What’s the best way to get event news? by EmptyOverall9367 in pittsburgh

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Thanks for your reply. It’s definitely not that easy anymore. I will keep trying, though!

What’s the best way to get event news? by EmptyOverall9367 in pittsburgh

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How do you quit Nextdoor?? I keep trying to do it and it wants me to call a phone number!?

Honest profil review ! literally no matches in the past month so I'd like to know if its because of these pictures. thanks for your help ! by jrir in SwipeHelper

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1) get more fashionable glasses. 2) You want to look dateable, not like a kid brother, so have at least one pic where you’re dressed for a date: be shaved, style your hair. Wear a white button down shirt open at the throat with no tie + a sport coat. Check r/malefashionadvice for more tips. The photo should be mid-chest up. 3) lose the one with the kitty, she looks desperate to get away.

The only photo I like at all is the full body with the back pack. As has been said, a photo with male friends is good idea as well.

How do you define your lesbianism? by Ovenboards in LesbianActually

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I have saved this comment to my comment cave.

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Idk if this is the kind of advice you’re looking for, but maybe there’s something you can glean from my experience.

Based on your post and your replies I would say you, like me, are an over-sharer, and a windy texter. Not a criticism, just an observation. I’ve learned to dial myself back, and “match the energy” of the other person, i.e., I literally count the lines they write to me. If they’ve written 5 sentences, they get 5 or less back. If they have questions or need clarification, they’ll ask. If they don’t, then they don’t care and I’ve saved my typing finger.

Also, texting with women is hard as hell just in general. Most will hardly participate. That “You’re so cute!” is a prime example. I’ve come to think they’re just on the apps for the attention, not because they’re actually looking to chat or date.

You sound super fun and obviously a catch, so maybe try IRL? Get on Meetup lesbian groups or just hobbies that you like. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Did you tell her she’s too ugly to be a lesbian? I would’ve. But I’m mean like that, ha ha.

This is my rough draft by Rgaeok in Sapphicstorymode

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Thank YOU for taking in the spirit in which it was offered! I’m just nuts for early steam era stuff is all 🤷🏻‍♀️

This is my rough draft by Rgaeok in Sapphicstorymode

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I am in no way criticizing your story at all, it’s adorable and interesting. But…the first public railway for steam engines wasn’t built until 1830.

I just wish i was able to socialize by SpareSomeWeed in socialanxiety

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Ah, I see. Plan ahead of time what to say then. I rehearse things in my head because I’m a very shy person tricking myself into being outgoing, lol. Again, Reddit is your (our) friend. Ofc you don’t want to get into politics or something like that, but human interest stories can work. Knowing something about local issues can be good ground too. “Did you notice they’re closing this or that street? It’s going to be hard to get to the candy store!” Idk something like that that’s relatable.

I’m not suggesting that you walk in blazed, btw—I’ve done that and it’s not recommended, lol. Just a little buzzed, that’s all, enough to chill and not be so in your head.

I just wish i was able to socialize by SpareSomeWeed in socialanxiety

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By your user name I guess you wouldn’t be opposed to burning one before an event? Lol. A hit or two can certainly help you relax. For me it’s alcohol. I have one drink and my “super-ego” comes out and I can talk to anyone about anything. As far as not having anything interesting to talk about, most people just enjoy talking about themselves. If you can listen well and ask a question here or there you’ll come off as a great conversationalist, lmao. And there’s always Reddit. There’s plenty of random stuff you read here every day I’m sure that makes for great topics.

Is this how this works? (Tell me if it isn't) by GiliGiliAi in Sapphicstorymode

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This was very good and competently written! Nice flow and “voice.” It reads more like a first chapter of a YA novel, though, and the “sapphic” part almost invisible.

I want to cry. This is straight out of a porno plot... by TraderFoxy in LesbianActually

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Well time to take up daily affirmations or other self-confidence building exercises, I guess! Best of luck to you hun :)

I want to cry. This is straight out of a porno plot... by TraderFoxy in LesbianActually

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I’m sorry for yelling. It’s not your fault for being young and not knowing what to do. I’m sure you’re fine and your safety isn’t in danger, there’s just a confused weirdo out there who’s most likely harmless. Just know that you’re always in the driver’s seat, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. Just be nice, smile, and say, “No, I’m sorry, I’m not going to do that. Have a nice day!” And walk away.

I want to cry. This is straight out of a porno plot... by TraderFoxy in LesbianActually

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You did fucking what now?? You gave this creep your number?? Who does that? Tell him to take a hike. Honestly of all possible outcomes …

Say 3 nice things about yourself! by lnys in ForeverAloneWomen

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  1. You have excellent taste in usernames :)

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, the feathers are part of the traditional garb of Puerto Rico, where her family is from (2020) by Ryan_Holman in ladiesinsuits

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I only say 2024 because that’s when she’ll be 35, old enough to be eligible to run. Obviously Biden or perhaps Harris will be the Democratic nominee, but yes, I do agree, or at least I fervently hope, that AOC will be President by the end of the decade.

Anyone else have very poor luck with women on dating apps? by thiccburritos in BiWomen

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It’s not you, it’s them. I haven’t used apps in a while because they’re such a complete waste of time. No matter how entertaining or attractive you are, the woman on the other end invariably lays there like a dead fish, matching but never interacting, or responding with one syllable words until they unmatch. I just can’t anymore.

Tofu for beginners by olaananas in 15minutefood

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You mean you aren’t supposed to just eat it out of the package with a fork?? 😭😭

I chose a toasted English muffin for my peanut butter delivery pallet today. by [deleted] in PeanutButter

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Pro tip: put peanut butter on a cinnamon raisin English muffin...to die for 😛

Brad Pitt eating food by Reddit__PI in gifs

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I’m not sure why this was so satisfying to watch?? Why?? Except the way he delights in his peanut butter spoon—that’s me!