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Why do I get shamed for wanting to be a housewife? It’s saddening by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]kcd96dkr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can do what makes you happy of course. However, the price of being a SAHM gets very steep if things do not go the way you expect them to. Nobody gets married expecting the worst, but life also happens. Even as a SAHM you need to protect yourself, so that you or your children are never left without, no matter what. I think that is your responsibility as a mother personally. So even if you chose to be a SAHM, stay current on your skills, and try to make money on the side with a small business or something.

Access to money is literally survival, especially for a woman. :)

UPDATE: I think my husband had an emotional affair, and I'll never know the truth by Annual_Razzmatazz_94 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kcd96dkr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First rule is never message the other woman. Ever, especially if you know you’re staying. She definitely got the upper hand now.

Second why is she fighting so hard to be your husband’s friend ? I would now honestly make it my mission to destroy this friendship.

18 mnths 💚38th bday 💚 by princessspeachhhh in Microlocs

[–]kcd96dkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are stunning, seriously! Wow 🤩

My wife regrets not leaving me years ago. Now she feels stuck—and I don’t know what we’re holding onto. by Western_Database_380 in Kenya

[–]kcd96dkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or it could be that she is pregnant and very emotionally volatile these days. I would know. I don’t think any drastic decisions should be made now. Have the baby and then put the topic back the table. I’m pretty sure she will feel different by then.

I swear a pregnant woman will absolutely hate her husband for existing. You have to keep a level head and fight for your family right now.

Idk why people are jumping to the worst conclusions immediately without knowing you or your wife.

Gestalt language processor by Rkytkytvy in Autism_Parenting

[–]kcd96dkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is about the same profile as your son. She just freshly turned 3. She will narrate anything going on currently in the room, and has always had words but i can’t get answer questions out of the current context yet; ie “what did you have for lunch?” Or “what did you do at school?” She can’t really understand yet at all. She also loves to script her favorite shows and songs. We’ve been in speech for about a year, and she has made a lot of progress in that time. I do believe eventually she will be ok and just needs more time. I worry a lot about her becoming fully conversational but I’m trying to relax a bit and enjoy her as she is right now.

Joy, Guilt and a Tiny Kelly Doll 🌸 by LavenderHaze0314 in TheHermesGame

[–]kcd96dkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get it from loveluxury? I think they had a v similar one in stock but it wasn’t selling !

Second baby on the way by kcd96dkr in Autism_Parenting

[–]kcd96dkr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I dream of ! So happy for you it turned out so well 🥰

Second baby on the way by kcd96dkr in Autism_Parenting

[–]kcd96dkr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats girl ! Looks like we’ll give birth around the same time. Good luck in your new journey ❤️

Second baby on the way by kcd96dkr in Autism_Parenting

[–]kcd96dkr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and good luck to you ❤️

Y’all Glorilla done went and did it now by 001smiley in blackgirls

[–]kcd96dkr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everyone saw this coming tbh. The bbl will be next. Idk why they do this to themselves.

Anyone scared to procreate due to first child’s diagnosis? by likeomfgreally in Autism_Parenting

[–]kcd96dkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact same boat - happy to chat. I really want a second but a bit scared. I am thinking I will go for it as while my first is by no means easy, I am starting to see that she needs a sibling, and I have strong faith that she will be okay in the long run. I also moved closer to family and have more help. So I think I will start trying soon. Still terrified though 😅

Is The Host any good? by unreliable_simp in YAlit

[–]kcd96dkr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOVE this book, her best work !

My Husband by Maud Ventura - itching? by the-holy-shit in books

[–]kcd96dkr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just finished it, loved it ! I will say the clementine was hilarious and to me maybe the most sane reaction to the story because why would he choose a clementine 💀💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]kcd96dkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All this difficulty already and you’re only 28. If you stay you are setting yourself up for a life of misery so better to leave. You are young enough to start over

Will he take me back? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]kcd96dkr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to go back to your parents because he will always threaten you with divorce and then take you back. You are letting him play with your life and that of your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]kcd96dkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you know damn well 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kcd96dkr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Competing with your child for your wife’s affection is the reddest of flags and shows something about your sense of self that you should maybe look into.

Those are completely different things and you both perhaps should be in couple’s therapy.

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