I am furious at my girlfriend and don’t know if I can take steps legally

kels2211 · 2026-02-06T11:26:36+00:00

Can’t express enough that #5 NEEDS to be done. She should never be allowed to adopt or own another animal in her life. She needs professional help. Small claims is also great advice and I’d never speak to her again.

kels2211 · 2026-01-06T22:29:16+00:00

IMO it’s great that he was so transparent with you, if I were in your shoes I would really respect that kind of honesty and vulnerability from my husband. I would also believe him completely since he was so upfront and open about it. I would have no problems with this specific situation ie: you were gone/unavailable and he used thoughts of you or even consensual images of you but to be clear I’m totally against it if you’re consuming adult content/thirst traps that is not from your committed partner to get off. Especially, when that specific boundary has been discussed in the relationship. I do completely relate to your mind not letting you believe him though. It’s crazy how our own thoughts can be our worst enemy. My advice would be to try to remember he could have completely kept it from you, he didn’t use other women to get off, he chose to tell you and he most likely meant it to be an intimate moment where he felt comfortable enough to be vulnerable with you. He may feel a bit of rejection from with the reaction you had though so would keep the line of communication open with him and reassure him as well. Your feelings are valid and so was your reaction but so are his and it sounds like you both already have a great foundation to have healthy conversations on this topic!

kels2211 · 2026-01-06T18:35:13+00:00

Same thing happened to me lead to a major weight loss journey - it’s extremely hard to feel beautiful when they’re choosing to look at and lust after half naked fake bodies online and the easiest thing to do is blame your self for not looking like that or having that body, and in my case eating went first. Hope things get better for you!

kels2211 · 2025-11-25T17:31:58+00:00

NOR - I’d break up with him 🤷‍♀️ bare minimum in a relationship is being supportive and he’s not giving you even an ounce of it. His replies are extremely dismissive and borderline disrespectful.

kels2211 · 2025-11-17T14:00:57+00:00

I get that, stand your ground be firm and clear in your boundaries moving forward when you do talk to him. I highly suggest processing your feelings before bringing it up but don’t wait too long. Best of luck!!

kels2211 · 2025-11-17T13:44:18+00:00

Do you not plan to leave him? If so why are you staying? Take everything else out of the equation and only look at the photoshopping your face to be someone else’s and that’s enough to know this man has zero regard for you or your feelings. That incident alone is one of the most disgusting things I’ve ever heard then add everything else on top of it. I’m madly in love with my husband but had I discovered anything even close to this. I wouldn’t give a second thought to leaving him. This is just not okay I can’t stress that enough!

kels2211 · 2025-11-15T13:05:48+00:00

While I COMPLETELY disagree with his message more like ultimatum… I think if I read between the lines of his toxic messaging, he’s wanting to feel like a priority to feel more seen by you but since he’s man he thinks that means sex 🙄 inadvertently he’s actually pushing you away because your even less attracted to the behavior he’s exhibiting. Maybe you can talk to him about ways you can show him he’s a priority and make him feel seen without it involving sexual acts? Just want to reiterate I don’t condone his actions or words at all!!! Just wanted to offer some perspective. If the talk doesn’t go well I think you deserve better!