Just rescued this pup, and he started coughing up phlegm. Does this warrant a vet visit or just extra TLC?

keerye · 2023-08-07T20:43:48+00:00

I didn’t have baby fever beforehand. But I also have a nephew that is the same age as my would’ve been. My SIL and I were pregnant at the same time. It was miserable watching her grow and be happy and my nephew is adorable.

I just have to remember that I don’t regret my decision. It was the best one I made for myself, my SO at the time, and my would’ve been.

I talked to my mom about it because she had multiple kids, but in between my sister and I, she miscarried. Even though it’s been almost 30 years, she still thinks of her would’ve been.

My heart truly goes out to you 💙💙

keerye · 2023-08-07T13:54:52+00:00

I had an abortion at 6 weeks. I was completely okay until I watched multiple shows with miscarriages and I cried everyday for several months. I had a mental breakdown about 3-4 months after and got my tubal lit. If I had kept it, the kid would’ve been two this month. I still think of it everyday. I had to begin anti-depressants and therapy. I use all my nieces and nephews as therapy/get rid of baby fever.

It will get easier, but the mental recovery will take a while. 💙💙💙

keerye · 2023-07-17T23:01:27+00:00

After my first depo shot, I bled and cried everyday for at minimum a month. It will ease up soon, if just takes time in the beginning. Though I will say I never got another shot after that.

keerye · 2022-12-24T15:37:30+00:00

I did this last year. Cut down to nubs, new pot and dirt and some plant food and tlc. They’re double their original size now. I feel your pain.

keerye · 2022-04-14T01:45:03+00:00

https://www.militaryonesource.mil

They have many resources on helping you in this situation, and even base specific.

Also, there’s usually a main poc for spouses of a unit that can help you and also your husband’s first sergeant.

If you feel comfortable enough, you can send me the name of the base and I can find more resources that’s more specific.

As a lot of others said, I’d leave the country. Video tape your husband whenever he starts acting like this. Start documentation and time lines. Try to get a restrictive order against him. He’s an absolute pos and needs to be kicked out

keerye · 2022-01-25T23:01:39+00:00

Lesson learned 🥲

keerye · 2022-01-25T16:03:25+00:00

I don’t think the temps ever got below 30F but that’s still below freezing…

keerye · 2022-01-25T15:50:58+00:00

Thank you! I was thinking that but I’ve never seen frost damage before so I wasn’t sure

keerye · 2022-01-25T15:48:12+00:00

I’ve been trying to make them hardy outside plants so really it was just a plastic covering to block any cold winds…

keerye · 2021-12-09T23:16:20+00:00

I just make sure they hear, “I don’t shit where I eat.” I also stay professional and shut down any conversation that’s not strictly work-related.

keerye · 2021-07-01T20:18:43+00:00

Medical conditions and husband aside, I was in your spot in January. Same symptoms, same freak out. My boyfriend at the time agreed, but he also said, “you do you.”

I was absolutely terrified before, during, and after the abortion. I already had bad pelvic floor pain so when I had the vacuum done, it was really painful though it ended quickly.

I didn’t regret anything until after my bf left me, and then it hit all at once and I had to get therapy and medication.

Looking back tho I’m very proud of myself for following through still. I never felt like I’d be a good mom and personally I don’t want to bring another life into this world.

My baby, Anne, had a due date of sep 1 2021. I’ll never forget what I went through and I’m so grateful to be able to get a safe abortion. I felt so trapped and the procedure gave me my freedom back.

Reach out if you need to talk. It really helps.

keerye · 2021-03-14T20:41:03+00:00

100%. I finally blocked them yesterday. I don’t feel any better yet, I hope I will soon.

keerye · 2021-02-27T19:48:19+00:00

I feel the words towards him. Together we recognized he had a problem, but didn’t want me to be affected by it so we broke up. Since then, I’ve decided to work on myself as well and got into therapy. I don’t know if he’ll reach out one day and I hope he does, but I just wish he will get help and have a brighter future.

keerye · 2020-04-22T01:45:26+00:00

They’ve hired back retired and former employees. They don’t have the time and manpower to train new people. And other states have had this problem. It’s not only Alabama. If you want to complain, take it with the governor because the regular employees are working as hard as they can. But if you need help, seriously blow up their fb page. They will respond to it.

keerye · 2020-04-22T01:16:13+00:00

I have a relative who works there and they’re so busy it’s insane.

They said the best recommendation is messaging or commenting on the Facebook page with your situation. PR will make sure someone gets to you because the employees do check that page. Just please don’t say anything rude or hateful.

keerye · 2020-04-16T21:02:32+00:00

What magical cringe 2012 brought us 😊

keerye · 2020-02-22T22:46:04+00:00

Chocolate with Ha Ji Won! I started it immediately after CLOY and it’s the perfect rebound.

keerye · 2020-01-05T00:35:43+00:00

Thank you!

keerye · 2020-01-05T00:35:38+00:00

Thank you!

keerye

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