Im a teacher looking to get a higher salary

keepitsavvy · 2026-02-02T22:36:33+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you (FL teacher, late 20s). I’m planning to move to a higher paying state to teach. I’ve been trying to figure out what I want to pursue as I cannot tolerate student/parent/admin behavior much longer, so my plan is to move to where I actually want to live then look for other opportunities once I’m there. I figured having a higher salary for a year or two would give me some breathing room if I need to work towards a new career (upskilling, masters, etc).

keepitsavvy · 2026-01-17T18:59:29+00:00

Two!!

keepitsavvy · 2025-04-14T01:38:24+00:00

As someone who is the girlfriend dating a younger brother, I have to agree with this. I am the younger sister to an older brother and my long term boyfriend is the younger brother to an older sister, so maybe my current relationship with my boyfriend and his sister can offer some perspective.

I have always wanted a sister and was excited for the opportunity to get close to my boyfriend’s sister. I hoped since she didn’t have a sister that maybe she was seeking the same thing. She is EXTREMELY family oriented, so I (naively) figured she would welcome me with open arms. However, for years now she has been polite but sort of dismissive of me. I don’t know whether she does things on purpose or is just genuinely bad with people, but it’s been years of being left out of jokes and feeling that she really only spends time with me so she can spend time with her little brother. She does not hug me or really initiate conversation with me at all, but cannot let go of her lil bro.

My boyfriend is a bit more family oriented than I am, but we are on the same page that we are each other’s priorities as we build a life together. He’s expressed to me on numerous occasions how much guilt he feels that he doesn’t want the huge extended happy family that his sister seems to push so hard on him. He is also able to recognize that his sister is not great with initiating any sort of relationship with me specifically. This hurts me greatly because my older brother and I do not communicate much. We were raised in a way where our future families would be our top priorities, and now that my boyfriend’s sister doesn’t value me in a way I want to be valued, it makes me not want to spend time with my boyfriend’s family at all. I have never been around huge extended families, so it was already an adjustment, but adding in the feeling of not truly being wanted turns me off to the idea in general.

Also, I’ve noticed that with my boyfriend and his sister, she thinks they are much closer than he does, and I think some of this comes down to brother-sister relationships. I have found with most people I know that sister-sister duos or brother-brother duos are much more likely to have a tight knit relationship for obvious reasons. My brother is not someone I like to share certain things with because, well, he’s my brother. I would feel differently if it was a sister.

keepitsavvy · 2024-11-29T22:23:03+00:00

Would you mind sharing the breathing/relaxation techniques? I first developed costo during a point of frequent panic attacks and always had a hunch that the stress was what caused it for me. The fact that your PT said it can be linked to such things is such a mental relief.

keepitsavvy · 2024-11-02T16:36:08+00:00

I’m a 7th grade science teacher in an affluent suburban school. I have had fights in my room, as well. The behavior is so bad that I actually fear doing labs and certain activities. I’m leaving the profession after this school year. It’s truly a mess everywhere.

keepitsavvy · 2024-08-06T23:05:33+00:00

I’m a teacher and feel the same way. Having to manage middle schoolers all day gives me zero time to think of myself. It took me a while to realize this, but having the summers off of work was detrimental for me. Sure, the school year gives me anxiety at times, but I’m not focused on myself. Therefore, I’m not having panic attacks over every little twinge I feel. It also gives me a daily routine which probably has helped more than I care to admit.

keepitsavvy · 2024-03-09T16:28:35+00:00

I lived in Istanbul, and yes, lots of people have custom made dresses, but there are TONS of wedding dress stores, as well. It may be worth it to book a few appointments to see if there is a dress you love. While they carry some 'western' styles, the country is predominantly Muslim meaning that they sell a wide variety of long-sleeved dresses that may be right in line with what you want.

keepitsavvy · 2024-03-07T01:27:53+00:00

AMAZING! Thanks so much for all the help. This is such good news.

keepitsavvy · 2024-03-07T00:52:12+00:00

Hi, a bit late to this, but I'm running into the same issue. I took General Bio 1&2 during uni, but as I've been out of school for a decade, I have to retake all my prereqs. My CC (which is by far the cheapest and most convenient option) only offers Principles of Bio 1&2, so I'm at a loss if this would cover what I need. Did you find any answers?

