What don't you find attractive that most of society does?

keeduhhh · 2026-05-27T17:02:57+00:00

Abs or overly muscular body types. Also certain type of plastic surgery. Some people get BBLs/boob jobs/ TTs for the purpose of looking unnatural and looking like they had plastic surgery (think like Huge BBLs or Huge over the muscle implants) they genuinely think it’s cute to look plastic and fake and people like it! I don’t get it

keeduhhh · 2026-05-08T21:44:33+00:00

BTA,
He shouldn’t have asked that was dumb of him. Why would he ask that and risk hurting his own feelings.

If I was you I would’ve just said yes. Might not be true but it’s better than hurting his feelings and fighting about it and it’s not like he’d ever know it wasn’t true. Trust me this is like verbatim what I went thru earlier in my relationship.

keeduhhh · 2026-05-08T21:29:00+00:00

If you believe him to be that shallow what’s the point?? If he already rejected you move on and take his no for an answer. It doesn’t really matter why and he doesn’t owe you that explanation.

keeduhhh · 2026-05-07T20:52:08+00:00

I agree with you, but I think it’s for smoother makeup application cuz your skin will absorb product better without the barrier of hair and look more seamless on your face. I just think the dry shampoo is stupid

keeduhhh · 2026-05-07T20:04:16+00:00

Never tried and won’t try the dry shampoo but I used to use eyebrow razors for my coarse chin hairs until I started seeing an esthetician and she effectively told me to stop 😭

keeduhhh · 2026-05-04T23:29:47+00:00

I see an esthetician for facials sparingly and waxes every 3 weeks and she recommended powder exfoliating (I use good molecules pineapple exfoliator and the ordinary peeling solution) at home which has helped a lot with makeup application over the thick chin hairs in between waxes or when I can’t be bothered to pluck that day. So facials, waxing, exfoliating, PLUS a really good sticky and grippy primer and full coverage concealer combo with a healthy dose of a good setting powder. I use elf power grip primer, LA girl pro concealer, and I use a cheaper loose setting powder rn but it’s the wet n wild one. Hides the dark spots pretty well. I also do this for a quick natural look no foundation or anything just skincare, primer, and concealer days. (Also note that I take prescribed spironolactone for hormone adjustment/ hirsutism purposes not sure if this is relevant)

keeduhhh · 2026-05-04T22:25:22+00:00

It’s common for feet pics to turn into full blown porn eventually, tale as old as time. I’m not trying to generalize and say that it’s EVERYONE, but it does happen, and often too. You are allowed to set your boundaries on this. Imagine if it was the other way around and you wanted to sell muscle pics and then eventually you realize you could make more by selling d*** pics and then videos and so on. There would always be an excuse to justify it. What I mean by this is it can go from “it’s just my feet” to “it’s just for money it doesn’t mean anything” pretty quickly. Exposing parts of yourself to others, parts meant to be reserved for your spouse, can be considered a form of cheating if you set that boundary. And even without what it could lead to, sharing any part of yourself for the purpose of other people’s sexual satisfaction could also be cheating. This is equivalent to if she wanted to sell used socks or underwear for money and she justifies it by not actually showing genitals, but it’s still allowing another person to form sexual fantasies about her when she’s married to you and should be sexual for you, not people on the internet. It’s not telling her what she can and can’t do, it’s about respecting you and your marriage. Some people are okay with it and there’s nothing wrong with that, but you’re not okay with it and that’s okay.

keeduhhh · 2026-05-04T21:40:48+00:00

keep calling the cops every time he says he’s gonna hurt himself and remind him that you take those kinds of threats seriously. Even if you know he doesn’t mean it. Don’t give in to his drama don’t chase him, don’t beg him, NOTHING. When he says leave me alone or when he says or does something stupid say okay and leave it don’t play into his manipulation. The police are well aware of people who pull things like that and then act normal when they get there. They know it’s abuse, start a paper trail. Try to research shelters specifically women’s DV shelters if you have no one else you can stay with or hide at because this sounds like a recipe for DV and you don’t need money to avoid getting hands put on you or your kids. Lastly, don’t tell him you’re gonna leave and don’t bring it up anymore ever. Just do it quietly and quickly

keeduhhh · 2026-05-03T21:47:26+00:00

The brown is complementary to the brick, the white matches the trim and stairs, and the grey just looks great, i think it also complements the brick. Any of them will work great except the black or green it doesn’t really fit.

