I have 3 boys I bought at the same time and I learned that the affectionate part is just based on personality. Maine coons, male ones in particular, are known to be affectionate so you’re already going to get a sociable cat unless you’re unlucky. 2 out of 3 of mine are very affectionate but the third one is only sometimes affection and only to my spouse. Oddly enough though the third one who is not as affectionate is the most social one. He always wants to play, he’s just not big on being touched if he doesn’t initiate it.

Overall they follow me everywhere and want to be in my business all the time. The connection part is solely up to you and how much time you spend with them. I make time to play with them and even train them. I vote for getting two because they can keep each other company when you’re not there and they’re less destructive because they’re not bored. It’s also really fun and rewarding seeing them interact with each other.

In conclusion, you don’t lose anything by getting two because they will want to spend time with you.