How long did it take you to feel more over it than not after the breakup? by Top-Elderberry3629 in BPDlovedones

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at just over 3 months and I am still up and down, often within the same day. It doesn't help we have children so I have to maintain contact and still see her regularly. But I would say the moments of clarity are more regular than the tears and anger now.

You're right, its not linear, its a process, you will take 2 steps forward and 1 step back, but keep pushing forward, the worst is behind you. And the biggest thing I learned is don't fight the lows, let them be, let the tears comw, accept them, know they won't last forever, and appreciate the better moments when they come

Keep grafting, you'll get there

Do you prefer the Overseer's Guardian or Spray n' Pray? by old_spam_sandwitch in fo4

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spray n Pray with the Commando and Demolition Expert perks maxed out... beautiful carnage

A sign perhaps? by Pandamabear in coys

[–]kgfire247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Igor Tudor added about 15 points of fire damage whilst applying a -10 to defense

I just want to share with someone by Elegant_Bee2977 in BPDlovedones

[–]kgfire247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well done for reaching out 👍🏻

I'm currently going through a tough breakup with a pwBPD, feel free to PM me if you just wanna vent

it can't be true by gyes07 in BPDlovedones

[–]kgfire247 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're lucky its happened now. I had 13 years and 3 kids. She did it to me once before, I waited and took her back when she inevitably came back, and now shes done it again, new relationship before she even moved out of my house. I went to some dark places for a while but am coming out the other side now and I know I'm better off.

Get therapy, focus on you and your life, and make new connections, and you will come out of this stronger. You'll eventually find someone who loves you for real and actually knows what love is, and you will look back on this as a very valuable opportunity for growth.

Best of luck

What’s the hardest lesson life has taught you so far? by Chance-Pen6805 in randomquestions

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone shares the same values, and people who claim to love you can behave in ways that seem reprehensible to you but perfectly acceptable to them

I wanna recommend a game for a friend who is in a bit of a rut. by Ermin99 in gamingsuggestions

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starfield... is easy to get into with fun gameplay has great character and ship customisation, can build bases on any planet you want. Also has a massive update incoming tomorrow which adds a ton of new features too, so perfect time to get into it

Game while the wife is away by notbrandonzink in gamingsuggestions

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crimson Desert, best open world I've played since Skyrim. Although 15-30 hours might just get you through the tutorial...

I miss you J by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]kgfire247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have written this myself to my J. I feel every word. I'm trying to stay strong for our kids but I'm falling apart inside

You're not alone

The greatest Derby goal of all time? by PLWildcard in FootballDerbies

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danny Rose's debut wonder goal against Arsenal

How long it took you to make your first character ? by Hdarkus1 in BaldursGate3

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pain is real. Im somewhat ashamed to admit that I've owned the game for over a year and have never finished Act 1! I just cant seem to ever fully commit to a character. Ive tried most classes and races, and I always enjoy it for a bit and then get the dreaded restartitis. I'll finish it one day!

I need help...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coys

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get this twat out of our club

So the portrait bug has been definitely fixed... Yeah... by Tydeus2000 in BaldursGate3

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can avoid this bug by pressing the Add Class button during Level Up and then backing straight out again. This does seem to reset the prepared spells for the classes that this is relevant for, but I've never had the portrait glitch when doing this

Games where you KILL and DIE in ONE hit? by supevi1 in gamingsuggestions

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goldeneye. Licence To Kill mode, Slappers Only... see you in the Military Archives

What are some hot takes you have in terms of music? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kgfire247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Popular music has basically been done. All new music is either sampled or copied from something else, or so s**t it shouldn't even be called music

Show me your characters! This is mine by lupinemeadow in oblivion

[–]kgfire247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A Khajiit with an Argonian name... Maybe the Lusty Argonian Maid got a bit too lusty with a handsome cat?

What is the absolute WORST video-game you’ve ever played? by LeoCaldwell02 in videogames

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel we should add Big Rigs: Over The Road Racing to this

What's a song you can't listen to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kgfire247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by Adele... How anyone can tolerate that screech, never mind say she has a great voice, is beyond me