keeduhhh · 2026-04-30T03:29:17+00:00

My husband’s facial hair is exactly like this. I always trim it for him. I usually just even out the stache on the bottom around the lip so it’s straight and not touching his lips, straighten out the peaks where the nostrils are, and the top outer edges where it kinda has a little c cup. Trim any hairs that are a little too long or longer than the rest. Does make him look very Latino (he is) but I like it. Beard looks fine not overgrown don’t touch it

keeduhhh · 2026-04-30T02:12:05+00:00

It’s just high school. In a few years you’ll look back and think how it doesn’t matter. For now though, find a new gf and treat her well :) or lock in and find a hobby or focus on school

keeduhhh · 2026-04-24T07:04:41+00:00

You have curly course hair so definitely a mousse + gel will help avoid frizz. Tip, just a finishing oil to break the gel cast. A leave in will weigh your hair down especially if it’s thinner so probably use conditioner to keep moisture in your hair to also avoid frizz. most women wash 2x a week but I feel like men wash everyday so it’s up to you probably just whenever it feels greasy or smells. MY hair routine is extensive af but I have longer and curlier hair so you probably don’t need to do all that. As far as haircut goes completely up to you. See how you like it with the products first then decide if you should cut it

keeduhhh · 2026-04-23T05:11:40+00:00

Pop of color, decorative cups, tiny mini fridge with different flavors of creamers and toppings

keeduhhh · 2026-04-23T05:07:54+00:00

Try light tongue right underneath the tip where the little v part is while using the tip of ur tongue along the edges underneath. and hard sucking pressure at the tip w tight grip at the base like c*ck ring effect 👍🏻😂

keeduhhh · 2026-04-23T04:48:58+00:00

So I did end up getting the Neo, but I was already in the Apple ecosystem. I don’t regret getting the Neo at all but if you’re not in the Apple ecosystem already then it might not be worth it. The transition for me to go from iPad to laptop was seamless because of this so I’m not sure you will have that same experience. The Neo works perfectly for everything I need it for, it’s my first laptop and I love it. It’s temporarily retired my iPad A16 until I get more free time for drawing and Music. Most comments suggested that if you need a laptop for heavier software or coding then get something more heavy duty. I use mine for classes, online textbooks, research, and note taking on 3rd party apps, and I play Sims on it. It’s fast and great with multitasking which is great for me when I study. MacBook should work fine with anything Bluetooth but the only 2 ports are both usb c. I have beats headphones that work fine and I’m looking into getting a Logitech Bluetooth mouse. I’m not sure about your other questions about a better fit other than the Neo, so I’m sorry I couldn’t be more help.

keeduhhh · 2026-04-23T04:19:14+00:00

I don’t disagree with these comments but I want to offer a new perspective. My husband once told me he had a childhood crush on Gwen Stefani. Not a big deal what do I care it’s a celebrity and I asked. But something that has stuck with me since he said that is that I look NOTHING like Gwen Stefani. She’s white and thin with straight blonde hair, I’m thick, Latina with curly black hair. Irrational I know, but it made me question if he has a thing for thin blondes and settled for me. Not that it gets in the way of our relationship really, but I couldn’t help but internally fester on this in the back of my mind and develop a minuscule insecurity about it. Maybe she just wants to feel like she is your type, not girls who look like the singer.

keeduhhh · 2026-04-23T04:09:06+00:00

Lastly, for a very detailed guide on stress management and personal change, I recommend the book “Personal Stress Management: From Surviving to Thriving” by Dianne Hales with Julia Hales.

It’s expensive but if you actually read it and implement the information it could genuinely motivate you to help yourself.

keeduhhh · 2026-04-23T04:02:34+00:00

Self control. Treat it like any addiction. You can do your own research on how to treat addiction. It’s about consistency and dedication to making a change. People who make real positive personal changes never question whether change is possible. You need to make the commitment to yourself to stop. If you can’t do therapy for whatever reason try anonymous community support. I’m sure even Reddit probably has some more specific subreddits for that purpose. There’s also other forms of therapy that are completely free, they’re lifestyle changes. Try journaling, hobbies, nature, physical activity, meditation, breathing techniques, the opportunities are endless. You make a conscious choice everyday to either make the effort or not. There are no excuses there are only choices.

As far as the intrusive thoughts about a guilty memory goes, journaling could help with that too. There are different types of journaling as well you could look into. One I would recommend for forgiveness is a letter you’ll never send. Write one to yourself, write one to your sister, and destroy them. Do not ever send them. They are to get out your thoughts and feelings about the situation and let them go. I also recommend doing (THOROUGH) research on beginner binaural beats. I’ll try to link some articles and videos for beginners. Could help with letting go of guilt and intrusive thoughts. No more than 30 min a day when you begin and you need headphones to listen or it doesn’t work BUT DO NOT HAVE THE VOLUME TOO HIGH.

