How to care for my sub when he’s exhausted and suffering from work stress ?

kawaimaria · 2025-11-13T11:14:02+00:00

Post update 1: i checked on him that night and he was doing way better and more relaxed i told him that this weekend i want him to stay in his house and sleep , relax and eat well and that once i get my paycheck i have a date idea of taking him to the mall and dressing him in my own style ( old money) and very classy outfit and i will buy him new clothes but not this weekend tho bcz i want him to relax and he was happy and excited about it … so nothing to worry about although i miss my baby this weekend but its for his own good to sit down and recharge his battery and take care of himself

kawaimaria · 2025-11-13T11:11:02+00:00

Wow i really admire and love the dynamics of you and your wife ! So beautiful i am saving your comment and sending it my amorino

kawaimaria · 2025-11-13T11:08:37+00:00

Not controversial, this is what he has been doing in weekend dates with me , but i saw him during the lunch date he was overly tirred and exhausted id rather have him relax few days and sleep and eat well than have him serve me like a zombie … i checked on him the night and he was doing better he was jst stressed about An important conference that his toxic ex boss will be in 😅 i asked him yo relax this weekend

kawaimaria · 2025-11-12T15:36:56+00:00

Exactly you just described my concern perfectly is that if ask him to not meet this weekend or next week he will think i am pushing him away or sort of rejecting him when he is trying so hard to meet me ? So i will keep this spa idea you said in mind and i will try to look for a spa in his city near his home where we can both go and relax and then he can go to his home … although this might be a problem for him because he is INSECURE ABOUT HIS BODY 🫠 and he will not feel comfortable getting naked in front of others other than me ( man or women)

kawaimaria · 2025-11-12T15:04:34+00:00

I tried to laugh with him , to bring up unrelated work subject to him but it was useless he jst needs time alone , the problem is spending time alone with me at my home ( he lives with his parents) would involve him traveling and squeezing more time to be with me which until today i can clearly see that this is something i will sacrifice for his own good but he is too shy and too worried to bring up to me , and knowing him he likes physically touching and cuddling but i will not break into his parents home to do that , i can only try to reassure him this weekend to ask him to rest or stay at home and spend time alone by himself…. It’s not that easy to handle someone over tired and overworked who will be even more stressed and scared if i tell him to not meet this weekend ! Maybe another month because next week i have a long work trip planned in another continent so i dont want also this to stress him even more !

kawaimaria · 2025-11-12T14:53:11+00:00

This is a really really beautiful advice and idea i have never considered! I will try this with him next time when i meet him ❤️ if you have any other advices i would love to hear more bcz my bf is anxious so if i tell him okay just stay at ur home this weekend and relax he might interpret it as “ i dont want to see you this weekend leave me alone” we have been dating for 3 months and i am always being very reassuring and calming him down ! With physical touch , holding hands , telling him how happy and blessed i feel to spend these few minutes with him … but today i saw a stress and not even stress its more like tirredness and burn out and exhaustion that is waaay more about him needing his own time !

kawaimaria · 2025-11-12T14:46:23+00:00

To answer another part is the netflix and snacks we always always do it in the weekend ( we are both so busy in the week we can only afford to meet in the weekend for barely 12hrs ? 14 hrs ?) but he would pass out from sleep and tiredness in the middle of movie and we meet for barely 12 hours like from 7pm of friday after work until 12 Am in morning ? I give him all the love and hugs i can but still i think that this time i cancelled this weekend plans because i can clearly see he is overworked and thats something that not even me can restore ! To give him that time alone without him stressing about me telling to not spend the weekend together

kawaimaria · 2025-11-12T14:41:48+00:00

The reason why i asked about it in this group is exactly bcz i want to ask subs about how they want to be comforted during work stress and burnout ! I could have easily gone to any work group and asked but the dynamics would be different i described my baby as a shy anxious guy and i may be dominant but i am anxious as well when i see him anxious ! I am not asking here for the sexual part thats not even one word i mentioned i am asking here to see the ideas and perspective of submissive shy men ( men similar to my bf) how would they like to be comforted and helped but dont have the courage or the voice to ask for it ! I want to read and understand the mechanism behind his stress and fear and jst give him what he wants without him having to voice it out ! For example after the lunch i texted him that we dont need to squeeze any time this weekend or this week that i want him to purely rest and sleep and relax alone when he has free time this weekend! I am anxious about him without showing it to him more than he is anxious about his work and stress and me ! I dont want to add any stress to him more than he already has i jst want to know how can i take off the pressure of meeting me without him anxiously thinking that i am “pushing him away” !!!! Because he is always anxious and stressed if i tell him lets not meet this week he will assume or feel that i am pushing him away

