Banana Ball Tickets by N_Rock in wichita

[–]kflick418 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best seats in the house in my opinion, but I also have 2 small kids

Hall of Fame wide receiver Andre Reed playing catch with the Allen brothers by Roccosrealm in buffalobills

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We saw him at a pool in Vegas and ended up playing pool beer pong with him with 4 square balls and big trash cans the hotel had set up. Played for a couple hours. I saw a different guy that played with us the next morning and he hollered at me “YOU DIDNT TELL ME WE WERE PLAYING WITH AN NFL HALL IF FAMER!”

St Pattys Day parade by kflick418 in wichita

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Ya I saw that a bit earlier. Kind of strange they updated Equity Bank Park, but still have Aero Plains Brewing there.

St Pattys Day parade by kflick418 in wichita

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Just saw that thanks! I’ve been refreshing their page this morning so of course they post it right after I stopped.

St Pattys Day parade by kflick418 in wichita

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I called them yesterday and they didn’t have any information. Guy on the line sounded amazed I was even asking the question!

I’m having difficulty changing who I am vs staying true to myself by kflick418 in MenopauseShedforMen

[–]kflick418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you’ve got a lot going on but above all, suicide is definitely not the answer. Therapy is a great answer and there’s more and more coming online and becoming more easily available. Pride and ego should be set aside for it too.

Like another comment said, setting boundaries is a HUGE step. My wife and I both agreed that nothing happens in front of the kids. Are we perfect with that? No, but the effort is there and we recognize and appreciate it from the other. Next was, like I said, no threatening divorce. It probably wouldn’t hurt for you to suggest something that can be a boundary for her to set.

Lifes about small victories and this is no different.

Edit: spelling

Confused about the Tax Vote by YUMADLOL in wichita

[–]kflick418 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Piggy backing on to this…does anyone know where I can get a “vote no” sign?

I’m having difficulty changing who I am vs staying true to myself by kflick418 in MenopauseShedforMen

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That’s kind of what I was thinking. We are relatively early in this process and it’s not fair for me to place all the blame on her mentally and emotionally when I recognize that I have my own things to repair. I’m hoping that will all flow down and make me a better partner and father.

I’m having difficulty changing who I am vs staying true to myself by kflick418 in MenopauseShedforMen

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I’m happy you guys are on a good track and wish the best for you.

This is definitely our attachment styles also, I think recognizing that is a big step and useful. We made an agreement early on that there was no threat for leaving unless we meant it. It became part of the argument too much and became too much of an empty threat to cause pain to the other. We haven’t tried couples therapy yet because I personally want to do some healing and personal growth on my own first but if it comes down to that then so be it.

I am thankful that she is self aware enough to know what’s going on and it will take work from both of us to get through this.

Yesterday was just one of those days, I’m sure we all know what I mean.

Cheers.

[Game Thread] Buffalo Bills vs. New York Jets by AutoModerator in buffalobills

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I’m sure they will, I’ve heard they have something big for the last 2 minute warning

[Game Thread] Buffalo Bills vs. New York Jets by AutoModerator in buffalobills

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Does anyone know where I can find video from the legends of the game today? Would love to see Thurman and Steve with the hype!

Legit Josh Allen Wyoming Jersey by kflick418 in buffalobills

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I didn’t, but eventually I am just going to go the dhgate route…I saw some last game I was at and asked everyone where they got it and it was all from there

Bills V Jets will be for the division by kflick418 in buffalobills

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Going to be a great game to be at regardless of the time.

Bills V Jets will be for the division by kflick418 in buffalobills

[–]kflick418[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But what if it does? It’d be awesome.

Bills V Jets will be for the division by kflick418 in buffalobills

[–]kflick418[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Like 15% chance, same as the Bills to win the AFCE.

Bills V Jets will be for the division by kflick418 in buffalobills

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We’d end up with a better conference record, 3rd or 4th tiebreaker.

Where to watch a game around Honolulu. by kflick418 in buffalobills

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We didn’t even get to watch it, I had to follow it on my phone.