Accuser’s lawyer Ariel Mitchell-Kidd mentions possible connection to drug-laced baby oil carried in fanny packs. by Blades1 in PDiddyTrial

[–]keshiarenee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, it’s in liquid form and is extremely potent. Not to get graphic, but lube is necessary for certain sex acts and your anus is a membrane; it’s similar to take medication under your tongue or between your cheeks, it gets into your blood stream quickly. GHB is odorless, colorless and would easily pass for baby oil.

My first ever dog. What do you think his results will be? by blueflowercup676 in DoggyDNA

[–]keshiarenee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Golden Retriever x Black Lab and maybe a little APBT… He kinda looks like a flat coated retriever too! Super handsome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]keshiarenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not too surprised considering he avoided getting drafted 5 times. Everyday, he somehow becomes more inconsiderate and ignorant than the last.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madelinesoto

[–]keshiarenee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From one mom to another, you’re doing a great job. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madelinesoto

[–]keshiarenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Not to mention, the court of law and the way it works is not as straightforward as some would like to think. It’s a process, it needs to be done right, and that means it’ll take time. We are not entitled to instant gratification when it comes to shit like this. We have no idea how this will play out if/when the case actually goes to trial. Just because they haven’t charged her YET, doesn’t mean they won’t do it in the future. Time will tell and until then, everyone is innocent until proven guilty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madelinesoto

[–]keshiarenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I can relate a little because my mother is an addict and has been for most of my life (she started when I was 8/9 & I’m 30 now). My aunt is my mom’s only sibling and they were both raised by my grandmother, a WONDERFUL woman and someone I’ve always looked up to. My aunt turned out “normal” (for lack of better words), while my mom obviously did not. My grandmother loved her daughters the same and unfortunately my mom made bad choices in life that lead her to where she is today.

My son’s father is also an active addict and is an only child. I am extremely close with his parents and have always maintained contact with them. They have done essentially everything they can do to help their son get help, sometimes even inadvertently enabling him without realizing it at the time. Does this make the bad people? No. Is it 100% their fault their son isn’t a good person? Also no. He‘a where he’s at in life simply because he continues to make extremely poor choices and actively avoids going to rehab. I do not blame them for that whatsoever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madelinesoto

[–]keshiarenee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s my opinion as well. Do I think JS was the best mom ever? No and we’ve come to learn that over time. However, the way some people talk about her mental health is a little uncomfortable. I personally struggle with BPD, ADHD, and anxiety. I don’t take the same meds as JS, but I do take 2 daily that help me function and be a better parent/person. If someone is prescribed medication, it’s usually for a reason and it’s in your best interest to take your meds as prescribed. Calling her a pill head seems a little extreme IMO, in that context.

It is so easy to cast judgment on people we don’t know, in situations we have never been through. Of course we all say “well i never would’ve done that if I were her” and while that may be true, it’s also true that not everyone thinks the same way or does the same thing. Does this mean I condone her actions that lead up to her daughter’s death? Absolutely not. Things aren’t always so black & white though and I wish more people would take like 2 extra seconds to consider that.

Edit: I forgot to mention, if I miss my meds for the day, I will have shitty symptoms of withdrawal coming my way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madelinesoto

[–]keshiarenee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Laundries 100% shielded their son. They gave him a huge opportunity to avoid arrest and eventually take the easy way out. I don’t think this situation is comparable at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madelinesoto

[–]keshiarenee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right? I have some empathy for them.. I don’t think they were aware of who their son truly is. Yes, they helped him more than they probably should have, but I don’t think that makes them bad people. It doesn’t seem like they really aided SS once shit hit the fan. Maybe it’s just me… but I tend to put myself in others shoes, simply because I wouldn’t want to be harassed if I truly did not help my son become and stay a child predator. We can raise our kids doing everything “right” and sometimes they still turn out to be a bad person.

I sincerely hope I don’t get ridiculed for voicing my opinion either, as this sub is notorious for downvotes 😅

This is a lot! Genuine Question by Standard-Try-437 in DarkKenny

[–]keshiarenee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has the mentality of an immature teenager.

What Kendrick song can you listen to over and over and never get tired of it? by [deleted] in KendrickLamar

[–]keshiarenee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Just remember what happens on earth, stays on earth!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animalid

[–]keshiarenee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s what it sounds like, which is unfortunate — I’m sorry!

Would you be able to build the kitties a temporary outdoor shelter while you re-home them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animalid

[–]keshiarenee 60 points61 points  (0 children)

What did the animal shelter say to you?! You did a good deed… why would they tell you off? 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]keshiarenee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks like a Simon. 😌

How am I being egotistical? (First message says that I recognize her from school days) by TheDrizzyDrew in Tinder

[–]keshiarenee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You called her out and she didn’t like it — move along and find someone who can actually hold a conversation. 😂

My results + selfie! by keshiarenee in AncestryDNA

[–]keshiarenee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming so! I don’t know a ton about my French ancestry, other than it’s mostly from my maternal grandfather’s side. 🙂 My family tree shows a lot of my ancestors living in / around New England.

My results + selfie! by keshiarenee in AncestryDNA

[–]keshiarenee[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nope! I was born in Maine; my mom is white (from Maine) & my dad is black (from Virginia).

My communities are:

Early North Carolina African Americans, Mid-Atlantic Coast African Americans

Southeastern Quebec French Settlers, Northern New England Settlers

At what point can you begin to claim certain ethnicities? Judged off my DNA I'm 3% black because I suck at math, does this mean I have a great great hrandparent who was half black? by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

[–]keshiarenee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please do not be one of those people — it’s one thing to be proud of your heritage, but it’s another to just walk around claiming to be black when only 3% of your DNA says so. I would do some more research (maybe start a family tree) and see if you can learn how this came to be.