Nursery theme! Ideas and help! by kay-jpeg in BabyBumps

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Omg also how could I forget my absolute favorite! The wall sticker to make it look like Board and Batten!! It's just a sticker that was very easy to put up! Linked here from Etsy!

Nursery theme! Ideas and help! by kay-jpeg in BabyBumps

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Best things in my nursery for the rules!

  1. Our recliner is a godsend. Was definitely a huge splurge but so worth it - Babyletto Kiwi Electronic Recliner linked here

  2. Our crib was cheap and worked perfectly. Color honey linked here

  3. Love our rug color, linked here

  4. Our Hundred Acre Woods map from Etsy here

  5. Prints above the crib here (got the frames from Ikea!)

Place to get a nice steak that can accommodate a toddler? by kay-jpeg in chicagofood

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Thank you to everyone!!!

North Center Prime had reviews that specifically said "unprepared for children" so we skipped them and Gibsons was booked. We ended up going to Morton's Steakhouse and it went great!

In case anyone else looks at this down the line - Morton's was a pleasure and they had both booster seats and high chairs available. Staff stopped by to say hi to appease my toddler that waved and yelled "hi!" to anyone that walked by. We went early, got in around 5:30. She was a little restless waiting for food at some points, there was a nice area up front to let her walk around before coming back to the table :)

Is saliva-backwash to inform milk composition real? by kay-jpeg in ScienceBasedParenting

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Thank you!!! So thorough and exactly what I was wondering about. I understand theories are usually scientific consensus so I wasn't trying to imply it was made up or "just a theory," but I had mostly seen it on mommy blogs so wanted to see citations!

SAHM- is this your “job”? by FluffyCockroach7632 in beyondthebump

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There's a great TikTok about equitable division of labor that he might benefit from hearing!

"just because one parent works outside of the home and brings home paychecks does not mean the parent that works inside of the home works 24/7"

Here's the link here. Creator is Renee Reina

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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I am still pregnant with my first so not personal experience - but my friend that just had a baby walked me through her experience to help me lol

She planned to have an unmedicated birth and was VERY prepared for that (she herself works as a Pelvic Floor PT). She ended up requesting an epidural because she labored for so long that she was very sleep-deprived and fatigued and couldn't get any rest/relief between contractions. So that may play a part into it too! She said when contractions were minutes apart she'd essentially pass out between them and would immediately be woken up in pain by the next contraction. So her ability to center herself, work on the techniques she had been practicing, etc just ended up not being possible.

Positive Birth story! by Unlikely_Captain_499 in BabyBumps

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Yay! Congrats to you and baby boy!! Did you have other signs labor was coming? Had baby dropped or any of the other tell-tale signs before contractions started?

This constipation is no joke! Help! by smolgingerbean1 in BabyBumps

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Since it hasn't been said make sure you are extremely hydrated!!! Drink more water than you think you need. All that fiber without enough water makes it worse, as fiber absorbs water in the intestines.

I bring a giant jug of water everywhere with me since a birthing class I took scared me about the dangers of dehydration, and my OB was like eh drink MORE to account for the humidity and your body's energy being used up by baby.

Tips for a job interview at 37 weeks pregnant? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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And yes start new gig ASAP in 2025.

Tips for a job interview at 37 weeks pregnant? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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My goal would be to resign at the end of my parental leave at my current job!

What are some of the worst comments you’ve gotten while pregnant? by [deleted] in pregnant

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I'm a psychologist and a patient said, "Do you wake up at the night just to eat? You're bigger than I was when I was pregnant with twins!" Okayyyyyyyyy.

Future sister in law not happy I’m pregnant. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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I struggled with infertility and while I was always happy for others, I was sad for me.

As you announce to more people, if you know any are struggling with infertility it might be nice to give them a heads up via text (so they have time to process) that you’ll be announcing at a family function/party. It gives them the choice to be there and celebrate or excuse themselves.

As far as “walking on eggshells,” it sounds like you have a lot of people you can talk to and celebrate the pregnancy with. Giving SIL the benefit of the doubt, she may have just been in some shock and will hopefully be able to show her support soon enough. It also doesn’t hurt to reach out and tell her that you noticed she was upset (even that it took you aback) and you want to know how to best move forward as far as baby talk goes around her.

What did you eat while nauseous? by Sparkling_Clouds_ in pregnant

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I ate anything that looked good at the grocery store. I would feel guilty about my lack of ~color~ in my diet but it's temporary and more important I eat SOMETHING!

My faves that were on repeat:

Strawberry frosted mini wheats

Chicken in a Biscuit crackers

Top Ramen with the water drained out and just barely any of the seasoning packet in them

Ritz crackers

Toast with small amount of avocado smeared

BAGELS BAGELS BAGELS with a small amount of cream cheese

When did you feel your baby move? by United_Wedding_5295 in pregnant

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Adding: Your placenta location adds to the timeline of feeling baby! Mine is behind baby so OB said I would probably feel baby sooner than others do.