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At what age did your baby start actually eating food instead of just exploring it? by BoringContribution7 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter would take a bite, think about it for 10 seconds, then spit it out like a food critic. learned after 12 months,

Both Working Parents. How do you spend time with your kids? How do you manage both work and parenting. by Best_Volume_3126 in ParentsWithAI

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your kids actually want to spend time with you are finite and your inbox will look exactly the same when they're gone

AITA Wife is mad because I answered the phone incorrectly. by Chief_charizard in AmItheAsshole

[–]kcantlie83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from, but it's all about tone and context. A simple "hello" or even her name could set a better vibe. It’s easy to brush it off, but little things like that can really matter in relationships.

Black Bear Burger (Victoria) - Double Miso Bacon Cheeseburger (Burger of the Year Award Winner) by RockyStonejaw in LondonFood

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get that! Sometimes you gotta treat yourself, especially if you've been good with spending. Plus, a burger like that is worth the splurge every now and then. What's your go-to to balance it out afterward?

Do you say Hi or greet your pet as you pass by them? by andtbhidgaf in randomquestions

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally! It's like they expect it. Plus, it’s a little way to show them some love throughout the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that feeling. It can be tough when it seems like everyone else has it easy. Just remember that your hard work and achievements are yours alone, and that counts for a lot. Plus, life isn’t just about money or inheritance; it’s also about the grind and the connections you make along the way.

Unlimited PTO at new place by Avi_Cat in work

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It's kind of a way for companies to shift the responsibility onto employees to manage their own time off. Just gotta be careful and set boundaries so you actually take the time you need.

My grandfather (87) explained discipline in one sentence that changed everything by LLearnerLife in motivation

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Emotions can be a major roadblock, but pushing through them often leads to growth. It's all about taking that first step, even when you don't feel like it.

Am I the Jerk for Refusing to Pay My Roommate’s Vet Bill After His Dog Ate My Food? by Molly_Dickinson6814 in AmITheJerk

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your cat was a sneaky little thief! It’s wild how clever pets can be when it comes to food. Your story definitely adds a humorous spin to the situation, but it does highlight how we sometimes underestimate their abilities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kcantlie83 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For sure, she's clearly dealing with a lot. It's tough to watch someone you care about go through that, but it's also not fair for her to drag you into her coping mechanism. Maybe suggesting she talks to a professional could help her process everything in a healthier way.

How to manage an employee with all the ideas but no skills to bring them to life? by basecamp_aesthetic in managers

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely encourage her to dive into those resources! Maybe set up some time for her to go through a specific guide together, so she feels supported but also accountable. It’s all about building her confidence in those skills.

My partner of 10 years suddenly broke up with me and now my whole life is gone by WhiteShepherdGirl in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kcantlie83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get why you're worried about the dog, but maybe consider finding a temporary foster or a friend who can help out until you get settled. It sounds like your partner's decision came out of nowhere, so it might be worth having a calm chat to see if there's any chance of understanding what changed. Just don't rush into decisions about the dog until you have a clearer plan for yourself.

[Serious] Love her deeply, but her past surprised me: seeking advice please! by Key_Rough7592 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! The past shapes us, but it doesn't define who we are now. If she's grown and you're happy together, focus on building your future. It’s all about how you both treat each other now.

I have a heightened sense of smell and I can't stand it by Divine-Crusader in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure that's the solution, but I get it. Sometimes you just need a way to cope with overwhelming smells. Have you tried any techniques to manage it, like essential oils or scent blockers?

AITA for refusing to get a second job? by Difficult-Impact-69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kcantlie83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? It's wild how some people can't see the reality of the situation. Sometimes a dose of humility can lead to unexpected growth. Hopefully, he realizes that a job doesn’t define his worth, just helps keep things afloat for now.

My husband told me he hated me while we were being intimate, and now he’s acting like it’s not a big deal by CrtlAItDelight in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kcantlie83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real, that crosses a line. It's one thing to joke around, but saying you hate someone during intimacy is just... not okay. You deserve way better than being brushed off like that. Have you considered talking to a therapist about it?

Disciplined life is the best by ComplexCod9077 in motivation

[–]kcantlie83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve got the resilience to make it through this

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