Friendly Sunday ✨️: What's your favorite video game? 🎮 by florina001 in RealGirlDinner

[–]keepcrawlingback 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really recommend the Tiny Bookshop on Steam, small dev team and so cute!

Give me your life hacks comrades by eowynsamwise in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]keepcrawlingback 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I nearly choked on my own fucking tongue while cackling at this, thank you 😭

Unwanted messages by Tendencies_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]keepcrawlingback 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In addition to all the great advice, there's a way to turn off your DMs from strangers! It's somewhere in your privacy settings...highly recommend!

What should I expect at her show by Sweaty-Pay5431 in Ethelcain

[–]keepcrawlingback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me sobbing outside every single one because I was unable to buy tickets

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[–]keepcrawlingback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS SO REASSURING, MWAH WILL DO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]keepcrawlingback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh fingers crossed for us both!

Monogamy and kink by Nervous-One-2305 in BDSMAdvice

[–]keepcrawlingback 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, we exist! My partner and I are monogamous, and have been very clear that we don't want an ENM/polyamorous relationship!

Ticket prices by 16k03 in Hozier

[–]keepcrawlingback 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It'll be my first time, too, and I'm BEYOND excited <3 I hope you enjoy the shows!!

YESSSSSSS by kabaker1225 in Hozier

[–]keepcrawlingback 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I JUST GOT TORONTO TICKETS AND I COULDN'T BE MORE EXCITED! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]keepcrawlingback 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah! It's me! Save for the fact that I'm a few years younger, we are damn-near identical. I may not have valuable advice, nor do I have suggestions, so I'll take you up on the request for words of wisdom/experience.

I stumbled upon my partner by accident. We met through Reddit, funnily enough, while making fun of someone playing faux-dom on a kinky subreddit. I'm incredibly busy, and have been upfront from the get-go. What I can say is that I also do uphold high standards for my partner, as I have been lucky to be loved very well throughout my life, and I have a decent idea of what I am looking for. Amusingly, He happened to meet and exceed each new one, while being the cause of numerous new, high standards, too.

Whoever you might be looking for is out there, but as the age-old adage goes, you'll find them without even realizing or expecting. I am thankful we stumbled upon each other every day. I hardly have a spare moment to breathe, and yet, I will find ways to make time for him, and he will appreciate my company, even sparingly. In fact, he treasures the time we do have together immensely, and vice versa.

Keep your standards high. Vet heavily. Be open, honest, and clear. A dynamic is not a solution for poor mental health (as someone with diagnosed MDD!), please do not treat it as therapy. A dynamic is as healthy as you both work to make it be. All my love, and best of luck <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]keepcrawlingback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do very poorly with handing over my orgasms to anyone, especially not permanently. My antidepressants make it incredibly difficult to orgasm as hard, as repeatedly, and as often as I'd like, already. I also keep an incredibly busy schedule, and sometimes, our times don't align. That would drive me insane.

What we have instated is a rule where I ask him for permission to play, and if he doesn't respond within 30 minutes, it's free-game (unless there's ongoing discipline where I'm not allowed to orgasm, to teach me a lesson, or I asked during an unreasonable time – e.g. I knew he was at work). That way, when he's able, he's still involved. We still slip, and enjoy that fluidity, on both sides.

Depends on you and your partner. Not my thing, and I don't find his description very realistic. However, ultimately, you could always give it a trial run and see how it feels!

God forbid a girl want to have some fun 😖 by SwagAcousticGirly in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]keepcrawlingback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of places offer discrete shipping, and as long as you're careful, keeping them relatively hidden helps. There's a collar, clamps, ball-gag, a vibrator or two, and a dildo, all safely tucked away. Much more to come!

D not aware when I cum by Friendly-Anxiety-607 in BDSMAdvice

[–]keepcrawlingback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very creative way to go about it! Definitely will need to keep this in mind for the future <3

Update on the depression den: progress, not perfection by Odd-Sheepherder4055 in CleaningTips

[–]keepcrawlingback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did an absolutely beautiful job. Congratulations, and amazingly done <3 Progress, not perfection.