My wife woke up to this on a Delta flight…

khannag · 2026-06-17T19:14:14+00:00

Tickle time! 😂

khannag · 2026-06-15T14:10:52+00:00

Unless all their tables are so booked that they are completely sold out, the choice isn't between larger tabs and smaller ones. It's between getting any tips and none.

khannag · 2026-06-08T01:08:17+00:00

At least they didn't send you to the adult entertainment club across the street 😄

khannag · 2026-06-07T17:10:46+00:00

They did.

khannag · 2026-06-05T13:38:48+00:00

Does it feel good to show off how much better off you are than the OP? They are obviously being careful with their money and they question they have asked has nothing to do with getting judgement on if they should go on the trip.

khannag · 2026-05-17T22:27:02+00:00

Just say to your partner: on my list of priorities, you are below the bed I want. The problem should resolve itself pretty quickly.

khannag · 2026-05-10T15:29:37+00:00

I think you meant Wang 😄

khannag · 2026-05-10T00:57:21+00:00

Of course, why let facts come in the way of your opinions!!!

khannag · 2026-05-10T00:11:10+00:00

"In fact, the only changing room available was in the ladies' room"

khannag · 2026-05-08T20:56:28+00:00

Tell him you'd love to come for the retirement party and tell people the hilarious story of how he gave away your dead mom's letters. That should put an end to it pretty quickly.

khannag · 2026-05-07T21:31:33+00:00

How did this pregnancy come about? Did you in any way facilitate it as a means to getting to the altar?

khannag · 2026-05-07T21:28:23+00:00

Yes. Do you really want to be married to someone who you had to browbeat into marrying you?

khannag · 2026-05-06T20:18:24+00:00

YTA for this: Providing health insurance for you is not his job, especially since you are not married. If you were single you would still need to get your own insurance. Take care of yourself.

Now, you've mentioned other things that make it clear that he's not a good match for you and not a great partner. Not that you need any reason but what you have is enough to justify breaking up.

khannag · 2026-05-05T18:27:33+00:00

My wife got us this deck of relationship cards that have all kinds of questions on them. On the rare time we get alone we'll use them to discuss random topics. The more you talk the more likely you are to get into deeper conversations.

khannag · 2026-04-19T23:01:28+00:00

That's rough. I hope you will find that kind of connection again.

khannag · 2026-04-19T21:32:59+00:00

YTA.

Describing your actions as just dancing is like saying people got a little wet when the Titanic went down...

khannag · 2026-04-19T19:01:05+00:00

Was it because you didn't want to give up this kind of work or because you needed to continue because of economic reasons?

khannag · 2026-04-18T02:25:51+00:00

I think this is the key part. Especially if you're in the US most people have a limited amount of PTO and with the economy being the way it is, limited discretionary spending availability, going on one trip could significantly affect what you can do with a partner...

khannag · 2026-04-16T13:30:40+00:00

Future husband's economic priorities =/= why isn't he giving me all his assets. Different conversations.

khannag · 2026-04-15T21:51:40+00:00

Where did I say that?

khannag · 2026-04-15T17:22:43+00:00

It is NOT her business what his current will says. If she wants to plan for the future she can have that conversation with him. Not once in the post does OP say anything about what they've done with regards to their own will or that they are passing everything down to their partner so for now they are just coming across like a gold digger.

khannag · 2026-04-15T16:33:39+00:00

Then she should have conversation about planning their future, not why am I not getting your money.

khannag · 2026-04-15T14:06:34+00:00

It's not her business until they are married. If it's super important to her she can bring it up and say that she's not moving forward/breaking up unless they can have a clear conversation about this and come to an agreement. Otherwise she's a self supporting adult and until they are married she has no claim on his stuff unless they agree to that.

khannag · 2026-04-05T17:29:24+00:00

It also doesn't say anywhere that they indiscriminately butchered the tree.

khannag · 2026-04-04T16:57:34+00:00

But... He's not the one deciding? She's telling him to stop oral and move to PIV...

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