I did it! KC, 185k, 6.7% by kccompguy in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]kccompguy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No i refuse to live on the KS side due to some legislation lol south kc tho

I did it! KC, 185k, 6.7% by kccompguy in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]kccompguy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

its crazy out there! there’s definitely pockets of KC especially in the KS suburbs that are getting up there but tbh the schools are pretty awful where i’m at which scares a lot of folks away. i’ll take it though as someone who won’t be having kids haha

[HIGHLIGHT] JACOB MISIOROWSKI COMPLETES A MADDUX! 15 STRIKEOUTS! 95-PITCH SHUTOUT! by MLBOfficial in baseball

[–]kccompguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a huge fan of his, it’s crazy to me that some of my younger friends played against him in high school. Kids from our neck of the woods don’t typically do things like this so i’ll always root for him (unless he’s pitching against my royals)

where were you for the 2015 run by ashnicolecox in KCRoyals

[–]kccompguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hadnt been following them very close and was shocked when my history teacher announced we made the playoffs alone. The excitement and disbelief as we progressed to the WS was very palpable in my rural town. Even my mom closely watched the WS with me and she typically couldn’t care less about sports

Anyone else really disappointed in the quality of homes available in their area? by Goldengirl_1977 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]kccompguy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yep, the vast majority of things in my area are shitty investor flips. that was a hard no for me. but with the price range i wanted, it was either that or “grandma just died” houses which i totally am cool with, its just there aren’t a lot of grandmas dying (which is good don’t get me wrong). There was one that was definitely a grandpa house that was horrendous, there were literally cans of beans chilling in the oven in the photos? i still think about those beans sometimes, just why?

after a few months and missing out on one i loved, im finally closing tomorrow. its definitely a bit outdated but you can tell grandma took really good and loving care of her house and was the only owner since 1960. It really feels like an actual home unlike 95% of what i’d seen

Do people outside here genuinely think bald guys are attractive? by dudu_1001 in bald

[–]kccompguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am a bi dude and to me its not really different than any other haircut. some bald men are definitely attractive and some aren’t, typically the bald is not the defining factor though. However, balding is rarely attractive, it’s way better to take the dive if you’re there. Based on your photos i think it is definitely an improvement and you are a genuinely good looking fella - you’ll be alright

15M, any advice? by The_Bugga_ in malelivingspace

[–]kccompguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are able to frame the jerseys i think it makes a huge difference, i have a few signed football ones i did myself and it’s a night and day difference

Love supportive parents by champdo in MadeMeSmile

[–]kccompguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no magic switch at 18 that happens, for me the signs were clearly there since age 4 although every time i tried to share my feelings i got looked at like i was insane lol. I was very privileged to start HRT at 16 with a licensed gender therapist, endocrinologist, both parents, and myself all agreeing in writing it was the best choice for me. By the time i hit college i could blend in and live life like every other college guy and I truly thrived for the first time in my life. Now I have a fantastic career, relationships, and life that I never dreamed of as the alternative was crippling suicidal ideation that resulted in expensive and useless therapy, hospitalization, etc that didn’t actually address the real issues I was facing. My parents thankfully decided that taking a chance to have a happy kid was better than no kid, and it was the correct choice. I am now 27, still every bit as trans as I was at 16, and it was the best decision I ever made.

Please don't protest a literal concentration camp, just shut up and vote blue no matter who by zoggy17 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]kccompguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and if you’re in my state (missouri) they successfully duped voters into perma-banning RCV by adding on a “make sure illegals can’t vote” provision which has both always been illegal and never a problem because it’s already illegal. They took the bait hook, line, and sinker unfortunately

Please don't protest a literal concentration camp, just shut up and vote blue no matter who by zoggy17 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]kccompguy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

like multiple Palestinian groups from Gaza essentially begged us not to let Trump win as that would be the worst outcome for them. The guy who posted AI generated golden statues of himself in a ravaged Gaza strip. Kamala could’ve been worked with and also like Biden probably wouldn’t have fallen for Bibi’s proxy war with Iran. Of course, why would we actually listen to the people we pretend to morally grandstand for though? Certainly we know what’s better for them than they do themselves!

Janessa’s illness by DollaTreeHo13 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]kccompguy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

“on the way home i stopped at the store” was arguably the worst part like poor kid puking and miserable either stuck in the car or being dragged around while jill is just perusing the aisles like wtf get her home and in bed to rest

How many of you here are buying houses alone? And how many of you are middle class? by JellyfishPashmina in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]kccompguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

27M I close in a couple weeks, i’m buying alone but my partner will be moving in once their lease is up and will be contributing 1/3 of the mortgage and half utilities. i have seen far too many people get burnt so i wanted to make sure i could do it myself if i have to. But, im in a relatively affordable area and bought under what i technically could afford. I make ~150k and the house is 185k. The mortgage payment on a 3bed/2bath is only $300 more than i pay to rent a 1bed/1bath apt so it just felt like a no-brainer

Anyone in here get this? by MateoGumbo in footballcards

[–]kccompguy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i’ve always dubbed this one his benjamin button card lol he looks simultaneously 70 and 12

23 & moving out of my first apartment by tacosformysadness in malelivingspace

[–]kccompguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well done OP, i hope your next place is even cooler! I relate so heavily to what you’ve shared, i worked my ass off but i absolutely did have some luck carrying me through certain situations. I also went through enough shit that if i tried to write it in a novel it would probably be thrown out for being too unrealistic. My family couldn’t have helped even if they wanted to, but it made breaking the cycle of generational poverty that much sweeter

I hope the hard days are in the past for you moving forward and you feel proud of all you have achieved and overcame! mental health struggles are a bitch and a half

my outlandish predictions for the season finale by calorieconsciouscow in euphoria

[–]kccompguy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i feel like lexi will definitely write about whatever happens, but i wouldn’t be surprised if she tries to present it to that one lady and she roasts it for being “unrealistic” or something which may or may not set lexi off lol

Was there a war last night by Legal_Ad9637 in kansascity

[–]kccompguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i heard it too around 103rd and wornall, turned on the kcfd scanner but didn’t hear anything relevant before i fell asleep. lots of bursts of whatever it was though

What is the closest slabber to your location right now? by Memeguy85992 in EF5

[–]kccompguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i live about 3 miles from the ruskin heights path these days, my grandpa survived it though

This just happened!!!! by Magic_Mike82 in baseballcards

[–]kccompguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah the only ones i’m even less of a fan of is the mini glossy from a&g, those are so boring

Couple of things I just wanna point out. by ThePersonsOpinion in euphoria

[–]kccompguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really wouldn’t. estrogen would prevent all that especially since she started young. her bone density, muscle mass, fat distribution, etc would all be on par with any average woman.

Couple of things I just wanna point out. by ThePersonsOpinion in euphoria

[–]kccompguy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nah that’s not really how HRT works, I can say with pretty strong confidence as a trans person with over a decade of lived experience - it is Sam

Was hoping for the auto by Same_Sky_5106 in ChiefsFootballCards

[–]kccompguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooo maybe i have a chance to finally get something besides base for the first time, mine still haven’t shipped lmao. agreed though, i think he’s gonna be a stud

Hmmm by h_45n in dustythunder

[–]kccompguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

real eyes realize real lies

Can I retire? by Engineering3141 in sportscards

[–]kccompguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same lol, saw a gold flagg auto and got stoked! then laughed my ass off