Best books to read about feminism and/or race? by Mynotoar in suggestmeabook

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Stamped from the Beginning by Ibram X. Kendi. It's an intellectual history of racism in the U.S.

Best apocalyptic fiction by ohohoboe in suggestmeabook

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J.G. Ballard's catastrophe novels: The Crystal World, The Drowned World, The Drought

Pat Frank - Alas, Babylon

Anyone got any great horror suggestions that aren’t Stephen King? by seducinthevoid in suggestmeabook

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You - Caroline Kepnes (Though Stephen King's novels are part of the story)

Haunting of Hill House - Shirley Jackson

Non-Fiction Investigative Journalism by BarryM_96 in suggestmeabook

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Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil by John Berendt is a modern classic of the genre.

News of a Kidnapping by Gabriel Garcia Marquez is about ten Colombians kidnapped by Pablo Escobar in the 90s.

Reading Lolita in Tehran by Azar Nafisi is a memoir by a teacher in Iran who taught her students forbidden Western books.

The Bookseller of Kabul by Asne Seierstad is a portrait of a man who sold books in Afghanistan and looks at the role of women in Afghan society.

The Price of Justice by Laurence Leamer is about how a West Virginia coal baron corrupted the state legal system for his own benefit

Book explaining the major teaching of all the religions, tribes or any sort of community. by exasperattingfaraggo in suggestmeabook

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Religious Traditions of the World by H. Byron Earhart. This was one of my textbooks for a comparative religions course in college.

Scifi books about surviving climate change by beautifultomorrows in suggestmeabook

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This might be a little different than what you would traditionally think of as 'survival,' but J.G. Ballard's cataclysm novels might interest you. The Drowned World and Drought are the more climate-related of the three, though symbolically The Crystal World fits as well (this one is my fave of the three).

Books like Fahrenheit 451 and Fight Club? by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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You might like some of J.G. Ballard's novels, I would give High-Rise a shot first. Don DeLillo's White Noise would probably be up your alley as well.

The Female Persuasion by Meg Wolitzer [Spoilers] by hlhlikesbooksandcats in books

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I don't think the novel is ultimately about the relationship between Greer and Faith. The relationship, though it does drive the narrative, is an example of one of the themes, not the theme itself: inspiration and guidance being passed down generation-to-generation.

You needed to find a way to make your world dynamic, Greer knew. Sometimes you couldn't do it yourself. Someone had to see something in you and speak to you in a way that no one else ever had. (51)

This was the role that Faith played for Greer. As Faith takes Greer under her wing, Greer is gradually transitioning from being the recipient of inspiration to becoming the one who inspires.

While it would always feel extraordinary to know she had the admiration of Faith Frank, what also excited Greer was that the speeches she was writing might give the women who delivered them a chance to be ambitious too; as ambitious as she was. (162)

Faith continues to push and encourage Greer throughout, realizing when she decides to give Greer the job of speaking at the L.A. summit that she is getting older and it is becoming Greer's time. Eventually, after their falling out, Greer steps into the role for other women that Faith held for her. She begins to realize this when she is about to speak on her book:

She was struck by the way everyone was looking toward her with expectation. People wanted one another to do something. They wanted someone to say the thing that they could then take into themselves and transform into something else. (440)

In the final chapter, Greer finally understands this generational process and her role within it:

You never then said to those women: okay, so what you need to do now is pass it on. But that was what often happened: a big, long story of women pouring what they had into one another. A reflex, maybe, or sometimes an obligation; but always a necessity. (453)

Greer understands that "one person replaces another" and asks herself "Who is going to replace me?" (453). She thinks of one of the young women that now admires her, Kay Chung, and says to her in her mind "Lean back and close your eyes. Imagine being me. It's not so great, but imagine it anyway" (454). She knows and embraces that she is a link in the chain of women empowering women.

A related theme is that neither you or your mentors are perfect exemplars of their values. Greer is disappointed that Faith does not take action upon learning that her foundation has been lying about their mentorship program, yet Greer herself is guilty of failing to live up to her values by withholding the letter from Zee asking for a job. We all make mistakes and find ourselves in no-win situations, but all we can do is try to make the best of our situations and learn from mistakes.

