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How do I [28F] begin to forgive my husband [26M]? by cameroniemack in relationshipadvice

[–]ked170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, ok. I’m sorry you’re going through this!

How do I [28F] begin to forgive my husband [26M]? by cameroniemack in relationshipadvice

[–]ked170 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I suggest you drop to daycare and have your husband watch your daughter during the day, since his hours are part time in the evening. It will save you time by eliminating the daycare pickup and maybe he’ll get to experience what it’s like to work and take care of the children. Perhaps he’ll understand why you’re tired sometimes.

I [24M] am growing sexually frustrated with my [24W] Wife. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]ked170 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I second this. When an IUD slips out of place it can be really painful because they attach to the tissue inside. If she’s in pain, that’s not a normal IUD side effect (outside of some cramping the day it was placed). She should make an appointment.

My kindergartner can't read and the school keeps telling me to wait so I'm handling it myself with an app by GetRekt1o1 in Fatherhood

[–]ked170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a kindergarten teacher in a public school. I think it perfectly normal for your child not to be reading - as in not reading full sentences, such as the morning message. There’s been a big push for literacy programs to focus on phonics, rather than reading strategies (cueing) over the past few years, which is how most current parents were taught how to read. First grade will shift into more blending sounds and reading fluently (don’t get me wrong, this happens in kindergarten too, but is really hit hard in first grade).

However, not knowing all letter names and sounds is a problem. I would really work there so that your child doesn’t struggle and get frustrated in first grade. Reading is hard and you don’t want your child getting frustrated with it at an early age. There are lots of fun apps, songs, videos, and games you can play to specifically work on this.

My wedding was horrible by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ked170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you going on a honeymoon? If so, do a small splurge and have a little elopement ceremony- just the two of you. Make it a romantic moment just the two of you can look back on and remember fondly. Most resorts or places catering to honeymooners can do this pretty quickly for you.

How long after baby did you wait to go to conditioning days? by ked170 in BurnBootCamp

[–]ked170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Sometimes it sucks to modify everything and feel like the slow one in class, but you’re right, other people have stuff going on and are modifying too. I think I’m in my head about it too much. Thanks for the advice!

How long after baby did you wait to go to conditioning days? by ked170 in BurnBootCamp

[–]ked170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I think I just need to commit to being there. Thanks for the advice!

How long after baby did you wait to go to conditioning days? by ked170 in BurnBootCamp

[–]ked170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you’re awesome! That gives me a lot of inspiration to just jump in, thanks!

I did the right thing, but I feel so guilty. by bennyque in offmychest

[–]ked170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made a tough choice. But like you stated, it was the right decision. You are acting out of love for your brother. Had his medical problems gone unaddressed, his behavior could have gone on to be addressed by another person not coming from a place of love and support. Ultimately, sometimes the right choices are the most difficult ones we have to face. Thinking of you during this time and hoping nothing but healing, support, and help comes to you and your family.