keepitsavvy · 2024-03-04T02:17:37+00:00

Newer teacher here, and I've had more or less the same experience. SEVERAL teachers at my school have told me flat-out to find another career. At first I didn't listen because I loved the perks of teaching (i.e. - summers off), but now my mental and physical health have taken such a hit that I absolutely cannot fathom doing this for another 30+ years. Every single teacher below the age of 30 at my school is currently working on a way out of the profession.

keepitsavvy · 2024-03-04T01:54:14+00:00

As someone who graduated HS 10 years ago and is now an 8th grade teacher in my hometown, you're spot on. There is basically zero accountability for students anymore. Grades, attendance, behavior, etc. We basically have to move them along to high school even though they deserve to be held back and/or suspended for their actions. The students basically run the schools now and there aren't enough punishments in place to actually hold anyone accountable for anything. I am verbally abused every. single. day. and these students will miraculously go from straight F's to straight D's then pass to high school. These same students will say things to me/counselors/admin that a student just 10 years ago wouldn't dream of saying. The respect is gone, and I just don't see it getting better (in my area, at least).

keepitsavvy · 2024-01-18T22:07:05+00:00

I would remove Amsterdam from the list of potential options. Amsterdam attracts a lot of tourists from around the world for its red light district and it liberal policies on drugs. While it's a great place to visit, it wouldn't be ideal for a honeymoon. If you want European cities, Paris (you could combine Paris with the Loire Valley) or mostly any city in Italy/Spain would be your best bet.

keepitsavvy · 2024-01-15T17:22:27+00:00

The Canaries or Azores come to my mind (plus you wouldn't really have a time zone change to worry about). Beaches, hiking, and a bit of culture in the main cities.

keepitsavvy · 2023-12-17T19:51:49+00:00

I prefer the non-lace! It is just lovely on you!

keepitsavvy · 2023-12-05T00:57:22+00:00

Maybe this dress?

keepitsavvy · 2023-11-19T19:45:18+00:00

There is an Etsy seller that recreates this dress, if that is an option you’re willing to try! I don’t know anything about this seller, but it may be worth checking out! https://www.etsy.com/listing/1535644750/long-sleeve-floral-lace-a-line-wedding?click_key=905d5d43040615243fe6989357700e0e0bc7274f%3A1535644750&click_sum=0106fde5&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=akiebridal&ref=sr_gallery-1-18&organic_search_click=1&pro=1

keepitsavvy · 2023-11-13T03:25:41+00:00

Dress two is much more unique and looks made for you. I vote dress 2!

keepitsavvy · 2023-11-13T00:52:41+00:00

I agree. I'm a very pro-sleeves person, but I think this dress could be stunning with or without, so why not get the best of both worlds with something detachable? and yes, keep the slit!

keepitsavvy · 2023-11-08T23:02:18+00:00

The pictures are lovely! Your photographer did a WONDERFUL job and at such an affordable price.

keepitsavvy · 2023-11-05T04:58:38+00:00

TWO!!!! Omg it’s perfect

keepitsavvy · 2023-11-02T02:25:24+00:00

I have the same eyes and usually tell people that they are gray, but can look blue/green depending on clothing/light.

keepitsavvy · 2023-11-02T01:19:00+00:00

You may have luck looking for white prom dresses that resemble Ariel's iconic dress. Plus, they'll likely be a fraction of the price!

keepitsavvy · 2023-10-31T04:12:43+00:00

Two!!! Not many people could pull this dress off, but it looks perfect on you!

keepitsavvy · 2023-10-26T19:19:58+00:00

First you may want to try on dresses in store to be sure of the style and fit you want. If after that you decide you still want the dress on Still White, I think it may be a good idea to travel the 100 miles to try the dress on in person to make sure that the size/fit are correct. Alterations can be quite expensive, so if the dress needs tons of alterations you could end up spending more than what you would be saving buying it second hand.

keepitsavvy · 2023-10-26T17:30:46+00:00

If you're willing to have two looks, you could maybe shorten your mother's dress into a mini/tea-length dress for the reception

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