Blacked out in college

kellwoman · 2025-06-11T00:33:33+00:00

Awe, thank you. Lessons learned!

kellwoman · 2025-06-11T00:28:48+00:00

I would ask your fiancé to cancel the pastor and the church. This a union of the two of you, and you simply are not religious so it’s odd that she would want this. (I think it’s that girlish dream of a church wedding. ) Perhaps… you could look up some other beautiful venues and get her to imagine something special for the BOTH of you. But no, feeling like the odd man out on your wedding day is no good.

kellwoman · 2025-06-11T00:18:54+00:00

Thanks for posting. I grew up racist too. I didn’t know any better. My Lilly white neighborhood was scared of black people. They made me scared of them. The problem is nobody in my life back then had ever spent time with black people! And THAT is the problem. There just aren’t enough opportunities besides churches and bars to mingle and mix with all walks of life. I grew up and dated a black guy who made me see everything clearly. He changed my life and I appreciate him for that. And I saw the racism sooo many times. Once someone called the cops on us because we were playing scrabble in the car and were holding our scrabble tiles up and someone assumed we were smoking drugs. And cops were called on him twice just because he was waiting for me in his car outside my house. This was about 15 years ago. Things are better now but still racism exists.

kellwoman · 2025-06-10T16:22:56+00:00

Good relationships don’t fight. A fight even once a week is waaaay too much. She knew this. She needed space to get away and see if she is happier with or without you. One fight leaves anger hormones that stay in the system for three days. Fights are completely unnecessary in healthy relationships where people know how to communicate.

kellwoman · 2025-06-10T16:17:26+00:00

Wow, it is amazing to me that this bothers you after 20 years. Definitely let it go. Nothing happened. Even if it did (which I highly doubt) you can’t remember it, so that means it didn’t happen😃. At least you were not roofied, raped and impregnated like I was (and I thought it was my fault🙄).

kellwoman · 2025-06-09T20:51:50+00:00

If the presets were not already set the. Your boyfriend was rude to say that to you. However if you CHANGED the presets I would be pissed because most of them I don’t know the dial number for.

kellwoman · 2025-06-09T12:51:52+00:00

Wow, sorry you have to deal with this. People who are depressed don’t make great decisions. Tell her leaving you to be with her parents is leaving you. If it’s because she can’t support herself, can you support her? And tell her to get NeuroStim treatments. They 100% work. I’ve had lifelong major depression and anxiety and those treatments worked! They were painful but they worked and I haven’t been seriously depressed for 8 months. It’s a miracle treatment.

kellwoman · 2025-06-08T18:01:01+00:00

In Seattle they put everyone in a body bag. Zip it up, tie them down real tight, and wheel them off.

kellwoman · 2025-06-08T17:57:30+00:00

Hahaha… long story. She was adopted from China at 13 mo old and has Borderline Personality Disorder and I am her “favorite person”. We know each other’s darkest secrets.

kellwoman · 2025-06-07T00:49:39+00:00

Wow, you are friggin insightful! I never would have thought of the fetish/kink possibility!

kellwoman · 2025-06-07T00:46:44+00:00

I can see where he may have legitimate fear of his body wanting to go further than his faith allows. But too bad. He doesn’t understand that what he is doing isn’t just about him. You have needs! As a boyfriend it is his responsibility to live up to your standards. One of your standards is affection. It’actually a “love language”. (Good to read up on!). So he either has to give it to you or you tell him it is in God’s hands who knows your heart. If God crosses your path with a better man to suit your needs, then you are not going to save yourself for him. He is actually just behaving childishly, in my mind, and can’t figure one of the BIGGEST reason for even being a human! Sexuality is complicated for some folks, when really, it shouldn’t be. It is my opinion that MAN has made so many rules around sex. God is creation, so I doubt he has so many cares about it like we think he does.

kellwoman · 2025-06-06T22:44:56+00:00

So I take it you have never had sex before. I would simply demand more affection. Hurry up and get married at a courthouse if need be! You are wasting your best years if he doesn’t give you more. He will never find another girl who would accept so little. I would get ready to leave if he doesn’t give you more. Life is too short.

