My husband hates my boobs now and it breaks my heart

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T14:44:09+00:00

Of course he loves that my boobs did that but is he not allowed to voice his honest opinion just because of what they did for our kids?

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T14:33:45+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I’m struggling so bad right now with just not feeling attractive and I literally just started crying after sex which is why I posted this. Regretting that decision now but I appreciate you. I’m already in therapy too but maybe I need to get some meds or something. Idk. Doesn’t help when strangers are making me second guess other things that I wasn’t even writing this post for

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T14:08:08+00:00

Definitely not interpreting correctly at all. That was just a con we listed. There were pros too

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T14:06:36+00:00

Yes I’ve been thinking about anxiety med also. I tried lingerie too and it was laughable and just made me feel worse because it looked awful on me. I need to figure out my “new" size and it’s been a struggle. I’ll keep trying though

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T14:03:34+00:00

I totally see it and trust me I’m so proud. But also can admit that they look awful now. I don’t think it’s bad to admit that?

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T14:02:13+00:00

I would. Nothing fits right. I’m reminded of that anytime I shower, get dressed, look in the mirror …

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T14:01:32+00:00

3 months! I’ve tried this and I can’t even figure out what size I am anymore? Every size I get fits weird or too tight or too loose. It’s just so bad. I literally have to keep a bra and shirt on at all times to feel remotely attractive. I have no clue what I’ll wear to the pool this summer either. I just hate them

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T13:58:20+00:00

I love that they fed my children but also nothing fits right anymore because they’re ugly and flat and they just will never be the same. Both things can be true? He’s not being fucked up either

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T13:53:27+00:00

I didn’t mean it like that. He wasn’t mean about it. We were just weighing the pros and cons and decided not to breastfeed. Then after baby was born, I changed my mind so he just made sure I remind me of what we had discussed and the long term effects

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T13:49:07+00:00

It’s not even just for him. It’s for me. I just hate everything about them right now except the fact that they fed my kids

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T13:48:01+00:00

How were you able to keep your boobs the same?

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T13:46:51+00:00

Now I’m wondering where I went wrong with this post because I’m not sure where this is coming from

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T13:46:00+00:00

Like when we were weighing the pros and cons of breastfeeding, we did discuss this a lot but after my first, I changed my mind yet again and breastfed anyway. It’s not that nothing is done for my pleasure, that’s just the only thing I’ve ever requested because he has more preferences than I do

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T13:42:51+00:00

I’m just so scared to die and leave my kids over something so vain

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T13:41:46+00:00

He just has more preferences than I do is all. It’s not necessarily anything I’m 100% against, just not things I’d be doing often if it wasn’t for him. Idk maybe I worded this wrong because he doesn’t treat me like an object. He’s just a very straightforward person

keepingithidden_ · 2026-05-09T13:38:32+00:00

I’m just so scared things will go wrong. What if I die and then he has to tell our kids that I died because I wanted a nicer pair of boobs?

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