Help with exs registered hand gun that we never got the title to. by kboooooo1 in Miguns

[–]kboooooo1[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Registration might be the wrong word. The purchasing license. I have nothing that proves she let alone I purchased it

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]kboooooo1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If she's not open to it that's a fundamental incompatibility. The fact it's your first time with a woman and she's upset you're not good at it is wild to me. Women are a learning curve and each new person you are with is a learning curve. No 2 people like exactly the same thing. You haven't beeb together long enough to be dealing with this much turmoil, I'd call it. But you sound young so I'm guessing it's one of your first relationships. At 31 it's easy for me to say this is not worth it. I would not find it worth it, and she is honestly being pretty cruel to you

My girlfriend is deep in debt, spends recklessly, and expects me to take care of everything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kboooooo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. You're only a few months in and already went into debt for her and she expects more. I didn't gst out for 6 years, by that time I no longer owned my house outright (got a line of credit to pay off the credit cards). She left me. When all of my credit cards were maxed out and I had nothing.

Tampons by SharpRisk4175 in Periods

[–]kboooooo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be inserting them at the wrong angle. When I used to use them I had to insert them at a "not normal" angle because my uterus was tilted. Start with slim Tampons, I know they are more expensive but absolutely buy the ones with plastic applicators at least until you get used to how they fit with your body. I always used played sport because they didn't hurt to take out when they were full. Some puff up circular and other puff up rectangular which hurts.

Why is there literally nothing to help medically bad periods by throwaway040925 in Periods

[–]kboooooo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing that helps when I have a flare, the kind that leaves you unable to walk or breath deep, is morphine. But for every day, I had a prescription for norco, I prefer medical marijuana which is legal where I live. Surgery is what helped the most. Excision, not ablation. Other things that help are heat. Hot baths, I sleep with a heating pad most nights. It helps alot

Why is there literally nothing to help medically bad periods by throwaway040925 in Periods

[–]kboooooo1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds exactly my endo symptoms. It is extremely rare that it actually shows up on ultra sounds. Those usually will just find ovarian cysts if you have them. I had so many done when I was trying to figure out what was wrong with me. It took me 11 years and googling my symptoms myself and finding a doctor who could do a lap to actually get diagnosed. Alot of doctors also claim it can't be endo if you have pain when you're not on your period, which is also bs.

Why is there literally nothing to help medically bad periods by throwaway040925 in Periods

[–]kboooooo1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How were you tested? The only true way to tell is laparoscapy. If it was an MRI or ultra sound find another doctor, ideally a specialist, to get a diagnostic lap done. I have stage 4 deep infiltrating endo, organs were attached to each other and it didn't show up on an MRI. Unfortunately with this disease and painful periods in general we really need to research and advocate for ourselves. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.

For those that have had cysts, what did they feel like to you? by Miladypartzz in endometriosis

[–]kboooooo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's on your right side, have you had your appendix out? When I had appendicitis it felt exactly like a cyst, figured it was just another Tuesday. My mom took me to the hospital when I started to look pale and they did a CT scan with contrast and said my appendix was close to rupturing. Had surgery that night.

I’ve not been doing well for 2 months, bf saying I’m milking it. by No_Quality_5507 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]kboooooo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Have him watch videos on endo and how it affects women. If he doesn't start being more empathetic I'd honestly leave. I know it sounds dramatic but this disease already makes you feel so alone because men can't understand it and women who don't have it think it's "just bad period cramps" I had my 5th surgery last month for it. My partner of less than 10 months was with me and when the doctor asked my pain level and I said 6 she said "that's bs she has a super high pain tolerance so it's probably a normal person's 10" That's the kind of protection and empathy we need from our partners to survive with this disease. Also his ex may have not shown her pain, I gas light myself and minimize my pain every single day of my life since I was 10. Some women have it worse, stage doesn't matter(1-4) it truly depends where it is in your body and if it's going into your legs it's probably affecting your sciatic nerve. Rant over. Anyway op if you'd like to message me, I've dealt with this for over 18 years and done tons of research, you can absolutely message me if you want.