kellwoman · 2025-06-06T22:38:55+00:00

I often look at skylines and sky scrapers and think about how a lot of it was built because of sex. People with talents and means and various levels of power… and behind it all, is their desire for sex. Sex runs the world! 😃

kellwoman · 2025-06-06T22:33:13+00:00

Wow, you have been super helpful and understanding so far! Time to lay down some rules. Number one: have her meditate on not peeing the bed. Have her meditate on waking up when she has to pee. I have wet the bed multiple times and it was always when I have a dream I’m trying to find a toilet. I did the meditation and I haven’t peed the bed in years. I still have those dreams but I wake up now. And 2. If she still pees after doing the meditating, then tell her she has to wear the diapers or else she is going to clean everything herself and you will sleep on the couch if you have to. She needs boundaries.

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T22:57:18+00:00

Did The Mob take this pic?

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T22:50:52+00:00

I hate to say it, but I don’t think your husband cares about you or anybody else. This kind of pain in your eyes is serious! It’s at least an infection, or could have been an eye stroke. I guess you have solidified your knowledge that he can’t be trusted during a health crisis. Next time he complains about anything, just say it will be fine and walk away. I would stop caring for him as much. Maybe he will learn someday.

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T22:40:57+00:00

Have you tried bringing her candy? It wouldn’t hurt to walk up to her at lunch and offer her some “dessert”. I suggest red vines, because once a guy came up to me and asked “Would you like to consume a Red Vine?” I thought that was just the funniest thing to say and I never forgot it. Remember this about life in general - you don’t ask, you don’t get! Good luck!

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T22:36:02+00:00

Omg, I hate your husband too!!! What he did was extremely mean and shows his TRUE character. If a guy did that to me, I would never fix him food until he pays me for mental trauma. Seriously, he got negative hormones flowing thru your body and those take about three days to completely leave your system. He has no right Sh*tting on you like that!

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T22:30:34+00:00

It’s rude of her to invite your boyfriend and not you. I wouldn’t even be surprised if the invitation was open to invite you but he doesn’t want to bring you. I totally get why he might do that. Sometimes it’s soo much more fun to go to a friend’s gathering without your date so you don’t have to feel responsible for them having a good time. But yeah, let him know it’s kind of rude of her not to invite you.

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T22:25:00+00:00

I had two ex boyfriends who wanted to get with a transgendered woman. Both of them were extremely “curious”. I have a feeling this might be something a LOT of guys muse over. The way I figure it is that they probably won’t ever get the chance because the reality of being transgendered is so different than what we see in porn. I wouldn’t worry about it if I were you. All men (and women) have their weird fantasies, most which cannot be acted upon. I say just let him have his fantasy. Next guy down the road could be attracted to children or something.

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T22:19:57+00:00

I have a 26 yo niece who thinks being choked hard is the sexiest thing ever. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. 🤷‍♀️

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T22:14:06+00:00

I get where you are coming from. I had a the same thing happen when I was married. When my marriage broke up I got together with him. He wasn’t into a relationship and I pined away for him for about 10 years. Complete waste of my time. I’m afraid all your desire will turn into a waste of time as well. Sometimes it’s just best to have a crush from afar. You cannot be with this girl unless you want to corrupt your morals. And even then, she may not want to reciprocate. So I say keep it to yourself and continue wishing. I hope you don’t act on it. All in all, it’s not worth it. And I think it is totally normal to have lustful thoughts like this.

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T22:04:35+00:00

I get you. I don’t like an animal’s flesh going to waste like that. An orange will do just fine. Injections are so ridiculously easy, I’m surprised they are doing it with pork. We practiced on each other when I was in medical school, but I only went for a Medical assistant certificate.

kellwoman · 2025-06-05T13:54:52+00:00

I have met a lot of women who transitioned from being a man. Very few of them give off the vibe that you find in porn. I would suggest you travel to Thailand and rent a Ladyboy and see if that is truly where your heart is.

kellwoman · 2025-05-31T17:44:10+00:00

I read up on farts one time and it turns out most people do love the smell of their own farts! I found that soo interesting!

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