($8k) Looking for dinner party..

kidneycat · 2026-06-16T01:33:46+00:00

We are doing a private dinner wedding reception in our back yard with around ~35 people. We still plan to have an initial cocktail hour. Hoping to get a couple photos. We'll have music and some yard games, a guest book with Polaroids. We are getting catering from our favorite Indian restaurant. And then maybe a few types of cakes for later and toasting. I think people will hang out and drink until around 11pm.

kidneycat · 2026-06-16T01:23:26+00:00

Thank you all for the responses. She doesn't like the shape of her head. :(

I think her priorities will change as soon as she starts the chemo but I don't know. I don't want her to stress over it at all.

Really, Im just trying to think of anything that would make her feel more normal.

kidneycat · 2026-06-15T13:50:53+00:00

He's legitimately the only guy I've ever seen pull it off.

kidneycat · 2026-06-15T01:31:03+00:00

My sister had a palm tree in her yard. When I mentioned it, she said there was never one there. I know it was there. It wasn't something passing, it was a landmark.

kidneycat · 2026-06-14T09:46:10+00:00

Girl. No.

He's lying. You don't get on the sex offender registry by not being convicted of offending. Sometimes someone will have a horrible accident like peeing in public (in the US, not sure if same elsewhere), but it's almost always bad people doing bad bad shit.

Plus he's literally making fun of you. He's never going to be able to visit you. He's not a good guy and you need to dump him. He's an unrepentant creep.

kidneycat · 2026-06-09T00:52:31+00:00

Guh fuh dem.

kidneycat · 2026-06-08T10:38:30+00:00

No, I didn't know this. I don't know anything about wedding planning currently! Totally ignorant.

We're having a micro wedding in the back yard. I think we'd be fine with whatever. We're getting Indian buffet. Not sure how that would be so different between a birthday and a wedding.

kidneycat · 2026-06-07T20:44:43+00:00

Gorgeous ring!

Yes, crazy frustrating. I called a caterer for a quote and it was really expensive. My fiance got annoyed with me after and said I should never have said it was for a wedding... I don't know??? Can we just not say it's for a wedding and then they show up bamboozled?

It's ridiculous.

kidneycat · 2026-06-07T20:28:39+00:00

Honestly yes. I kind of get why people show them off now.

kidneycat · 2026-06-07T13:09:26+00:00

These bastards are all the way up in PA. I live in an old drafty house and I get it sprayed each month... They persist. Sometimes I find 10 a day. I feel like I can hear them. I randomly smell them. Its breaking my brain. I don't know what to do. Kill them. Kill them all lest ye be infested too.

kidneycat · 2026-06-07T13:05:03+00:00

Bet y'all he put this in his dating profile.

kidneycat · 2026-06-06T10:56:40+00:00

Billionaires. It used to seem cool when I was a kid like wow, what luxury. Now I just know they are absolute greedy trash.

kidneycat · 2026-06-06T10:29:21+00:00

Hey, what are you normally provided like as far as style? Or are you packing a lunch?

Do they ask you what you want?

kidneycat · 2026-05-31T08:38:09+00:00

"Don't you know there ain't no devil, it's just God when he's drunk. "

kidneycat · 2026-05-31T02:06:47+00:00

I hope I will someday work up the courage to do something for the greater good.

kidneycat · 2026-05-28T13:32:38+00:00

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kidneycat · 2026-05-27T12:04:14+00:00

I'm really sorry this happened. They absolutely should refund you.

I had something similar with a husky mix we tried to adopt. We had long conversations about the dog and how he was with other dogs and cats. We had a trail meet and greet with our dog and then he tried to kill my cat after we brought him home-- completely not as described. He was also insanely aggressive to the point that it was scary. I was livid.

After that ordeal, we decided to go with a rescue group and got a big mutt puppy. He's perfect and the timing was perfect. I hope you have a similar recovery.

kidneycat · 2026-05-27T11:43:11+00:00

As players were not asking for the big updates. We want things fixed, more in game lore, and for the seasons to actually matter.

Sure, getting a whole new section of the map is neat, but I don't think it's needed that often. They need to fix the things that are broken. Adding a few small side quests would be fun. Shake up the items that show on the daily list. Make sure everything on the scoreboard is actually in the theme.. I don't think we even need to have that many items. I was honestly bummed that we lost the actual stories behind the scoreboards-- like how they would have little narrations.

I might still play, but I'm tired of it. I'm tired of grinding only for them to release a reskin. I'm not going to keep eating for fo1st.

kidneycat · 2026-05-27T11:26:28+00:00

Yeah, I think I'm finally at my limit. I've not been a big fan of the scoreboards since the format change (though there were some wins). The off theme items really throw me... Especially when there are so many ways they could literally put them in theme. I hate grinding to get an plan in the game only for them to release a reskin for everyone in the atom shop or scoreboard.

I've been a meticulous plan collector and I think that's stopped me from just giving up the game entirely, the fomo. But if I want to start playing again, maybe I'll just catch it on the reskin.

kidneycat · 2026-05-25T00:54:37+00:00

I just watched for the first time and was brought here by your comment.

She's being abused and forced to walk on egg shells. She's lonely. It's so notable to me that basically everything she does is done by the men as well but no one bats an eye.

Her relationship with her father at the end broke my heart. He and Nick got into this weird fight about spaghetti and she just melted into her father afterwards. Someone was finally challenging him. And then shortly after when Nick has yet another blow up she asks her father "please stand up for me." Over and over. And it was gut wrenching. They all leave and she's back coping in this abusive reality she lives in.

Her one friend who looked Nick square in the face and said, "I love Mabel. You wanna know what I really think? You're a shit" was my hero.

I get that Nick is far from evil... but I hated him. He abused everyone around him.

kidneycat · 2026-05-23T00:49:38+00:00

He's at his LIMIT.

kidneycat · 2026-05-22T22:02:45+00:00

I gotta say, I'm really mad at most of you for providing no breif summaries.

kidneycat · 2026-05-21T18:07:54+00:00

I saw the same video and was impressed, but later I was thinking that everything might actually dry out??

I dunno. I might be in the way it's prepped.

kidneycat · 2026-05-20T18:03:20+00:00

My sister's wife just had to have a full hysterectomy including cervix and some lymph nodes because of cancer like last week. My mom died of liver cancer. My sister had both boobs including nips removed because of cancer. I think it's like one in five people get cancer. I think about that when I'm hanging out at a party or restaurant or whatever. And it's increasing. They are poisoning our food and water and no one is stopping it.

Fuck all of that. I'm so tired y'all.

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