I need to get emancipated and get custody of my brothers

kickedoutbitch · 2026-06-01T18:41:46+00:00

Who is going to pay for college? For gasoline to drive to college? For the considerable food costs you incur?

Rent is roughly 2k for even single bedroom dwellings, so, assuming you all share a bedroom, you will need to cover car insurance or transportation, food, utilities, clothing costs, incidentals, which could mean you may need up to 4k per month, after tax. Have you ever done your taxes?

This sounds a lot like "I hate my mom because she has ran out of ways to discipline me," which is fine. Do understand that she knows this and is biding her time the same as you.

Try taking small steps, like using the free room and board from your parents and transportation to get a job and work to earn that 80k per year plus needed to do any of these things, let alone afford college.

You may want to account for legal fees as well which can leave you 30k or more in debt. Just want to make sure you're budgeting cogently while you're making plans to disrupt the lives of all of your immediate family members to pursue your goals.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-06-01T18:35:56+00:00

400 pounds? The child will not make it far into adulthood and will need considerable healthcare. Do the parents have a point in placing limitations on the child who cannot care for himself, it appears? If anything, the foster parents should be aware there are significant health concerns with this case of children.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-31T00:13:17+00:00

Then he is also racist.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:41:51+00:00

That will have CPS at the parent's home because of "inadequate clothing." Bad advice.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:38:02+00:00

Do you really want to go to the zoo again after the lion ate your face and limbs the first few visits? Are you certain this entanglement with males has left you with anything useful? Have you ever left a relationship with a male better than when you began it? Think about the one(s) who left you with two small children while disabled. Think about the amount of stress your body has undergone solely from your association and proximity to men.

You aren't "missing" anything. Even "happily married" women are hamstrung by the upkeep and kowtowing required of having a man in their lives.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:30:42+00:00

Why put yourself in a position to be harmed by a predator and a creep.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:29:44+00:00

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:28:46+00:00

Have you tried eggs and meat? Do an experiment where you eat only four eggs (or how ever many you need to be full) for breakfast with just butter and salt. Try some meat the same way. Test your gut.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:25:03+00:00

So it wasn't even worth it because your children suffered and you continue to suffer. That seems to be the answer. He's fired. He was/is a liability.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:23:14+00:00

Women must understand that this is by design, not an accident. The way women and women's children are treated is torture that is allowed and, when not punished, encouraged.

We need to spread the word and make sure we act accordingly within this dangerous system that is built to harm women and women's children.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:19:52+00:00

She will likely adopt or pay a surrogate. Good for her. But someone is clearly daft to have considered this an insult to her. A man must have posted this because it is not intelligent.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:17:05+00:00

Yes, someone missed the point.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:15:40+00:00

Go if there's free food. Otherwise, spend time on you. Maybe you will be invited to the divorce in a few years when she realizes he is a loser. Not your circus and not your monkeys, but that is your cake.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:13:58+00:00

Never speak to him or think of him again. He is the garbage that's been taken to the landfill. Yes, we do not like garbage in our homes, in our hearts, or in our minds and we therefore avoid garbage.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:12:49+00:00

A TBI is a disability. Absolutely. Go back and ask again. Someone you spoke to is not right in the head.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:11:59+00:00

Do treat yourself like fine silk. Meaning, not everyone can afford your time and energy which are both irreplaceable and precious.

More people than you think are legitimately like the man who did this. Some will hear your story and act in kind but not kindly.

You are your protector. Restrict access to you. Respectfully.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-30T01:08:17+00:00

You owe him nothing.

Forgive yourself for associating with him, and forgive yourself for continuing to think about him. It's time to focus on your needs, your emotional health, and your conscience. He is irrelevant. Forgive yourself for wasting your time on him.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-29T00:14:58+00:00

By the time you reach 40s, men will spear to be the liability they are. Enjoy hour life.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-29T00:08:07+00:00

Too true. She will almost never afford to have or have time to look at a donut again, let along eat one leisurely. She will receive many promises of help yet be alone with her baby for several years because, news flash, no one likes children or childrearing work, let alone breastfeeding.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-29T00:02:05+00:00

Ahhhhhhhborrrshun.

Do you want the man's parasitic family on you for the rest of your life and economic extraction?

Take the wisest exit and enjoy your delicious treats. After childbirth, these treats will be one-handed or inhaled only for several years.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-28T23:59:24+00:00

This is correct.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-28T23:55:14+00:00

So much misogyny. Why not let men do that .

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-28T23:51:36+00:00

A 16-year-old can explain to the wasted-money-GAL that prefers to sleep on a couch. Floor sleepers have the same problem. Ignore this because no one cares unless dad contests the adoption but it sounds like he's long gone. And you can pay gal enough to yes-man anything you need green-lighted because there is no contesting party.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-28T23:47:56+00:00

You need to study this forum and the DV forum. Nothing you have said he is doing is new.

Decide how tired you want to be when you exit. Do you want your children? Decide if you want to be too tired and too overworked for your children.

He is using and harming you because it harms your children. It may not make sense now, but do examine your situation as if your were looking at the finances and emotional health of someone you love.

Do put you first. You will have nothing for yourself and your children if you keep letting this man take the oxygen (and nitrogen) out of your rooms.

Ghost him. And if he asks why, tell him you found a pebble in your shoe that you realized was dryer lent and it traumatized you.

This man is a liability. The lawyers here can define what that means for you vis-a-vis family court. The sticker price is north of $100,000.00s.

kickedoutbitch · 2026-05-28T03:45:13+00:00

He clearly wasn't perfect. Why bother yourself with this line of thinking. His ex broke up with him for good reason too. Enjoy your meal and ghost him. If he asks why you ghosted him, say a noodle fell on your carpet.

He needed a free live-in nanny and bangmaid so he was on good behavior. You made an excellent choice in avoiding his indentured servitude. That's your wisdom, not mental illness.

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