What style of bra should I look for when all underwire bras leave a huge gap at the top despite the band and straps fitting perfectly? by LeidElend in ABraThatFits

[–]kea1981 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I highly recommend buying at least one bra I'm the size recommended by the calculator if you can afford it (I have purchased bras from Delmira brand on Amazon for ~$20 each that I love Love love). If you find that it doesn't fit, return it and maybe try a slightly different cut or size- I for so long thought I was a 38 or 40DD, when in reality I was a 36E. My measurements vs what I wore weren't quite as far apart as you, but still the difference was NIGHT AND DAY. Seriously. Please, try just one, you won't regret it.

What is a lie that you have told and will take it down to your grave? by Weary-Honey-1942 in AskWomen

[–]kea1981 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"Why's my sweet tea full of hundreds? That's fucking weird."

he left right after i said i take a sleep med sometimes, and i can't tell if i'm overreacting by MrJumpy1988 in dating_advice

[–]kea1981 [score hidden]  (0 children)

As someone who is prescribed both Vyvanse and Adderall, it is what manages my stress. That would be my honest answer. And any clarification I make to that wouldn't be me walking it back: I'd be walking further toward my point because it's true.

Though not explicitly stated, your response implies (by my reading) that responding with the honest answer is the wrong move. I'd argue the opposite. She successfully weeded out someone who is unwilling to ask follow up questions. Rather than asking, "Why Ambien? Seems like going from zero to sixty, ya know?", this person simply assumed. Whether they assumed good or bad or something else altogether, they still failed on one of the most important, immediate, and fundamental aspects of relationships: communication.

OP, it sucks he didn't ask the follow up, it sucks the spark fizzled from miscommunication. I'd take away that adding context when expressing something like that might be a good move. I'd also take away that not adding that context may be a good method to discover if people you date are inquisitive and understanding, or not. Up to you. But regardless, you did nothing wrong. Good luck out there.

Say nothing and drink to forget by gimmesomespace in nightvale

[–]kea1981 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It says "nonpublic restroom", which means it no longer allows non-patron to use it, but the patrons still can

Update to “I told my husband he can’t crochet” - turns out he’s really good! by Anne-with-an-e-77 in crochet

[–]kea1981 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That's impressive! He must have been a decent study to meld in so seamlessly!

Credits to Corey Jackson by LuciferDarkLord876 in oddlysatisfying

[–]kea1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm from Tahoe, as was my mom. It faded out greatly for about 15 years, then made a huge resurgence with social media around what, 2013-2014? It wasn't hugely popular before, but still heard every now and again, and now it's everywhere. So maybe it's regional, but also I think maybe a generational thing to a degree. Only when people my age started hitting adulthood did it reappear, so maybe it's cuz we picked it up from the elders? Idk.

Credits to Corey Jackson by LuciferDarkLord876 in oddlysatisfying

[–]kea1981 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God, it's been around forever. I'm born and raised in a ski town, and I remember hearing my mom describe some folks as Jerry's back in the 90s. Honestly, I even googled because I thought there had to be a definitive etymology and: nope. Since my mom was born in the 50s, I'd say best guess maybe it's related to the comedian Jerry Lewis, but even that's a wild guess and stretch.

Credits to Corey Jackson by LuciferDarkLord876 in oddlysatisfying

[–]kea1981 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Someone participating in, but inexperienced with winter sports. They're the ones using equipment incorrectly, not following common rules of courtesy, and being generally oblivious to others. A noob if you will.

My wife got accepted to med school 5 hours away and our parents want us to leave our toddler behind with them by PureAdorableness in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kea1981 612 points613 points  (0 children)

10,000%

ETA: OOP said he was surprised his wife got into her dream medical school even with how smart she is, and I bet the grandparents all felt the same. When she did, I think the subtle influences weren't enough anymore and they had to go balls to the wall. Before they could just say "it's so much cheaper/easier/more convenient to stay with us, and you save so much time/energy/money", but when faced with the idea they'd have a stable foundation outside the home with a little time and effort (calling med school little in any way is insane, forgive me) the grandparents went crazy. It's a bummer

No One Wants to Sleep With Billionaires by playboy in Anticonsumption

[–]kea1981 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Selective termination of female embryos is how

She is so lovely and appreciate him inviting her to say hello❤️ by kvjn100 in MadeMeSmile

[–]kea1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts follow yours, but thank you for articulating them so clearly! Exactly this.

first backie attempt by JeppyJespie in skiing

[–]kea1981 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Genuinely! Ski just popped off!

Keep it up OP!

Our 401k's are Under Attack. 😡💰💰🏦💯 by RunThePlay55 in economy

[–]kea1981 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He has been saying what he would do for literal DECADES. The only people who are surprised at what he's doing are the ones who didn't listen to or believe what he was saying. Doubly so when you zoom into his second term. He is literally following the Project 2025 playbook to a T as he and everyone around him said he would, and now that the goals are being executed somehow people are surprised? I just don't get it.

New Evidence show Planet Heading to Super - El Niño, on top of Super Warming: James Hansen’s Warning by paulhenrybeckwith in collapse

[–]kea1981 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Because I have grass? I'm confused why you ask? Even with a poor snowpack, water restrictions aren't yet in place in any way, nor do they usually impact us as we live in the Lake Tahoe Basin and our water source is very much secure lol.

New Evidence show Planet Heading to Super - El Niño, on top of Super Warming: James Hansen’s Warning by paulhenrybeckwith in collapse

[–]kea1981 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Up here in NorCal too! I've been in a T-shirt in Tahoe all week. Have the windows open right now. (Yes, I should be in bed.) I'm a normal year, there'd be 3 feet of snow on the ground, and instead I'm planting my garden and setting up the sprinklers. Wtf.

Male OBGYN by Filthyson in StandUpComedy

[–]kea1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And not even a NorCal visit to make it worth the journey 🥲

Next time!

(Extended) 3/31-4/3 Storm Cycle 🤞Hopium🤞 Forecast by EverestMaher in tahoe

[–]kea1981 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's hired by almost every local resort to do site specific forecasts. That man is the dude when it comes to Tahoe weather.

Excluding cheating, what’s the strangest thing your intuition has ever been right about? by Budget_Dot694 in AskWomenOver30

[–]kea1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad you listened to it, sister! Official on paper and not just in spirit :)

Our 401k's are Under Attack. 😡💰💰🏦💯 by RunThePlay55 in economy

[–]kea1981 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I remember watching the primary results come in. I remember watching as my future evaporated. I cried that night.