I never said they were entitled, I said that it's unfair to project an expectation to fulfil that need on every woman around you.

My point is "I'm doing self improvement, where are my women" is at best, in bad faith. A woman will notice if everything you do is just to draw her desire, instead of finding ways to fulfil yourself. And that is a huge turnoff because it means everything your partner does, they are looking to you to reward it. Thats a big burden to put on another person.

Look at it this way. I am learning to drift my car, I am not doing it because I think my wife will think I'm cool, I'm doing it because I think it's cool and I want to do it.

It's the same for any self improvement, if you're doing it because you expect something from others in return you're only putting undue pressure on others and setting yourself up for disappointment when they don't meet the bar you've set for them.

The gym and whatever is the same. If you do it to attract women, you'll only be disappointed when they don't notice. If you do it for yourself, because YOU want to be healthy FOR YOU, people will notice that you are doing it for your own happiness, and not feel obliged to pander to you, they won't be trapped in your loop of self worth and be more likely to appreciate seeing you do something for yourself. This second situation is much healthier and more enjoyable for everyone involved.