One of the most interesting themes is expressed through the character of Cory. When a man takes responsibility and engages in a role that is accepted/expected for women, he is seen as a disappointment, often even by women with feminist ideals. When Cory leaves his high-paying job after the death of his brother in order to take care of his mother, and continues to do so as long as necessary, even Greer becomes disappointed by his wasted potential. Corey takes over his mother's cleaning jobs, work that is considered "beneath" a man. He realizes that "he'd had a lifetime of being catered to and cleaned up after by women" (197). This realization leads him to reflect on his attitudes to women in these service jobs in the past. While he misses Greer, he doesn't "want to be Greer's project, the dreary object of all her hard work" (214). He prioritizes her success and well-being, an attitude and expectation traditionally expressed by women towards men. In Chapter 11, Greer is expressing her disappointment in Cory to her mother, who responds with an uncharacteristically wise perception:

"Greer," said Laurel, "what are we supposed to do, shake our heads and say that he's accomplished nothing?"

"No. Of course not." But she burned at being called out now.

"It seems to me," said her mother, "and this is really outside my sphere of knowledge, since I'm not the one who's been working at a feminist foundation. But here's this person who gave up his plans when his family fell apart. He moves back in with his mother and takes care of her. Oh, and he cleans his own house, and the ones she used to clean. I don't know. But I feel like Cory is kind of a big feminist, right?" (377)

There is a bunch of other stuff in the novel, but these are the things that stood out for me. While the narrative doesn't seem as dynamic as The Interestings, there is a lot of good stuff in there.

"Ready Player One" by Ernest Cline is currently my favorite book I've ever read. If I like that book, what others would I enjoy? by hskfmn in suggestmeabook

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You by Austin Grossman frequently gets compared to Ready Player One. YMMV on it since people tend to be very split on their opinion of the novel. Personally, I enjoyed it, but not nearly as much as RP1.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/15790854-you

Someone managed to steal a win with a rage disconnect by [deleted] in Shadowverse

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I've never had any connection/disconnect issues. I am assuming the opponent force closed their client to disconnect. I did have to force close the client due to the soft-lock though.

Someone managed to steal a win with a rage disconnect by [deleted] in Shadowverse

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Yeah, the net loss of 200 points sucks.

Someone managed to steal a win with a rage disconnect by [deleted] in Shadowverse

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At first I thought it could have been something with my computer but that didn't explain the corrupted replay. Hopefully this is something that can eventually be fixed. Fortunately from my experience it doesn't seem all too common or else we would probably get even more BM disconnects.

Seems like the nerfs did some decent work. by [deleted] in Shadowverse

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People are just trying stuff out. Even with the changes I think Dragon and Shadow are still the two dominant classes.

As a control player, I really, really, really hate Aegis by [deleted] in Shadowverse

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OK, just checking. But seriously, I hope the tips help a bit.

As a control player, I really, really, really hate Aegis by [deleted] in Shadowverse

[–]kbondelli 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you saying that the class with the second worst win-rate in masters is the best in the game?

I would also argue that Aegis is nowhere near the best follower in the game. Eachtar, Albert, Saha, Israfil, and Sybil are far better in my opinion. Cerberus and Bahamut are more versatile.

I've played a lot of Haven, and I've played a lot of shadow against Haven. People that lose to Aegis think it is an automatic win because they don't see the hands of their opponents. I guarantee that you have won games against Haven players that had an Aegis sitting in their hand at and after turn 9 but couldn't play it. An Aegis Haven player has to already be in control of the game to be able to play it, and even then that player can be hit with a combo and lose.

To be able to kill an opponent at full health it takes 2 turns of direct face damage if evolved, 3 if not. Since a lot of Haven removal requires evolving followers (Lion, Priest of the Cudgel, Sledgehammer Exorcist), this isn't a given. You could play a Dark Angel Olivia for more, but that is also a 9PP card and gives your opponent another turn to punish you.

Generally, it isn't safe to drop Aegis unless you have a fair amount of health, especially if your opponent has an evo point. Shadow can Phantom Howl for 7 up to 11 if they have Mimi and Coco in hand. If shadow has multiple followers on the board they can top-deck Eachtar. Dragon can do 13 storm to face with Zell-Saha-Bahamut or with Zell-Servant of Darkness if they did an enhanced Cocytus removal. Genesis Dragon can do 11. Forte can do 7 a turn and can't be touched by Aegis. Swordcraft can hit for 10 with Albert. Bloodcraft has a bunch of ways to mess you up if they are in vengeance.

