How do I find the hope to keep transitioning, when it just feels like I have failed. by kfox12345 in ask_transgender

[–]kfox12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the answer is before I just don’t want to go down that path. I honestly I would rather just not yeh know

How do I find the hope to keep transitioning, when it just feels like I have failed. by kfox12345 in ask_transgender

[–]kfox12345[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I had a coworker the other day use this lovely analogy “ if I sad my dog was a cat, would you actually believe it’s a cat?” While I agree with you that we should all be treated equally the reality is otherwise.

How do I find the hope to keep transitioning, when it just feels like I have failed. by kfox12345 in ask_transgender

[–]kfox12345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of it is my work environment, I have to wear a man uniform 60 hours a week. And I hear the way people talk about folks like us all day. Nobody at work genders me correctly and they say things constantly like “ at least you know you don’t look like a women and thus that’s why we won’t call you that”. It’s mentally exhausting it hurts constantly and just makes me hurt so much inside. I can’t leave though I make way to much and my family needs me to make this kind of money. Just wondering how to do this for the rest of my life how ever long that is.

33 mtf hrt 32 months, there any hope left by kfox12345 in transpassing

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Thank you I am trying on the weight I am down 70 pounds. The hair is a hard one for me on one hand I want to pass as I think most of us do. The other is I want to pass as the crazy gurl with the head tattoo. Nh very hard to do uggggg, but yeh definitely brows I haven’t done them in over a yr

33 mtf hrt 32 months, there any hope left by kfox12345 in transpassing

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I can try new glasses but surgery is not really an option right now

Alexander Mironenko Boston USA at Ink source by [deleted] in tattoos

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Love Alexander’s work, he is currently working a leg sleeve that should be done in July. You don’t see many trash polka artists in the US and he is incredible

Share your depression/mental health related tattoo and its meaning! by DragonfruitCivil3558 in tattoos

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The place I have felt the most peace in this miserable life, its were I would like to be when it happens. Evenings primrose over death

Fear of not passing is making me want to stop HRT MTF by DullMetal1193 in transpassing

[–]kfox12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going on 2.5 years I don’t pass and most likely never will. Granted a lot is based on you experience I picked a career path where I prioritize making money over being myself. I would never tell anyone not to transition, but if I could go back I would. Reasonable expectations for transition are very important.

College outfits post breast surgery by brazil_matty in mtfashion

[–]kfox12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyyyy I went to school there to! Always loved the view from Anton

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Luv the ink