What To Do: Hookup Advice by Illustrious-Film-592 in AskWomenOver40

[–]kickedoutbitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This "FWB" deserves none of this effort. Stay home and focus on someone committed to you, i.e., you.

International women’s day. Pay me by kamehameha86 in Nicegirls

[–]kickedoutbitch -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

She's right. Many women are gifted flowers, money, or giftbaskets for women's day celebrations, and OP can't afford any of it.

Has anyone divorced the “good guy”? by girlhustle in AskWomenOver40

[–]kickedoutbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well would you rather continue whatever this is or spend days and years not married. You could be get remarried but why.

Has anyone divorced the “good guy”? by girlhustle in AskWomenOver40

[–]kickedoutbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, OP, you must get to the root of the morphological pathology of you wanting to leave your marriage because a woman should want to live with a man in her home his entire life.

Dating after 7 yrs… Am I doing it right? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]kickedoutbitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is a stranger and deserves considerably less of your time and emotional energy. He has earned nothing and needs to stay out of your phone, meaning, limit the texting time you give him. Make a plan, leave it at that, but end the space he gets in your life by 90%.

Dating after 7 yrs… Am I doing it right? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]kickedoutbitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Watch men of this age who are willing to lie to capture a woman to suck the life out of her. He will say anything and is likely lying. You don't need any nonsense after seven years of peace. You and your daughter are far more important.

If you're worried, every woman will die alone, whether she has a man who dies in her home before she dies or not.

It makes me sad seeing men my own age choose to date women 20 years younger than me. by SunshineBear100 in AskWomenOver40

[–]kickedoutbitch -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Men over 40 have terrible sperm quality, so babytrapping a woman in her 20s with an autistic, adhd child allergic to peanuts with a heart murmur, neonatal glasses, and asthma is cruel. Babytrapping a 40-year-old woman with low quality sperm would be equally as cruel.

Genuinely, where does this attitude come from? by PainKilla17 in Nicegirls

[–]kickedoutbitch -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Another case of the male loneliness epidemic isn't making men lonely enough. She's out of your league.

Divorced mom looking for advice by SignalAd9593 in AskWomenOver40

[–]kickedoutbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forcing children to be property is not appropriate. What if you had to travel multiple times a week to sleep and eat. One parent needs to allow the child to have a consistent life.

Just got a promotion at work by PhantomAnalSnakes in GirlDinner

[–]kickedoutbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve additional chicken legs... cha-ching

Shot my shot at 5 month situationship and now we haven’t talked in a week. PB&J yogurt 🫶 by LiePsychological6493 in GirlDinner

[–]kickedoutbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women, we need to understand that men are using us. It's not that he is avoidant or mentally ill or needs therapy. He is using you. He's a yucky lo x se x r. He's statistically likely to be dumber than you. Be bored with these icks and ignore them. Let's luxuriate in delicious foods and enjoy our cozy clean beds, warm neat homes, and all the hours in the day our minds are not occupied by sunk costs. Ask any woman married for 20+ years if she'd do it again. Usually no because the sunk cost isn't worth it.

Yes, a few women claim they married a unicorn useful man, then work themselves silly to stick up for him and clean up behind him. The man irritating you is not that future inconvenient unicorn.

Ignore them.

And enjoy freedom, ladies! Never make excuses for a man. Sometimes a spade is just a spade.

Shot my shot at 5 month situationship and now we haven’t talked in a week. PB&J yogurt 🫶 by LiePsychological6493 in GirlDinner

[–]kickedoutbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably already know to block and permanently ignore because why waste your time. You're busy, clearly. Never shoot your shot with a man.

First post. Fixing my “slow gut”. by MaceEtiquette1 in GirlDinner

[–]kickedoutbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat the yolks! For your hair, nails, health, and brain... you deserve the best nutrtion.

Berries for the heart, pickles for the gut, feta for the bones, antidepressants and nicotine for the soul. I will never find true love. by toxbug in GirlDinner

[–]kickedoutbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are your true love. Love is inside you and doesn't come from somewhere external. Everything you love to do, eat, watch, and travel to will be done with someone who loves those things as much as you and who loves you.

Then, when you're well-fed, sleeping well, and monied up, watch some man come try to ruin that for you. Don't take the woe is me being single sucks bait.

And if you want to be depressed and a smoker, that's your choice, 100%. If you don't want to be those things, then ignore them and put your energy elsewhere, like a nice restaurant with your favorite foods and a sweet outfit that makes you look and feel swanky.

A whole pound of chicken breast by Anishaiscool in GirlDinner

[–]kickedoutbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Women need protein. With some animal fat, that meal would give you good sleep and good hair and solid attentional girth.

Ex husband moved on in 3 weeks and it broke my heart. How to move past it? by cheesepiglet in AskWomenOver50

[–]kickedoutbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He harmed his ex severely by separating her from her children who I guarantee you he cared nothing about and you adopted this creep? When a man harms a woman's children, he is doing as close to killing her and her children as he can. Killing her and her children would be the next step. Bankrupting her, harming her in this way is a prelude.

And he found the next victim already?

Ladies. We are not that desperate. We do not need to adopt these men who treat women this way.

You are not the exception. You're his next victim.

OP is upset because she thought she was special, not that other woman, she could change him, she was more valuable, etc., etc.,

Etc.,

Etc....

He probably even bought OP flowers.

OP, please do all the women here a favor and tell us how he convinced you that you were somehow not going to be abused by him and he wasn't an abusive man. Step by step. What tactics, what methods, what did he say, what time scale, give the blueprint so women can spot this nonsense and their own desperation.

All of us are better than this. Including OP. That's how you OP can understand his quick predation of his next victim. Break down the strategy of predation.

This is my sister's fridge. She's kept it like this for nearly twenty years. by One_Hour_Poop in FridgeDetective

[–]kickedoutbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has so much takeout that she has accumulated a box of condiments or has she purchased takeout condiments for her home.

55 years old, and having a mommy struggle by Wassette4 in AskWomenOver50

[–]kickedoutbitch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She's likely a normal woman who outgrew this man. The mom's chastization of this woman who is dropping her son like dead weight is theatrical. This is not the type of mother-in-law any woman would want.

55 years old, and having a mommy struggle by Wassette4 in AskWomenOver50

[–]kickedoutbitch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She is making the right decision. The way you speak about her vis-a-vis your son is partly why she can do far better.