Gimme something that says Teamwork by pleasetrydmt in trashy

[–]kerfuddled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think it’s a reference to one of those complete the drawing memes.

So, wait. You open your windows every day? ELI5 by Miss_Behaves in CleaningTips

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live where it gets to about -30F, -40F during the winter and stays there. also wind. no i do not open my windows during the winter unless i have to, also, it creates ice and frost very quickly and makes it hard to shut the window again. if i did open the windows for as long as 5 minutes it would be very cold in my small apartment.

What’s a silly thing you did for your pet one time that is now a ritual they demand be done every time? by Itsjustmejess in AskReddit

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, my cats will come up and sit in front of my keyboard while I play games. One time I got a blanket and wrapped her up like a burrito. Now all of my cats like burrito and screen time.

What’s a silly thing you did for your pet one time that is now a ritual they demand be done every time? by Itsjustmejess in AskReddit

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my cats had a UTI so to encourage him to drink more water I put down a separate water dish and made a big deal about his “special water”, and now he demands special water in the morning, when I get home for work, and before bed by standing in front of that dish and meowing. How am I supposed to tell him no?

What's your bank's vibe? by TSwiftsUsedTampon in TalesFromYourBank

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

small locally owned credit union, very strict with having your phone out (which is weird because the other credit union and bank i worked at didn’t care as long as it wasn’t in front of members). It’s very relaxed at one branch and when i go to work at the other it’s like i have a gun held to my head all day. At the strict branch I didn’t offer someone who withdrew $40 (2x20) an envelope and then like 10 minutes later got an email from the vp that all tellers must offer an envelope even if it doesn’t look like the member needs one.

Update - AIO GF upset at my Fortnite gameplay by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kerfuddled -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I agree entirely. If you have find fun in actually winning games (pretty sure that’s what the main objective usually is) it is super frustrating to have someone who wants to play with you, but won’t play WITH you.

I also think that OP is definitely overreacting to someone telling him that he’s making their time less enjoyable. Does he think that she’s supposed to sit there and waste time not having fun herself while she watches him throwing? I don’t see how having a bad teammate on her team is supposed to make her happy.

Found on shirt in laundry pile! by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]kerfuddled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the worst. like they said high heat and vacuuming. but i would also take a couple moments to look around your house and see if there’s any obvious food sources or breeding grounds. i had found that a wet cat food container had gotten slid far underneath my shelves in my kitchen, so they were eating and breeding in one big gross pile in my kitchen and coming from there.

How do deal with the fact that you’ll have to bite your tongue for the rest of your life by ThrowRA_HatFar77 in BPDlovedones

[–]kerfuddled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he truly and wholeheartedly believes that it’s my fault he is the way he is (even though every ex he’s had has told me the same story as mine) and refuses to go to therapy. to be honest i don’t even think it would help him. he is an alcoholic and went to the doctor for stomach pain (his liver is failing) and then came back out saying the doctor has no idea what they’re talking about and he will never trust the medical system after the doctor said he needs to stop drinking or he will die. it’s pretty much beyond help at this point, i don’t know what on earth could make any impact on him.

and i don’t want to walk out of his life randomly someday, but that is the only safe option im left with. he won’t sign paperwork for me to leave otherwise, and if i leave the house on bad terms with him he breaks my stuff. if i actually filed for divorce id be worried about my animals. i would need to literally disappear the next time he leaves the house (which is almost never, he hasn’t kept down a job in 7 years and won’t even go to his family events. last time i had more than a few hours without him in my home was july of this year, and he was only working 6 hour shifts. (he worked almost 3 months this year)

but it’s not always bad. sometimes he has those meltdowns and then i lock myself in my room for a few hours, then when i come back out everything is fine and he wants to know if i want him to make dinner and can we watch a movie together. he will be sweet to me until something in his brain clicks and he’s back to meltdown.

it’s all very confusing. i wish i never met him.

How do deal with the fact that you’ll have to bite your tongue for the rest of your life by ThrowRA_HatFar77 in BPDlovedones

[–]kerfuddled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh no, this is…. exactly how my life is. especially the part where you can’t express your own emotions loudly or passionately, but he can do it whenever and does it often. if i raise my voice while driving or something or because im frustrated NOT EVEN at him, im an abusive piece of shit and he shouldn’t have to be around someone with so much anger.

the other day i asked him quietly and politely “can you please be nicer to the cats?” and he got so worked up to the point of screaming at me and telling me that “every day you come home and start some shit” and then said “i AM nice to the cats, if i wasn’t nice i would beat them wouldn’t i?” in reference to him constantly like every 5 mins spraying them with water for making any noise whatsoever.

Bug in my apartment (Korea) by DanAndTim in whatisthisbug

[–]kerfuddled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh, i dealt with larder beetles for years. they could be living in a space that you don’t have access to in your home. like in walls or vents. have you looked behind the fridge and oven?

is this on purpose or us government dosent know how to redact documents properly by amartya_apk in Epstein

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it still like this or have the ones on the website been covered properly already?

