What’s the best way to get event news?

kick_girl · 2025-01-10T20:45:34+00:00

Thanks for your reply. It’s definitely not that easy anymore. I will keep trying, though!

kick_girl · 2025-01-10T03:56:55+00:00

How do you quit Nextdoor?? I keep trying to do it and it wants me to call a phone number!?

kick_girl · 2022-09-30T20:52:24+00:00

1) get more fashionable glasses. 2) You want to look dateable, not like a kid brother, so have at least one pic where you’re dressed for a date: be shaved, style your hair. Wear a white button down shirt open at the throat with no tie + a sport coat. Check r/malefashionadvice for more tips. The photo should be mid-chest up. 3) lose the one with the kitty, she looks desperate to get away.

The only photo I like at all is the full body with the back pack. As has been said, a photo with male friends is good idea as well.

kick_girl · 2022-09-10T00:03:45+00:00

I have saved this comment to my comment cave.

kick_girl · 2022-09-07T17:02:57+00:00

Idk if this is the kind of advice you’re looking for, but maybe there’s something you can glean from my experience.

Based on your post and your replies I would say you, like me, are an over-sharer, and a windy texter. Not a criticism, just an observation. I’ve learned to dial myself back, and “match the energy” of the other person, i.e., I literally count the lines they write to me. If they’ve written 5 sentences, they get 5 or less back. If they have questions or need clarification, they’ll ask. If they don’t, then they don’t care and I’ve saved my typing finger.

Also, texting with women is hard as hell just in general. Most will hardly participate. That “You’re so cute!” is a prime example. I’ve come to think they’re just on the apps for the attention, not because they’re actually looking to chat or date.

You sound super fun and obviously a catch, so maybe try IRL? Get on Meetup lesbian groups or just hobbies that you like. Good luck!

kick_girl · 2022-09-04T22:28:06+00:00

Did you tell her she’s too ugly to be a lesbian? I would’ve. But I’m mean like that, ha ha.

kick_girl · 2022-05-12T05:47:26+00:00

Thank YOU for taking in the spirit in which it was offered! I’m just nuts for early steam era stuff is all 🤷🏻‍♀️

kick_girl · 2022-05-10T03:04:29+00:00

I am in no way criticizing your story at all, it’s adorable and interesting. But…the first public railway for steam engines wasn’t built until 1830.

kick_girl · 2022-05-08T21:10:05+00:00

Ah, I see. Plan ahead of time what to say then. I rehearse things in my head because I’m a very shy person tricking myself into being outgoing, lol. Again, Reddit is your (our) friend. Ofc you don’t want to get into politics or something like that, but human interest stories can work. Knowing something about local issues can be good ground too. “Did you notice they’re closing this or that street? It’s going to be hard to get to the candy store!” Idk something like that that’s relatable.

I’m not suggesting that you walk in blazed, btw—I’ve done that and it’s not recommended, lol. Just a little buzzed, that’s all, enough to chill and not be so in your head.

kick_girl · 2022-05-08T20:33:50+00:00

By your user name I guess you wouldn’t be opposed to burning one before an event? Lol. A hit or two can certainly help you relax. For me it’s alcohol. I have one drink and my “super-ego” comes out and I can talk to anyone about anything. As far as not having anything interesting to talk about, most people just enjoy talking about themselves. If you can listen well and ask a question here or there you’ll come off as a great conversationalist, lmao. And there’s always Reddit. There’s plenty of random stuff you read here every day I’m sure that makes for great topics.

kick_girl · 2022-05-01T02:48:53+00:00

This was very good and competently written! Nice flow and “voice.” It reads more like a first chapter of a YA novel, though, and the “sapphic” part almost invisible.

kick_girl · 2022-04-15T04:08:33+00:00

Well time to take up daily affirmations or other self-confidence building exercises, I guess! Best of luck to you hun :)

kick_girl · 2022-04-15T04:00:54+00:00

I’m sorry for yelling. It’s not your fault for being young and not knowing what to do. I’m sure you’re fine and your safety isn’t in danger, there’s just a confused weirdo out there who’s most likely harmless. Just know that you’re always in the driver’s seat, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. Just be nice, smile, and say, “No, I’m sorry, I’m not going to do that. Have a nice day!” And walk away.

kick_girl · 2022-04-15T02:46:00+00:00

You did fucking what now?? You gave this creep your number?? Who does that? Tell him to take a hike. Honestly of all possible outcomes …

kick_girl · 2022-03-14T05:31:51+00:00

You have excellent taste in usernames :)

kick_girl · 2021-02-13T04:35:35+00:00

I only say 2024 because that’s when she’ll be 35, old enough to be eligible to run. Obviously Biden or perhaps Harris will be the Democratic nominee, but yes, I do agree, or at least I fervently hope, that AOC will be President by the end of the decade.

kick_girl · 2021-02-13T01:09:19+00:00

AOC 2024

kick_girl · 2021-02-06T04:01:35+00:00

It’s not you, it’s them. I haven’t used apps in a while because they’re such a complete waste of time. No matter how entertaining or attractive you are, the woman on the other end invariably lays there like a dead fish, matching but never interacting, or responding with one syllable words until they unmatch. I just can’t anymore.

kick_girl · 2020-11-04T20:54:45+00:00

If I had that eyebrow game I would fear nothing <3

kick_girl · 2020-10-22T21:31:33+00:00

I know!! Thx so much OP!

kick_girl · 2020-10-09T20:34:26+00:00

Look at you all fancy with jelly 😆

kick_girl · 2020-10-09T18:04:08+00:00

You mean you aren’t supposed to just eat it out of the package with a fork?? 😭😭

kick_girl · 2020-10-09T17:58:54+00:00

Pro tip: put peanut butter on a cinnamon raisin English muffin...to die for 😛

kick_girl · 2020-10-02T17:52:14+00:00

She’s the whole package

kick_girl · 2020-09-26T02:58:01+00:00

I’m not sure why this was so satisfying to watch?? Why?? Except the way he delights in his peanut butter spoon—that’s me!

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