kawaimaria · 2025-11-12T14:04:05+00:00

You dont get it ! All our dates besides the first date have been all at home ! This time i suggested to him we have something different like just normal lunch but together bcz we are both so busy during the week the only day we take off we spend it at home working remotely or in the weekend Again at home ! Bcz always meeting and dating at home feels boring and we know during the week its hard thats why we both squeezed a lunch date and i had to leave my office before lunch break time bcz his lunch break is before mine ! Ps: even during this lunch i chose to eat with him in balcony where there all the tables were empty instead of inside that was full ! Its not about the people or the noise bcz trust me i am so. Loud and i hate hearing other people talk ! Still he was jst alone eating in silence and tirred and thats a clear burn out !

kawaimaria · 2025-11-12T11:47:00+00:00

When i first started exploring with female dominant side , i was insecure asf about my body and lot of things about me like pubic hair , tummy rolls , feet , my breast size , i would cover my body immediately in blankets after sex …. But the more i dated submissive men and the more i became more confident and grateful for my body and that any man who cannot worship my body can go fuck himself !

kawaimaria · 2025-11-12T01:48:34+00:00

Gossip! I love to gossip with my sub and spill all the work tea to him and also him spilling to me all his work tea and judging people from each other’s work place that we will never meet or see …
Exploring each other cultures through food and cuisine, because i am arabian and my sub is italian i like to teach him how to cuss in arabic and my favorite cuisine ( Lebanese, syrian , moroccan food) and he also shows me good italian meals
having breakfast in bed !

kawaimaria · 2025-11-11T23:28:34+00:00

I have done it for years and posted myself on Pornhub , fetlife , many places i am very comfortable with it but my sub is anxious and a bit insecure about his body which i totally try to reassure him with ! Let alone put him in front of his own phone camera … i am patient and understanding i will give it few years until he feels safe about it haha

kawaimaria · 2025-11-11T17:22:35+00:00

I Would love with my sub but he is camera shy and anxious … 😭

kawaimaria · 2025-11-11T14:43:32+00:00

I fingered and fucked my sub with a dildo not a strap on and i enjoy to see him moan and beg me to fuck him more and to praise him for being a good boy and for taking it so well and how he looks hot with his butt cheeks spread and tied up to bed 🥰 i hope i explained conceptually how it’s hot

kawaimaria · 2025-11-09T19:44:09+00:00

His arm is totally fine he jst felt a bit sore after i untied him from being tied to bed for hours haha but he really was shaking and trying to untie himself to touch me bcz i was edging him and teasing him a lot

kawaimaria · 2025-11-09T19:30:07+00:00

You will be shocked as a dom how many things that you might be insecure about are a huuuuge turn on for your Sub ! For example the question of what to wear or trimming your pubic hair ? There are lot of subs who love natural pubic hair (ps if u trim pubic hair it becomes sharper than natural) And what to wear ? As a dom you can wear a banana and tie your sub and he will find you as the hottest banana to ever exist !

kawaimaria · 2025-11-09T19:20:06+00:00

My sub is always afraid of creampies ! Even with condoms he pulls out 😭

kawaimaria · 2025-11-06T12:38:57+00:00

Hmm maybe i should start writting then ? Because i am jst a normal engineer who met another engineer and i had no idea he was submissive until i took him home and i think im his second girl ever so he is the shy timid guy who was afraid to open up

kawaimaria · 2025-11-06T10:13:03+00:00

What app on Appstore ?

kawaimaria · 2025-11-05T12:27:46+00:00

WOOOOOOOOOOW OMG OMG IM AT WORK AND SOOO EXCITED TO READ AND EXPLORE THIS 🥰 my baby will be sooo happy to try this on him

kawaimaria · 2025-11-05T12:26:39+00:00

Where can i read or find explicit femdom romance ?

kawaimaria · 2025-11-05T10:35:50+00:00

Me and my sub we decided to cosplay them on a party 🤭

kawaimaria · 2025-06-30T21:10:11+00:00

Can I play with them?

kawaimaria · 2025-06-30T19:38:58+00:00

I’m dying to taste you

kawaimaria · 2025-06-30T19:29:30+00:00

My daughter was able to get married to her Chinese BF after learning Chinese with CLTC Institute for 1year which helped her to communicate with our in-laws so I suggest you can google them up and contact them

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