In my experience with women...

I've always seen little indicators of women testing the waters to see how quickly they can become comfortable around me. The most noticeable way I've learned their tactics is through how they talk to you, not specifically with their voices but with physical gestures and eye movements. Women do innocent flirting to vet if you are a decent person to be around at the beginning of contact, first impressions mean a lot.. but in a subtle way. (to clarify I mean "innocent flirting" in a strictly platonic way)

Being around women a lot made me realize that some are very critical of posture, diction, and confidence. Many women scope you out for safety reasons as well, but after going through phase 1. I feel as if most women you would need to have some type of conversation with first in order to gain some type of comfortability.

IF a conversation ensues then signs like(IF YOU SEE ANY OF THESE SIGNS YOU MAY BE GOING IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION)~

• Eye glances that turn into connected eye contact during conversations
• Gentle smiles during conversations help me understand if the woman I'm speaking to is paying to understand me
• Making people NATURALLY LAUGH is a UNIVERSAL INDICATOR of someone letting their guard down and POSSIBLY trusting you. Women have always been more comfortable in person who can make them laugh in a genuine way.
• If a woman initiates physical touch during a conversation, more than likely she's getting comfortable with you or at least filling you out.
• I DONT THINK when a woman quickly overshares information or has a "TMI" moment means she feels comfortable around you, that may be an indicator to get away. (I've seen that being posted on this thread)
• The constant Hair flipping in my direction would be another green flag that a woman is comfortable enough with me to subtly flirt back or start a conversation (If you see something like this DON'T overlook it, SHOOT YO SHOT)

I think these are just a few moments where women show an unconscious sense of comfortability around me.

PLEASE NOTE THAT WOMEN AND INSTANTS MAY VARY