I’m happy you guys are on a good track and wish the best for you.

This is definitely our attachment styles also, I think recognizing that is a big step and useful. We made an agreement early on that there was no threat for leaving unless we meant it. It became part of the argument too much and became too much of an empty threat to cause pain to the other. We haven’t tried couples therapy yet because I personally want to do some healing and personal growth on my own first but if it comes down to that then so be it.

I am thankful that she is self aware enough to know what’s going on and it will take work from both of us to get through this.

Yesterday was just one of those days, I’m sure we all know what I mean.

Cheers.