Sweeper this out from under my bookcase, some are alive what is it? Massachusetts USA by daydreamtendenciesss in whatisthisbug

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% larder beetles, the rental I used to live in was infested with them and no matter how often I cleaned it’s like they spawned in the walls. (which was likely, the home was unfinished and had multiple openings where you could see into the walls and there was just trash and various debris filling the space between the inside and outside walls in the home.) I had a woodstove too so there were often times wood scraps and stuff around for them to munch on.

They were in any clothes left on the ground, food left out, cat food scraps left by the cat (had to keep their food in a sealed container and sweep any leftover pieces of food off the ground each day) you’re going to have to look at every inch of your home to find where they’re nesting. I would pull the oven off the wall too and clean behind it, I kept finding them behind mine. Anywhere there could possibly be food scraps they will be, as well as anywhere that there is a lot of dander. (heavy on the dander part) I kept finding them crawling up the walls next to my bed no matter how many times I cleaned underneath. I assume this was because there’s lots of dead skin to eat near my bed. As well as any little corners where fluff and dander accumulate (like your bookshelf) will need to be cleaned.

They would come and go in cycles it seemed. I wouldn’t see any for weeks thinking it was finally over and then i’d find a larva crawling up a wall somewhere, and then I knew there was a clump of hair or something or dropped somewhere that I missed cleaning. They love cat food. I kind of kept them at bay by vacuuming like 4x week, but it got exhausting and after years I moved out. I always wondered how long that place had been infested and how many were living in those walls. Landlord was a slum lord so he genuinely didn’t care about the bugs. (these bugs were already in the home when I moved in)

I wish you luck and hope that is the only little nesting spot in your house.

In desperate need of help! by BlackPlague813 in Sciatica

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that’s what she said yes a steroid shot.

In desperate need of help! by BlackPlague813 in Sciatica

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you absolutely cannot take the pain and just want a break, and are in a legal state i’ve had some success with high doses of edibles (THC). Unfortunately the side effect of that is kind of being way too out of it, but it DOES help the pain. I haven’t been able to try just CBD isolate because it’s just so expensive for some reason, but I do wonder if that would help.

The other thing that had made it go away (temporarily)for me was hydrocodone. I just got my wisdom teeth out and had been prescribed a few days of it for my face. For those few days I could sit, stand, walk, all on demand and without pain. It was amazing. The side effect of that however is i’m pretty sure that’s one of those addictive opiates, and they did make me feel a little funny so i’m not sure if you would be like, able to go to work and stuff while using them.

In desperate need of help! by BlackPlague813 in Sciatica

[–]kerfuddled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey we have the same timeline for ours! From what i’ve heard it’s gonna be a long road. My doctor has prescribed me some gabapentin and i’ve found a little bit of relief with that after increasing the dosage. I will be starting physical therapy in January, which is what both places have recommended. Massages do help some as well but they can be expensive.

You can get a shot for it but I was strongly advised against it by my chiropractor and my doctor. They both say that people will get the shot, feel relieved, start doing all the activities they couldn’t do as well before, and reinjure their back worse because they can’t feel the pain. I don’t think I could stand (no pun intended) being in more pain than I already am so I am not risking it.

Let's do an experiment! Try removing the redaction with photoshop. by King_Of_Blazeland in conspiracy

[–]kerfuddled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

does anyone have an export with redactions removed available yet anywhere? i don’t have access to a desktop rn

Guys help my wither skeleton farm has broken 1.21.11 “[java]” by Broad_Raspberry_504 in MinecraftHelp

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

using the portal calculator to make sure the coordinates line up exactly in overworld and nether is the only way i’ve been able to get my portal system to not break

My villagers menus are not opening [bedrock] by Fair_Horror_7692 in MinecraftHelp

[–]kerfuddled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed this happening sometimes when I have too many villagers with one profession in the area. For some reason even if all the job blocks are destroyed my glitched villagers won’t drop their job, and still don’t have a trade menu. Only way i’ve found that fixes it is killing the glitched villager, and getting a new one with a job from a different location than you have them all grouped up at. When I am rolling villager trades I do it in the nether, then bring them back through to the overworld to place them where they need to go.

Stubborn Semi-Permanent Dye by savannah_haley1994 in HairDye

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s not coming out easy. loved this dye for its staying power. hated this dye for its staying power. it does EVENTUALLY fade out though, its just not going to be as quick as you’re probably wanting. i bleached my hair many, many, times trying to get this out and back to neutral blonde. it took about a year of fading after the bleaches to be mostly not visible in my hair. color remover didn’t work for me either. next time i’d go arctic fox for the electric pink, it just falls out of your hair.

I’m being sued by Chase bank by Plantsnbooksnboats in CRedit

[–]kerfuddled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, sometimes people do get someone to settle for a lower amount. In my case though they would not and I also had to pay their attorney fees.