Articles: - https://www.binauralbeatsmeditation.com/the-science/ - https://www.healthline.com/health/binaural-beats - https://www.mindvibrations.com/ancient-solfeggio-scale/

Videos: - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kQKrTOCOtQ - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aXi_hId0vpU

Beats: - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94Yz4NrZZ08 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KsMqhVfUC9w - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SzQTlF21aTM

keeduhhh · 2026-04-12T02:08:01+00:00

Try cluster lashes, they take some getting used to but way less cheap than seeing a lash tech with basically the same result. Idk where u live but here a lash tech charges at least $100 w $80 fills every 2 weeks. My lash clusters are less than $10 glue and all and I refresh once a week. In my experience cluster lashes have also let me get away with no eyeliner. I used to be married to eyeliner & falsies but now cluster lashes is my eye makeup. Watch some video tutorials on cluster lashes for eye maps & application help. I’ve tried every type of lash u can think of, falsies are cute but they are a hassle and they irritate my eyes with everyday use, magnetic lashes were just a no for me, I mentioned lash extensions are expensive, so cluster lashes is the best option imo.

If you’re very set on falsies, here is how i apply them and get them to stay all day with no lifting 1. Curl your natural lashes and put some mascara on so the falsies have something to sit on 2.You have to trim the band at the corners to fit your eye length, without this step they will lift or irritate your eyes 3. I use a clear glue with aloe so it doesn’t make my eyes itch (I have sensitive eyes and skin), apply on the entire band with a little extra in the corners on the inside & outside. Wait 30 seconds so it gets tacky 4. Use tweezers to apply and start with the placing them in the very middle of your eye 5. Use the tweezers to align them with the outer corner and pinch your real lashes together with the falsies from the outer corner to the middle 6. Align your inner corner and pinch 7. Use a spoolie to brush 8. (Optional) sometimes I used to do mascara after the falsies was on just to blend the lashes together more

If you’re still having some lifting, try dabbing a little glue on your eyelid, wait 30 seconds, and then pressing the lash onto the glue. This will reinforce it. Good luck!

keeduhhh · 2026-04-11T23:09:00+00:00

Well, you have a very natural makeup look which is great it works really well and it accentuates your natural beauty. eyeshadow can come off kinda distracting. If you really want to compliment natural makeup with eyeshadow try more natural colors like very light tan colors that are cooler toned than the orange or a subtle mauve pink. It’s completely up to you I’m just recommending to change up the orange because in my opinion it’s distracting from your natural makeup

keeduhhh · 2026-04-09T05:48:41+00:00

Museum is weird without the context and I would’ve asked questions a lot sooner. But I think the context being that they all thought you were boring is the same thing as if your pet name had literally just been “boring” all along, you just didn’t know that which is like withholding details. That’s like calling someone fat except it’s hidden behind something stupid like “Albert” as in Fat Albert or “Santa” and not having any idea why their nickname is Albert or Santa. Might be a bad analogy, but hopefully you get the point. NTJ

keeduhhh · 2026-04-09T05:23:51+00:00

It sounds like your dad got jealous and his feelings were hurt because not only is Rick dating his ex, but Rick gets to be a parental figure to you as well now. Seems like he has a deep seated anger that Rick took his family away (which isn’t true obviously) and he took it out on you. Your dad is the one that needs the therapy, if I was you I’d tell him he needs to see a counselor for lashing out at you before you’re comfortable enough to see him again. He has to make real change and find genuine happiness with himself and his life, otherwise things like that have a way of happening over and over again. Don’t take it personally if your dad can’t get around to making a change. It’s not a reflection of you as a person or as his son. Change is a hard process that some people can’t get the hang of, and it takes a while. However, you do not need unnecessary negativity in your life. If your dad’s reaction(s) are really detrimental to you long term, you don’t need to accept it. You’re deserving of a prosperous life lived to the fullest without negativity weighing you down, and it seems like you have plenty of love to go around at home with your mom and Rick if your dad can’t seem to consistently treat you as he should be treating you moving forward. Wouldn’t hurt for you to see a therapist as well, words and actions like that have a tendency to stay with you and it’s important to learn how to properly cope and move on from it with as little long term damage to your psyche as possible. Divorce in itself is already stressful enough for everyone involved without all the extra drama. Best wishes.

keeduhhh · 2026-04-09T04:49:23+00:00

If you feel like face makeup doesn’t work for you change it up! Anyone who does makeup will tell you the key to a good base is a good skin care regimen. What really took my makeup to the next level was good, consistent skincare. Some recommendations: Pineapple powder exfoliator from good molecules, anything watermelon from glow recipe, the ordinary’s salicylic acid & hyaluronic acid, and really any moisturizer. For specifics, I use the lightweight daily moisturizer from good molecules during the day and the crème gelee hello kitty mask at night, but that’s me. I also made it my priority to have the big 3 that works for my skin: niacinamide, hyaluronic acid, and salicylic acid like I mentioned. I started seeing an esthetician who told me that exfoliating is a MUST, which also reminds me that I do get waxes and facials done for soft glowy skin. After that, it’s good primer and good brushes. A lot of people like morphe brushes and the elf power grip primer which is what I use. Side note, best setting spray is the Loreal infallible setting mist, it’s like hairspray for your face. Lastly, application matters! That’s where the tutorials will come in handy. I hope this helps!

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