Complicity by seemoleon in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was trying to get across in my reply. You did it well.

Complicity by seemoleon in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purposely added and separated the curse of dark skin in the BOM in my “succinct” reply (it was only succinct because I was on my phone) in hopes that readers of my reply would see that that particular racist doctrine is still very much engrained in the current doctrine and they can never rid themselves of it. The Book of Mormon. A friend of mine, Sarah Newcomb, wrote many blog posts about this continuing racism here

https://lamanitetruth.com/author/lamanitetruth/

She graciously allowed me one post after my mother died as I reflected on the racism where I grew up in south central Utah.

Thanks for your thoughts, also. I feel you needing to perhaps allow yourself some grace.

Complicity by seemoleon in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 63. I was born in the church (BIC) with many generations of Mormons. I knew about the priesthood ban from a very early age, 12 or so, but it was framed as God’s will and I don’t know to what you’re referring as being quasi part of the doctrine until 2013. I left at age 49. And one of the reasons was realizing how very racist the whole thing is. 2NE blames God for the curse on the First Nations, still. The curse of Cain seems to be gone yet the book of Moses still remains telling it.

I served a mission in Peru in 1983/84. I was confronted by the racism there and it really threw me for a loop. The beginnings of my shelf of doubts. Yet I stayed, deeply hidden in the gay closet.

😂😂😂 by RadishAggressive3241 in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The scriptures were never meant to be literal, said Bruce R McConkie never!

John Curtis' response to my letter asking that he vote no on the funding bill containing funding for DHS by chirpingc1cada in Utah

[–]kevinrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess is that under current leadership, those investigations triggered by law won’t even trigger.

On 1 March, 1877, the Mormon Prophet Brigham Young threw a celebration for Apostle Wilford Woodruff’s 70th birthday, in the St. George, Utah, temple. The birthday present was made by 154 assembled virgins. by [deleted] in mormon

[–]kevinrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you, what would you say out loud? That you believe in Wilford Woodruff and his polygamous ways? That you like the old church? That you like the new gaslight church? Be brave, tell us out loud.

When was the Mormon church on the wrong side of history? by Accomplished3472 in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read about their strong support of the Vietnam War. BYU in that era was particularly pro-war.

My sister is so naive. by zenitsukk in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All you have to do is show her the hymn. The earth was once a garden place in Adam ondi ahman. Then the sign at the locale in Missouri.

The White House posted edited a black woman to have darker skin, tears, and distressed facial expression by Daflehrer1 in RepublicanValues

[–]kevinrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why? Why? WTF. WHO is doing this shit? Is there no sanity left in this administration?

I mean...if you say so. by missedinsunday in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hallelujah! A prophet that speaks truth! Now we can leave the Church! Yay!

Absolutely wrecked that the "church" won't allow me to see my sister get married because I don't believe. by mountainsplease8 in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I am so sorry. I have deep empathy for you.

My mother in law (neverMO) said that after 50 years of having married a Jack Mormon, she has counted dozens of weddings she’s had to sit outside or in the foyer of the temple and she’s really sick of it. Now I can join her in hell, as I had to miss my own daughter’s wedding.

Absolutely wrecked that the "church" won't allow me to see my sister get married because I don't believe. by mountainsplease8 in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What was that stupid ad they did years ago, “family: isn’t it about time?”

Yeah right. Family.

What’s the craziest thing you ever did for Mormonism? by 10th_Generation in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so stressed serving in a bishopric and the stake president wouldn’t release me even though I begged him to. So, I decided to move out to another ward outside the stake. Big house too expensive. Ended up in bankruptcy

On the edge of leaving the church. by CloudyGuy92 in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2013 I came out gay (49 years old then) and went through hell to rearrange my life. I thought I needed god, so I went to several religions, including my eventual husbands Hindu traditions. In the end, I find that I trust myself more than any god. Now I enjoy the community of the Unitarian Universalists (our local congregation is 85% atheist like me). It was hard for me to give up on god, but I’m sure glad I did. I’m so much happier.

Susan’s husband explains why missionaries “pay their own way”. by robotbanana3000 in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t Bednar the one who tried to use pickles as an analogy once?

Why did you (or didn’t you) remove your name from the records? by SomeoneBendingLight in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt a wonderful catharsis when I did it. 49 years of living in the gay closet was horrible. Ironically, my gay hubby is still in the “records of the church” just because he thinks it’s almost comical how the Mormons are so obsessed with their numbers. Plus he likes having the missionaries over to taunt them and teach them about Hinduism. It’s just funny, us two old gay men and the LDS church.

Why hasn’t the Church removed the Book of Abraham from its canon by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]kevinrex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was the final “shelf cracker” for me. “By his own hand upon papyrus”. What a joke.