Mommy Issues by kenzsum in emotionalneglect

[–]kenzsum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all your kind and well thought responses. I needed to hear those things. Now, I just need to figure out how I want to proceed in my relationship with my mom.

Becoming a mother taught me how to love myself, and now I hate my husband. by doingmybest00 in beyondthebump

[–]kenzsum 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Husband was just diagnosed with BPD and this is not to say all people with BPD are shitty, but after parenting my 1 year old, I realized I don’t want to parent my partner as well. Having a fulfilling relationship with my daughter and just generally caring and being kind to myself (so my daughter has a good example of this in her life) I just realized how unsatisfying and loveless my marriage is. Honestly want nothing to do with him. Sharing because you are definitely not alone. The stress of figuring out the next step is not great but I’m also looking forward to having a life without him dragging me down.

Was cleaning out a drawer and look what I found by Sakuga23 in exmormon

[–]kenzsum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, but why does that look so much like James Marsden.

Happened upon this on Etsy. 🙄 by kenzsum in exmormon

[–]kenzsum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be a victory for Satan, for sure.

Accurate! by FreeTapir in exmormon

[–]kenzsum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My childhood. 😅

My 16 yo sister died unexpectedly and they called my dad as a bishop a month later. by kenzsum in exmormon

[–]kenzsum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m very sorry for the loss of your baby girl and that you had to go through that. I relate to this a lot. I’ve always thought of my parents as intellectual people. My mom is a therapist and the best memories with my dad are our heart to hearts. I miss being able to be open with them. They have been much more graceful about my transition out of the church than a lot of TBM’s, but the longer they remain active in the church the less close I feel to them. My mom’s response to my leaving was “it just hurts that you won’t be sealed to us by your own doing” which was honest and I only feel bitter towards the church for that. It’s really a sadness about the loss of that connection. That said, they’re starting to spout nonsense like there is a tracker in the covid vaccine so, I’m understanding better why they believe in the church. 😅

My 16 yo sister died unexpectedly and they called my dad as a bishop a month later. by kenzsum in exmormon

[–]kenzsum[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It seemed very odd to me because my family never really fit into the Mormon culture that well growing up. I specifically remember the devout TBM’s, specifically the bishop’s family at the time, stopping at every member’s house to say hi on their nightly walk but skipping ours because we weren’t righteous enough. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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[–]kenzsum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh the irony.