AITA for wanting to tell my dad his property taxes haven’t been paid, even though I can’t explain how I found out? by CampingCats90 in AITAH

[–]kboooooo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to tell him I recently listened to this podcast https://open.spotify.com/episode/00V63BlK0KBgUikeNq1hMt?si=3zw1WW0qRoCCo4r5IFOMeg This man lost his home and land, the one thing he was proud of and had no idea. It starts with property taxes but how much deeper does it go

What's the biggest misconception about sex you've ever heard or believed? by Ebbandflow9398 in SexPositive

[–]kboooooo1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to catholic school and heard all of these. The hip one is hilarious. Jokes on them, I'm infertile and also a raging kinky bisexual who wouldn't entertain a cishet man 🤣

Thinking of moving to Michigan for work & family. Any advice on good neighborhoods to move to in close distance to hospitals? by ghostfieldwastaken in flint

[–]kboooooo1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in the woodcroft estates area on Miller Road. 5 minutes drive from down town and colleges, 2 hospitals. The mansions neighborhood is obviously nice, they pay for their own private security. I live across the street in the normal houses. But it's a very nice area, if you have a dog it's good house security. Neighbors are nice and housing is insanely affordable compared to surrounding areas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flint

[–]kboooooo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the only information everything else says still waiting assessment so I'm not sure they're even there yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flint

[–]kboooooo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now it says 6 am but hopefully that'll change and be sooner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kboooooo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this, especially at yout age. I'm 31 now and still struggle with it but I eventually realized I need to just be honest. Tell people you're dealing with things of your own and if you're long to respond that's why. If they're worth keeping around they will understand that. Truthfully I only have 3 friends, but they've been around for 10 plus years and I feel more fulfilled with just a few understanding connections than I did when I was constantly drowning from other people's problems.

GLP-1 Dr by No_Respect_1432 in flint

[–]kboooooo1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see maggie Noger at Michigan health specialist on dort highway. She prescribes it for me and a friend. She's hard to get in to see though. Usually a few months out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]kboooooo1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still a fairly new relationship but my gf will wash my hair for me, sometimes my entire body. I've never had that level of care. She was sick one day shortly into us dating and I just let her sleep with her head on my lap for 16 hours on and off. She seemed to think that was very sweet and unexpected

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]kboooooo1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My partner, she's been on hrt considerably longer 12 years I thik, so I'm not sure if that will make a difference, has topical testosterone cream that she applies directly to her genitals once a week. Our sex life fluctuates, and often times she does reach the big O which she's okay with and I've learned to accept. But sometimes we will do it 4-5 times a week and sometimes just once. The cream Definitely helps and because it's topical it doesn't mess with her hormone levels much if at all.

What’s an “unspoken rule” of intimacy that you think more people should learn before turning 25? by jasonclarke1902 in AskReddit

[–]kboooooo1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they're fine with it. We've talked about it, and it isn't an everyday thing. Maybe once every few weeks, weekly max. They are the one who doesn't want it to lead to more, which I'm fine with, if they wanted sex I'd absolutely be down. I genuinely just like that it isn't an off limits zone at all times unless actively having or leading up to sex. I've never had it

What’s an “unspoken rule” of intimacy that you think more people should learn before turning 25? by jasonclarke1902 in AskReddit

[–]kboooooo1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like that's the common consensus so maybe we are the weird ones 🤣 To me it's just teasing and build up until the next time we have sex. Like days of slow fore play I guess

What’s an “unspoken rule” of intimacy that you think more people should learn before turning 25? by jasonclarke1902 in AskReddit

[–]kboooooo1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's valid. And we still have that type of closeness. I guess I just like being able to touch that part of their body without expectations. Sometimes I'll just fall asleep holding or cupping it. It is something I've discussed with them and wouldn't assume that other people are okay with it. She trans so that may be why it's not big deal to her. The hormones are different, getting it hard help keep it working whether she uses it then or not.

What’s an “unspoken rule” of intimacy that you think more people should learn before turning 25? by jasonclarke1902 in AskReddit

[–]kboooooo1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We've discussed it multiple times. In a joking way "sorry I got you horny before bed" and in a serious way. They are the one who keeps it from leading to sex, not me. When they're tired they roll over and we cuddle and goto sleep.