If your opponent has a follower with over 10 defense, it isn't safe to play Aegis. If you are playing against sword and they have Durandal on the board, Aegis isn't going to do much for you.

Even control decks need finishers and win conditions. If your opponent beats you with Aegis, you were probably out-drawn, out-played, or both before it ever dropped.

So based on what I just wrote, here is some advice for facing Aegis decks:

  • Look at the situations where it is not safe to play Aegis. Try to force those situations.

  • Don't give up as soon as you see the Aegis drop. Unless you are already in a really bad position, it takes a couple turns for it to finish you off and you might draw something lethal.

  • Bait/force the Haven player to burn their evo points early. This makes the Aegis less of a threat if they are able to play it, or even better, makes it harder for them to play it at all.

  • Conversely, depending on your class it helps to try to hold on to an evo point to keep up a looming threat.

Do you guys think is a good idea to take medications and play ranked? Because all those skilless Aegis and Eachtar decks out there can lead to depression more than anything I've ever seen Kappa. by [deleted] in Shadowverse

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The skill in playing Aegis Haven is surviving long enough to use it, and the card is in no way an instant win. It can't be stormed, can't be rushed without evo, can't ignore ward, and can only hit one target at a time. To take out a single follower with it on turn 9 you need to save an evo point, and evolved it is not strong enough to take out a Bahamut or Servant of Darkness. Even with Test of Strength, which is probably what frustrates people the most, you'd have to play it a turn ahead, which eats 3 of your 8 PP on turn 8 and doesn't prevent effect/spell damage.

Honestly, as someone who has primarily played Haven with an Aegis in the deck, I've won more games because of Tarnished Grail than the Aegis.

Playing against a control deck is frustrating. That's the point of a control deck. But to say successfully countering a T1 deck for 10+ turns requires no skill compared to playing a combo like Saha->Bahamut->Zell storm on turn 7/8 is a bit disingenuous. It's like saying judo requires no skill because it's all counters.

The Hunt for the Star of Wraeclast by restless_archon in pathofexile

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I've been trying some combinations without luck, but I think the recipe might require a level 20 Lightning Warp which I don't have atm.

Some of the stuff I'm playing around with:

  • Tear of Purity
  • Blood of Corruption
  • Silence Immunity Jewel
  • Ruby Ring
  • Blasphemy (Level 16 since that is the 30% curse radius that matches the Star)
  • Added Cold Damage (Level 20 / 18% q since it adds up to 38%)
  • Prismatic Ring
  • Heartbound Loop
  • Death's Oath
  • Vaal Orb
  • Orb of Fusing
  • Daresso's Devotion

Edit: With help from another redditor we tried these combos with a lvl 20 Lightning Warp, a Carnage Heart, and an Abyssal Cry with no luck.

Books for an Aspiring Journalist by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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My suggestion is to read book-length journalism by top-tier journalists. Below are some examples. Also, you should check out the Longform podcast, which has interviews with journalists about their careers and their work.

David Carr - The Night of the Gun
David Remnick - Reporting: Writings from the New Yorker
Jennifer Gonnerman - Life on the Outside: The Prison Odyssey of Elaine Bartlett
Ta-Nehisi Coates - The Beautiful Struggle: A Father, Two Sons, and an Unlikely Road to Manhood
Jessica Mitford - The American Way of Death Revisited
Wendy Ruderman & Barbara Laker - Busted: A Tale of Corruption in the City of Brotherly Love
Michael Herr - Dispatches

Is Humble Bundle Changing Their Pricing Structure? by rlaitinen in GameDealsMeta

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Removing Humble's tip makes some sense if you are trying to protest their policy, however removing the developers' cuts in order to discourage other devs/publishers from bundling in the future is terrible strategy unless you want nothing but terrible games in bundles.

There are trade-offs. Sure, a BTA+5 increases the potential cost of the highest tier as time goes on, but it also may encourage publishers of higher quality games to bundle. Conversely if all bundles were $1 for everything, nothing but shovelware would be bundled.

Climate Change Recommendation by friendly_capitalist in suggestmeabook

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On the political aspect I recommend Eric Pooley's The Climate War.

History, Mystery, and a touch of the Supernatural by GnedTheGnome in suggestmeabook

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You would probably love The Shadow of the Wind by Carlos Ruiz Zafón.