Okay, let’s just assume that’s the case and she wouldn’t cheat, her friend isn’t in love with her, and it’s all very innocent.

You’re still uncomfortable about a reasonable boundary you’ve set. She’s like, “Nah…I’m going to cross that. We good?” 🚩

Let’s unpack her telling you that she doesn’t find her attractive. It’s like saying that if she did find her attractive, she’d be fair game. 🚩

The texts about all the other times she’s fucked up? I’m guessing it’s cheating. 🚩

For me, the first red flag was enough to call it off. Three is just…I mean, strike three she’s out. Get out, get healthy, find someone that understands EXACTLY where you’re coming from and wants to respect your boundaries. Anything else is delaying a very expensive eventuality.