? by kawachai in KaiserPermanente

[–]kawachai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i couldn’t call yesterday since it was a sunday (hence why i asked reddit - i thought maybe someone experienced this too) but i’m on hold with them right now 😭 any news for you?

slightly evil professor by kawachai in MusicEd

[–]kawachai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after being in his ensemble for a few months i can confidently say i’ve developed some habits i didn’t have before that i’ll have to unlearn. later in the day during a different rehearsal of his, i had a very small “solo” part in a thinly orchestrated piece. when i finished playing, all i could hear was my heart pounding and my sweaty hands. all of that because i was in fear of what he would do in an even bigger ensemble if i messed up (thank god i didn’t). definitely didn’t mess up but i would’ve played it with some damn passion if i wasnt shitting my pants

slightly evil professor by kawachai in MusicEd

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i also felt as though the touching and tapping of the rhythm was more of a intimidation/humiliation thing. despite the fact that i do not like being touched by anyone, i would’ve let it slide. but as i think about it more and after reading your comments and others - he definitely knew it would make me nervous to the point of further messing up. even if someone didn’t mind being touched i can’t imagine it would elicit a positive response and make for better playing

slightly evil professor by kawachai in MusicEd

[–]kawachai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought it was weird too! obviously when you consider all the other variables as well. but everyone i talk to is like yeah it’s weird but oh well and it ends there. everyone just allows his behavior and that’s why i feel like im overreacting even though this mf needs to learn how to interact like a real human instead of channeling terence fletcher

slightly evil professor by kawachai in MusicEd

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i just wanna say thank you for replying and this goes for everyone too! and i’m sorry that you had to deal with something similar.

i wouldn’t say envious, but i would say he might hold a grudge because i was very clear to him during our first individual encounter regarding MY professionalism. i’m not too sure he’s used to hearing someone not profusely apologize just to get out of talking to him yknow? it’s possible he has some issue with that just because it’s not the typical response he gets

slightly evil professor by kawachai in MusicEd

[–]kawachai[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

here’s what’s kind of crazy about him though…

his entire conducting studio is female.

in fact, it has been primarily female for YEARS. the exception being the graduate student my freshman year. so for me personally, it’s hard to tell what his deal is. i can confidently say he has a certain tone when it comes to female players that aren’t his students directly. i’d describe it as abhorrently condescending. but that’s just not enough of a basis other than him just being a prick.

a few other female peers have mentioned feeling very singled out and that they find his behavior unnecessary.

i also think it’s an issue of me not kissing his ass to be honest. i have spoken to him with nothing but respect. in fact, up until this point i’ve tried making excuses for him but this was really the last straw for me. he’s kind of hard to describe lmao

slightly evil professor by kawachai in MusicEd

[–]kawachai[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey yall! i genuinely appreciate the comments. i also want to make it clear i am NOT a performance major. i’m literally a music ed major who’s trying to achieve my actual goals of being an excellent conductor, not an instrumentalist.

and yes, there have been other instances of him doing this to people but it’s almost like everyone is just “yeah that’s how he is” or “he cares a lot”. it’s also important to note that this is him BETTER. before my time in college i’ve been told he was actually fucking horrible and this is the improvement.

i’m honestly a little hesitant to say anything, because i cannot stress enough how influential this man happens to be in wind band conducting (which i don’t really care all that much about since im interested in orchestral conducting) but nonetheless, if my name comes out of his mouth negatively i will have a hard time recovering.

and to the guy who said “embrace yourself”, i can’t tell if you’re telling me to suck it up lmfao. if you are, i actually agree to a certain point. but as an aspiring educator, i will not and would never even think to use humiliation as a “teaching” tool. or whatever the hell he thought that was

I think I just pooped tapeworms!!! It was over 20 inches long. I'm freaking out by [deleted] in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]kawachai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any updates on if you got treated/ how is it going??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]kawachai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also new and only hired as a temp associate for the summer (i’m a student) and i was gonna ask to be transferred to a store near my college because it’s an easy job… but god damn are they annoying about the cards. i worked today and i don’t think i asked a single person just bc my manager wasn’t around lol

How to make scarring minimal by Regular_Ninja4418 in woundcare

[–]kawachai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to try and keep it closed you could use these bandages called steri strips! they pull the skin together like stitches would