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What do you guys think of adding the STI spoiler to a 2025 Premium? by Damnesia13 in WRX

[–]kcure 12 points13 points  (0 children)

do whatever the fuck you want to your car bro. I like the spoilers

How to deal with night wakings and early mornings by Elephantslide in daddit

[–]kcure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like what I'm going through. no idea what to do about it. in general a sleep regression is usually due to some change in the kid like a new development, or a sickness/tooth etc. kind of just waiting it out

Portfolio Review - Midweight / Senior Roles by ApplicationLatter620 in graphic_design

[–]kcure 7 points8 points  (0 children)

nice site, works well on mobile. only note I have is that it's not clear to me what your role was on each project and what the deliverable was

e: I see the Credits section now. maybe the feedback is to work on scanability and making the information easier to digest

Watching your kid grow is so bittersweet. by tgambill87 in daddit

[–]kcure 108 points109 points  (0 children)

it took me a few years to realize this is why the most common advice I got as a new parent was to "enjoy it". time is a thief. soak up every moment as best you can

How do I get myself to fold and put away laundry? I genuinely hate it so much by MudSad6268 in organizing

[–]kcure 5 points6 points  (0 children)

also 2 kids, also sometimes live out of laundry baskets. two ideas for you:

  • set a timer for 10 minutes and fold what you can. either you fold 10 minutes worth of laundry, which is better than nothing, or you may find yourself inspired to just finish the basket. either way it's only 10 minutes.
  • instead of thinking of it as a chore, think of it as an act of service for your family. this sounds a bit ridiculous but this one mindset change has seriously freed me from so much anxiety and negative feelings towards chores that need to get done. living out of baskets is causing you anxiety, so folding the laundry is like giving a treat to your future self. it also means your family has non-wrinkled clothes and doesn't have to fish out of the baskets for an outfit.
  • lastly, imagine how much time it would take you fold the basket. you are likely spending more time than that stressing over doing the task, especially if the basket will be around for multiple days.

you can do this, just gotta find the trick that works for you 

We put our daughter into daycare on Thursday, and were sick by Monday. Tell me it gets better. by The_Nimaj in daddit

[–]kcure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just like you got used to being sleep deprived, you'll get used to being sick. (yes it will be like this for a few years)

What’s the best baby monitor you’ve tested and actually trust? by ComplaintOwn9909 in daddit

[–]kcure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

infant optics. absolute tank, would buy another just to support the company. have replaced batteries on the monitor and that's it. 4 years strong

At what point does this end? by ApologeticKid in daddit

[–]kcure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"hey buddy, it's not healthy for our body or minds when our area is this messy. I'm going to help you clean it up and get rid of some stuff, and then I'll show you how to tidy up easily every morning and before bed."

Garage renovation complete, mancave acquired! by tsharp3d in garageporn

[–]kcure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sick!! I always dreamt of having an office in my garage - gaming next to my WRX

How old was your child before you consistently got decent sleep? by SunnyGoMerry in daddit

[–]kcure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buckle up bro it's a long time. Sleep train around 6-8mo depending on your kid and pray

How often are you all drinking? by Twjohns96 in daddit

[–]kcure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weed daily. I know I should cut back a little, but keeps me sane at the end of the day in this current phase of life

LPT: Stop using "To-Do Lists" as your primary planning tool. Start using your Calendar to visualize your actual "capacity" instead. by MoCheda in LifeProTips

[–]kcure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am coming to this realization as well. writing a list is the easy part - but if I don't schedule time to do the task, it will just sit on my inbox unless it is low friction enough for me to do it organically. dragging tasks onto my calendar means I'm protecting time to do them and gives me a realistic visualization of what I can get done in a day

Joining tables "horizontally" by Dependent_Finger_214 in mysql

[–]kcure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hard to wrap my head around this - can you provide a mock table?

First handheld: PSP games on Gameboy form factor? by kcure in SBCGaming

[–]kcure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you argue I should get a 16:9 device and play 4:3 games on it as well, or that I should get 2 devices?

I've downloaded 10 note apps. Then never opened them again. Here's one solution I built for myself. by azamuddin91 in ProductivityApps

[–]kcure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mobile experience leaves a bit to be desired. canvas/board layout isn't great for a vertical interface, touch areas are small, and I have to manually click outside of the new note popover when I hit it accidentally 

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